Life is like this, with your mother's gentleness, stepmother's fierceness, friends' help and enemies' tricks. All you have to do is to be moved by the fierceness, see through the tricks, turn all the bad things into good things, smile more, let go more, forget more, and life will be less sad.
Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in the world, we are all independent individuals, and we all have to suffer pain and discomfort. No one can really understand you. If the stone hadn't hit his foot, he would never know how painful it was. On the road of life, we are all lonely walkers. If people know how to drink water, then the only person who can really help you will always be yourself.
In fact, few things are really important in life except birth, illness and death. There is no need to frown over trifles, and there is no need to argue with villains. Remember to be nice to yourself.
At this age, no one wants to please anyone anymore. Stay with anyone who is comfortable, including friends, and stay away when you are tired. Pleasing others is far less than being happy with yourself. I'd rather be lonely than against my will. I would rather regret than make do with it.
6. No matter how sincere you are, it is a lie when you meet someone who doubts you. No matter how simple people are, when they meet complicated people, they are all calculating. No matter how naive, it is a joke to meet a real person. No matter how professional a person is, it is a blank when he meets someone who doesn't understand. So, don't care too much about what others say about you. All you need is to be your best and unique self.
7. Ask more of yourself, you will be more independent, ask less of others, and you will be less disappointed. I would rather spend time cultivating my imperfect self than wasting time expecting perfect others.
8. Don't care what others think of you and say behind your back, because these words can't change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. I'm out of my mind. Everything is out of my mind. People who know you don't need to explain; People who don't understand you are not worth explaining.
9. You are too tired because you are too sensitive and soft-hearted. Always be considerate of others, even if one day you can't stand it and are tired, no one will sympathize with you and sympathize with you. Because in their eyes, this is what you are willing to do. If you indulge others too much, others will make you feel worse; If you are too tolerant of others, others will push your luck and hurt you.
10. The older people get, the more afraid they are of losing: classmates who go their separate ways, friends who have families, parents who are getting old, and time that they can't grasp. We have no choice but to cherish the present.
1 1. Do what others tell you to do, and you will eventually become a coolie. Appear when others need you, disappear when others don't need you, and slowly lose yourself. The biggest problem in life is not to refuse. Because in this world, crying children have milk to drink. The more you refuse, the more you get. To be a man is to bear the burden of humiliation, bear hardships and stand hard work, and be choosy before enjoying happiness. Say no, you can get it, know how to refuse, and live without entanglement.
12. In life, there are too many things that can't be helped and too many helplessness. An impenetrable disguise is like an impenetrable heart. An unclear feeling is like an incomprehensible mind. Less muscle is not as good as more heart; Forgiveness with a smile is better than red eyes.
13. Life is a process of constantly satisfying desires. If you are not satisfied, you will suffer, and if you are satisfied, you will be bored. Man's desire is like an elongated rubber band. If he can't find a place to insist, he will bounce back and hit himself.
14. Every sensible and calm present has a silly and naive past. Every warm and indifferent present has a sad and uneasy past. All people and things, just have a clear conscience. Don't force it if it's not yours. Anyway, what is left is the scenery and the life.
15. A straw thrown on the street is garbage, and tying cabbage is the price of cabbage, and tying hairy crabs is the price of hairy crabs. It is very important who we tie! Different platforms for one person will also reflect different values. Making friends with people with positive energy will affect your life.
16. There is no hard work in the world, and there is no place where people are not complicated. Even if you reject the present unhappiness, time will not pass slowly. So, be kind to yourself and believe that everything will get better in the end.
17. The more you are afraid, the more others will bully you; You are not afraid of anything, but no one dares to bully you. If you have a good character, others will take advantage of you. You go a little too far, but everyone comes to please you.
18. Many times, we are either repeating our own lives or repeating others' lives. True happiness is not living like others, but living according to your own wishes.
19. When I was a child, I wanted to grow up quickly. When I grew up, I found that I lost my childhood. When I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover. When I am in love, I miss the freedom when I am single. A lot of things always feel beautiful when they are not obtained, and only after they are obtained do they begin to understand, and what they get is also lost.
20. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.
2 1. Life is for career, not for care; Feelings are used to maintain, not to test; Love is to love, not to hurt; Money is for enjoyment, not for measurement; Lies are used to puncture, not to whitewash; Trust is for precipitation, not for challenge.
22. Life is a train to the grave. There will be many stops on the way, and it is difficult to have someone to accompany you from beginning to end. When the person accompanying you wants to get off the bus, be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye. Spirited Away, Miyazaki Hayao
23. The normal state of life is that some things may not be perfect even if you try your best to 200%, and some people will eventually go their separate ways if you try your best to love them. When you start to accept and adapt to this, you grow up.
24. Everyone has his own way of living, and there is no need to copy other people's lives. Some people have superficial scenery, but secretly they don't know how many tears they shed; Some people seem to be living in distress, but in fact they live a chic and happy life. There is no standard answer to happiness, and there is more than one road to happiness; Take back the envy of others and look back at your heart. The day you like is the best day; The way you like to live is the best way to live