1. Seeds of love, want to welcome but refuse.
Swing on the swing, too lazy to rub delicate hands. Beside her, the thin Germany hung with crystal dew, and the sweat on her chest permeated with the thin silk robe. Suddenly, a guest came. She was desperate. She walked away without shoes, only wearing socks, and even the gold pin on her head fell off. She ran away shyly and leaned against the door, smelling the fragrance of plum flowers. -Song Liqing according to "Little Crimson Lips"
2. Take the initiative to strike up a conversation and meet each other late
Tell me, where do you live? Near here, next to the fishing pond? . Stop the boat. Sorry, if we belong to the same town ... my home is near Jiujiang, often near Jiujiang. You and me, we were both born in Chang Gan, you and me! It's a pity that we have never met. -Don Cui Hao's "Long Dry Song"
I have watched it for ten thousand years, so I miss it.
13. I met you at the beginning of the year, making silk and bamboo in the royal palace. Just because I think, when I look back on you, I miss your dynasty and dusk. When I see you again, I will be fifteen years old and dance for you. Alas, the years are like the morning dew, when will the mud nest in your house? -Korea's "Old Acacia, Part II"
The cultural background of love at first sight;
Love at first sight, read this flat syllable, just like those ups and downs of the historical chapters, China for five thousand years, is nothing more than love and hate. In fact, we are not the only ones in China. Whose history can be divorced from love? However, due to the limitations of Chinese, many problems have become unsolved mysteries.
For example, when people in love ask the root of "why do you like me", they are often vague. Even with a thousand years of emotional writing history, people in China are always unable to express their feelings. In the Qing dynasty, a man finally broke the silence and deciphered the love spell that was wrapped around countless people's hearts, which was simply four words: love at first sight.
Psychological characteristics of love at first sight;
Generally speaking, when men and women meet for the first time, in addition to expressing acceptance, acceptance and appreciation of each other's explicit personality characteristics, such as good knowledge and demeanor, beautiful body appearance, decent conversation and so on. The "physiological effect" of heterosexual communication in aesthetic standards is also an important factor to stimulate emotions.
It can be considered that the two parties who fall in love at first sight are generally accompanied by some kind of emotional or physical experience and feeling, such as closeness, pleasure and admiration, which is the "natural" basis for the attraction of the opposite sex, especially for those men and women with similar "conditions"