Why are the poems written for widows by Meng Jiao, a gifted scholar, scolded by many modern women?

Meng Jiao experienced more troubles than other frustrated poets. He didn't become famous until he was forty-six. Therefore, his life was basically spent in turmoil, and his poems contained more secular affairs and human sufferings. The biggest difference between Meng Jiao and other poets is that he has done a lot for widows, but his brushwork is too intense. Widows in his works must be chaste and brave women, and they must not be deviant. Therefore, many modern women disapprove of Meng Jiao's poems, such as "Fuck a fierce woman", because it is very normal for women living in modern times to find another husband after their husband's death and divorce. But if it was written by Meng Jiao, it would be a big violation. So these poems are not suitable for modern women.

1. Meng Jiao paid attention to widows because his mother Meng Jiao, as a male poet, was very concerned about women, and because his mother was a very great widow, while Meng Jiao's father was a small village official, but unfortunately, he died when he was very young in Meng Jiao, so Meng Mu took Meng Jiao alone, but there was no lack of education and care for Meng Jiao, so Meng Jiao would be more concerned about the widow's life.

Second, Meng Jiao widow is too radical. Meng Jiao used ancient well water to describe widows. If the ancient well water is left unchecked, it will not cause any ripples. This dogma is normal for ancient women, because there was a saying in ancient times that a woman's husband died and her wife could not remarry. If two people divorced in ancient times, it would also make neighbors laugh. Therefore, ancient women accepted Meng Jiao's view that widows are virtuous and heroic women.

However, modern women simply don't buy it. Widows in Meng Jiao's novels are heroic women who can sacrifice everything for their children and their families. They are too great. Unlike ordinary women, they minimize their own happiness and put their children's education on their own happiness. Therefore, Meng Jiao wrote poems with the feelings of respecting widows.