Why do some people prefer to go out to play rather than have a serious girlfriend?

What do you think of these people who often mix together? I used to think that people who often hang out must not be great people. At that time, I thought too much and only saw great men and wicked people. Later, I discovered that this is a helpless life! I think everything is done for a reason.

Before I said it, I knew many people who used to hang out, but later I didn't have much contact with them because I didn't like them very much. Now that I think about it, it's a little uncomfortable to be biased against others because of my ignorance. So people would rather fool around than seriously talk about a girlfriend.

1, sense of responsibility Some people really don't want to take on all kinds of obligations. For many people, obligation is like putting a lock on your body. Even if I talk about my girlfriend, I don't want to get married after a long time. This kind of situation, there will be many in everyone's village, all because they are pregnant and have no way to get married. It is also irresponsible to choose to go out and fool around and empty your youth, as long as you are happy.

2, talking about your girlfriend is expensive, and you can't see the return for a while. In today's society, there is a lot of pressure, and there are various standards to talk about girlfriends. Nobody wants a house or a car. In the case of huge cost, it is very likely that it will end without even pulling the other person's hand. Some people invest thousands of dollars and get nothing in the end. Some people say that this money will be used in nightclubs and will be realized immediately. Isn't it more practical and specific?

3, mental consumption is huge, tired. Many people say that girlfriends are in a hurry every three days, and they are often coaxed into making nameless fires. Festivals need gifts, and everything needs men's labor. Usually, men are busy with official business and need to work at home after work. Sometimes, people can't help but say, are you afraid that you are not a baby boy? What are you looking for? It's more practical to find a family nanny.

The problems reflected by many people are basically true. After a long time, men are not tired of being dogs, but they are more tortured when they come home from work. I think this is probably the reason why some people would rather go out fooling around than find a girlfriend. Although there is some truth, in fact, finding a suitable girlfriend will make your daily life more and more different!