When I first came out, I worked in a hardware factory in Shunde. In the second year, I was deceived by my classmates to engage in pyramid schemes. Then I went to Zhuhai to work as an electronics factory. Nine years later, I came to Guangzhou and stayed in Guangzhou for nearly nine years.
I have been working outside for 20 years, and only I know the ups and downs during the period. When I was doing pyramid schemes, I went to the fields to steal vegetables because I had no money to buy them. He was arrested for not having a temporary residence permit; I met a boss who ran away. Of course, I also have many good memories and met many kind people: helpful colleagues, considerate bosses and strangers who helped me get unemployment benefits.
During the period of working outside, I got married and had children, and raised young children and elderly parents with the money earned from working, which made me grateful.
Now, I'm in the fourth grade, and I'm beginning to think about how to live in the future. What people who work outside the home often say is: You can't work all your life, and you have to go back sooner or later. Nowadays, my parents are old and sick, and they go home for the New Year every year. Father hopes that I will never come out again, and the education of children is imminent. I didn't plan to come out this year, but for various reasons and helplessness, I still came out.
I have made up my mind to finish this year and start looking for something to do at home next year. The most important thing is that the family can be together. I have always felt that it is better to go home sooner or later than later. After all, I have been away from home for a long time, and I don't know my development direction in my hometown. The sooner you go back, the faster you can adapt.
I hope every migrant worker can live a satisfactory life.
Where is the destination of migrant workers after 1980s? Are you tired after 80? Are you busy?
Please allow me to feel sorry for myself for three seconds before answering this question!
I was born in 1985, and I am 35 years old. I have basically entered middle age!
17 years old working after graduating from junior high school, these years can be regarded as the ups and downs of society!
At first, I was an apprentice in someone else's shop. I took 300 yuan a month and had a meal at noon. I solved the housing myself.
At that time, not only the salary was low, but also the work was hard. I couldn't have any opinions, and I didn't know how I suffered at that time.
In winter, I braved the snowstorm to deliver goods to my boss, riding my broken bike, carrying an oversized box behind me, holding the faucet in one hand and the box in the other. My hands are numb with cold when I get to that place!
In the summer of July and August, there is no lunch break at noon. Deliver goods on the road in the poisonous sun, and take a shower at night to see prickly heat all over.
Life at that time was really hard, but maybe I was young and didn't feel tired. And now that I think about it, I actually feel that the days at that time were very happy! You said it was cheap or not!
Later, I became a master and began to take apprentices, but my salary was more than one month 1000. After a year, he only earned more than 10 thousand yuan.
Later, I opened my own shop. At first, business was bleak, and I often saved money for meals. It's no exaggeration. I remember once getting up in the morning and cooking a big pot of porridge, then pouring some soy sauce to mix it, so I could eat two bowls. It was like this at noon and at night, so I stayed up for a while! Once, I went back to my parents' house. When I left, my father gave me some salted duck eggs, and I dared not eat more. A salted duck egg was divided twice, and later it was found that the rest were all bugs. I was really angry and annoyed at that time. I'm angry with this damn bug. I'm annoyed that I didn't eat breakfast. It's all wasted!
Slowly, the business has improved a little, and finally I can buy some meat for dinner, so I have come to today step by step.
Married two years ago and had a son. Now every day I go home with hot meals, and my son will wait for me at the door. To tell the truth, my sufferings in previous years were not in vain!
As for the future, I think it is very likely that I will live in this city, but my hukou has been in my hometown and has not been moved. I am a nostalgic person, no matter how long I am outside, I always feel that my roots are there and I always want to go back!
From astronomy to geography, say something useful every day. Hello, everyone. I'm a self-media person from "Jiuqu Yellow River and Wan Li Sand" in Xiangxi, and Jianghu people call me "Jiu Ge".
As a colleague, let me try to answer:
First, let's talk about the destination:
The post-80s migrant workers, these two conditions, have clearly defined the positioning of these people: 30 to 40 years old, rural people, with low education level, basically out of the "system". The ownership of these people can basically be seen at a glance, but there are only two points: those who mix well will try to use their hard-earned money to buy a car and house in the town, settle down, start their own businesses according to their own conditions, find some businesses and projects to do, provide for the elderly and provide books for their children.
If you don't get along well, you can either continue to find jobs for others until you can't do it, or go back to your hometown where you raised, inherit the mantle of your ancestors, continue to grow food in the fields, do odd jobs nearby during the slack season, earn some necessary family expenses, and do your duty as a son and father.
Second, talk about being tired and busy:
Rural people in their thirties and forties are not well educated, and their job choices will not be much wider. Most of them are engaged in employee-intensive industries, assembly line operations, or odd jobs outside, and a few will enter office buildings or engage in service industries. To be honest, these industries are basically at the low end of the social food chain. It is normal to be tired and busy, and it is normal not to earn a lot of money.
In short, the old saying goes well: adults are uncomfortable and adults are comfortable. No matter where you belong in the future, whether you are tired or not, whether you are busy or not, there is hope in your heart. Try to live in the present, be responsible for your parents in the world, for yourself in the middle, for your children, and arrange the rest of your time by yourself.
It will be 2020 soon. The oldest post-80s migrant workers are almost forty years old. Most of these migrant workers have become middle-aged uncles and aunts.
One is career-oriented. Because those migrant workers who dare to take risks and struggle or are lucky, they bought houses and cars in other places, and lived a stable life and worked hard in other places. Most of my parents are still in their hometown, and they drive back to their hometown for a period of time during the holidays, and occasionally they can feel the feeling of returning home in clothes.
One is punching. Of course, there are also some post-80s people who work outside all the year round and buy houses in their hometown. Their wives and children are living in their hometown, and their children are all teenagers. After 80, the spirit is basically exhausted, and most of the life and work are very stable. They go home for more than ten days every year during the New Year, and then return to work in the company after the New Year.
One is the vacant leftover man and woman type. Although the youngest post-80s generation is in their thirties, there are still a group of leftover men and women hesitating. Whether because of emotional problems or other problems, they are used to working in other places and are unwilling to go back to their hometown. I feel full when I am busy every day, but I feel bored when I calm down.
In fact, no matter what kind of post-80s you belong to, you really can't be too casual in your thirties. The so-called home is actually home. Whether you have a successful career or your children are running around, not getting married is like a duckweed. Although the days when a person is full and the whole family is not hungry seem free, the fact that you are getting older tells you that the pursuit of life is actually not that complicated. Find the right person to get married and face everything in life together.
So, what kind of post-80s generation are you?
Nowadays, due to the increasing pressure of life and the sluggish rural economy, many migrant workers without "low education" have gone abroad in order to support their families.
Why do many people choose to go abroad instead of working hard abroad?
First, because my diploma is limited, even if I work in China, I am a coolie and need to work overtime. It's hard but the salary is not high. The salary abroad is high, so I choose to work abroad.
Second, a group of migrant workers who took the lead in going abroad took a dollar after returning home. Many people began to go abroad after seeing it.
Not only the post-80s generation, but now the post-90s generation is also very tired and busy with work. Those comfortable jobs often only appear in TV dramas.
If it is difficult to find a job in China after 80s, you might as well learn a trade (chef, mechanic, carpenter, etc. ) and go abroad to find better employment opportunities.
No matter how hard life is, earning more money is also a comfort!
After 80s, we live in this embarrassing era. We must catch up with everything. We don't need money to study, but we can't keep up. We used to pay attention to sincerity in love, but now we pay attention to real money and silver. Two young people have to support seven or eight people to earn money. A large family is busy working all day and earning money to support their families. There must be no patients at home. If there is another sick one, it will be easy.
It is required to work after 60, but the salary after 70 is less, the job after 80 is good, and the salary after 90 is high.
I just feel that after 80. Before 20 15, they all worked outside, and the children stayed at home to be left-behind children. 15, the child is sick and the old man calls us back. I decided not to go out and stay in the countryside. Because there are old people and young people at home, we really need young people at home. As a post-80s generation, we are really tired. Because we are old in the world and young in the world. We hope that the elderly will live a better life in their later years. The children received a better education. Eighty percent of us are busy making money. I hope my answer can help you.
I have a daughter. I want to say that finding a husband really depends on your feelings. Boys' looks, speech, education, height, family, work, income, hobbies, etc. Are affecting your preferences, but not too material! Not too much money! If it is too material, it will really make men look down on it! It really makes men sick! But now many girls don't understand this. The most important thing is whether a man loves you or not. If it's so tacky, can't you keep it down!
Where there is a job, there is no home, and where there is a home, there is no job!