Flowers should be matched with beautiful vases, while cow dung is in sharp contrast. This sentence is often used to describe an inappropriate marriage, which means that a beautiful woman marries a man who is not suitable for her.
However, in the Internet age, netizens have different interpretations of this sentence. Some people think that flowers and cow dung are compatible, because cow dung is nutritious and can make flowers grow better and bloom more brightly.
Everyone thinks that "flower girl" should choose "vase man" instead of "cow dung man", but "a flower stuck in cow dung" is indeed the most common phenomenon in life. Why is this happening? There are good reasons for this.
1, "cow dung man" can give "flower girl" a sense of security.
In intimate relationships, a woman's first emotional need is undoubtedly a sense of security. The sense of security actually comes from our confidence in ourselves. If we firmly believe that we are more attractive than each other, then we prefer to believe that each other will be loyal to us rather than going out to have sex at will. Moreover, if you really want to have sex, "vase man" has an advantage over "cow dung man".
More importantly, everyone has an instinct to cherish hard-won things, because it is impossible to get what they want without paying enough "sunk costs". "Men chasing women are separated by a mountain", and "cow dung men" chasing "flower women" are separated by more than one or two mountains, which is simply climbing mountains and crossing mountains. How can a girl who is so hard to pursue give up easily?
2. "Cow dung man" can provide nutrients for "flower girl".
Why do flowers always stick in cow dung? Because those butterflies and bees just come to collect her pollen, the beautiful vase can only add beauty to her temporarily, but it will soon wither; Although cow dung is smelly and ugly, it can provide her with nutrition and make her grow sturdily and stay young forever.
The best love can nourish, accompany, inspire and encourage you to grow and create unlimited possibilities for your life. This kind of love, "cow dung man" can give you, but "vase man" is very difficult. Because of the vase man, you may have to pay more. When the appearance is gone, what can you rely on to keep such a beautiful vase?
3. "Cow dung man" can be the intimate warm man of "flower girl".
Some women are beautiful, but they marry a man who has neither face value nor money. Whenever I interview them, most of the answers I get are "He is really good to me". Women are always emotional, and it is easy to fall in love with a warm man who is kind to her, can warm her and care about her.
In love, the ten million sweet words spoken by the vase man are not as good as the affectionate companionship of the cow dung man. The warmth of Cow Dung Man is real. If you are warmed, you will not warm other "flowers". Because there is a difference in face value between them, "cow dung man" is more willing to hold you in the palm of his hand and "take the moon for nine days and catch turtles in the next five oceans" for you.
In the final analysis, the best love in the world is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but a perfect blend of each other. May you find your own "cow dung" and meet your truest self in love.