Love and lovesickness are always inseparable. There is both the frank and direct "I miss you" of modern people, and the fresh and graceful expression of ancient people.
"I miss you only if I don't miss you in my life, and it hurts me." I miss you; "I think about you horizontally and vertically", I miss you; "One day without seeing you is like missing you in three months." I miss you too.
Xu Zaisi, courtesy name Deke and nickname Tianzhai, was a native of Jiaxing, Zhejiang, and a Sanqu writer in the Yuan Dynasty.
I didn’t know this author before. In a book, the author mentioned a few lines from the song "The Order of the Crown - Spring Love". I thought I liked it very much, so I searched it on the Internet.
Speaking of this, a question comes to mind. People often ask, if you don’t remember the books you read, what’s the use of reading them?
I have had this question too. I want to say something here. I mentioned who the author of this poem was, which book it was from, and what the book said. Unfortunately, I no longer remember it. But I think that being able to discover and fall in love with this song is a great reward.
The original text of the lyrics and music is as follows:
Only if you don’t love lovesickness in your life, you will love lovesickness, and it will harm lovesickness.
The body is like floating clouds, the heart is like flying catkins, and the energy is like gossamer.
A wisp of lingering fragrance is here, I hope the rich wanderer will do it.
When will the syndrome come? When the lamp is half dim, when the moon is half bright.
In the first three sentences, the word "lovesickness" is repeated three times, and a girl who has just begun to understand lovesickness emerges vividly on the page. If love is 10% painful, then lovesickness must account for 70%. Even if it is first love, lovesickness is often more profound.
Alone in an empty boudoir, I miss my sweetheart who is traveling day and night. I couldn't sit or lie down, I was upset, I was lovesick, and even my breath was weak.
"I" miss you all the time, and the most painful thing is this late night when the lights are dim and the moonlight is hazy. It was supposed to be "Moonlight on the willow branches, meeting people after dusk", but "I" was alone, with nowhere to relieve the pain of lovesickness.
In such a scene, if you miss your boyfriend, you don’t need to write a whole poem, just these three sentences: Only if you don’t miss lovesickness in your life, you will miss lovesickness, which will harm lovesickness. That's enough.
People in love often ask some "silly" questions, "Do you love me?" "Do you miss me?" and so on.
Generally, "Have you missed me?" will be followed by the question, "When will you miss me the most?"
"When will the syndrome come? At half-deng At dusk, when the moon is half bright. "Compared to thinking about it dryly, every day, this sentence not only shows your erudition in a low-key manner, but also seems much more sincere.
Xu Zaisi was trapped by fame in his early days, and later lived in seclusion in the south of the Yangtze River, far away from the world of mortals, returning to peace and indifference, and was good at writing about lovesickness. He has another song "Qingjiang Yin·Acacia" which also writes about lovesickness. He wrote:
Acacia is like a debtor who presses on each other every day.
I often carry a lot of worries, but I am not sure of three points of profit.
This money is only calculated when you see him.
"Spring Love" is about lovesickness, and the words used in "Spring Love" are exquisite. The metaphor of this song is novel, and it has different tunes but the same effect, and both achieve the samadhi of lovesickness.
Acacia is like a debt that cannot be let go or erased. It is entangled every day, lingers all the time, and grows day by day. The special thing about this debt is that the debt can only be settled when two people meet.
In ancient my country, it was very common to convey affection with handkerchiefs. This was the expression of affection with things. In the folk songs collected and compiled by Feng Menglong, he wrote:
If you don’t write love words or poems, a plain handkerchief expresses your inner feelings.
I know that when I take it and look at it upside down, I can see that there are threads horizontally and vertically.
Who knows about such worries?
The first time I knew this poem was when I read "Returning the Princess's Princess". Ziwei taught Little Yanzi to recite the poem all night long, but as a result, Little Yanzi still recited the poem in a confused way, with the form of "horizontal and dead vertical" It is also death.”
There are many classic literary works where handkerchiefs are used to express lovesickness. In The West Chamber, Zhang Sheng and Yingying wrote poems as gifts to each other. In Dream of Red Mansions, Daiyu’s handkerchief was used to express love. Before her death, Daiyu threw two handkerchiefs into the fire. Burned, the handkerchief bears witness to their feelings.
Only when you read poetry do you realize that the ancients were the most romantic. In ancient times, it was believed that a woman's lack of talent was a virtue. Generally speaking, few women could read, let alone those with the talents of Yingying and Daiyu. But you don’t need to write a love poem, and you don’t need any words. With just a Supa, you can understand my thoughts. The horizontal ones are my thoughts, and the vertical ones are also my thoughts!
The Book of Songs always has a special rhythm when it is read, often with more repeated words and phrases, making it easier to remember. "Zi Jin" is one of my favorite poems. The famous saying "One day is missing, it's like missing in three months" comes from this poem.
Green Zi Jin, my heart is leisurely.
Even if I don't go, will Zi Ning have no heir?
The green purple robe makes me think about it for a long time. Even if I don't go, Zi Ning won't come?
Picking up the troubles and reaching the gates of the city. Not seeing him for one day is like missing him for three months.
The whole poem describes a woman who saw something green and thought of her sweetheart.
Zhang Ailing said that when I hear some things that are obviously irrelevant, I will still think of you in my heart.
This is probably the state of mind. When you love someone, you can always mention him when chatting with your friends; when you hear a funny joke, you want to tell it to him; when you see a beautiful scenery, you want to see it with him in the future. Thinking about it without knowing it is as natural as eating, drinking, and breathing, because all your thoughts are about him!
"Indulge me" and "Zi Ning", both eager and reserved, are more like a woman's angry words, "If I don't go to you, can't you take the initiative to see me?" It's easy to think of a cute girl pouting and sulking alone, blaming her sweetheart in her heart.
The last sentence, "One day without seeing you is like three months." The tone changed. Although I blame you and blame you for not coming to me, I still miss you very much. We haven't seen each other for just one day, and it feels like three months.
My love for you is true, and my love words are also true.