Private life-long marriage
① In China's feudal society, young men and women are driven by love and get rid of the shackles of feudal ethics such as their parents' orders and matchmakers' words. Both parties fall in love and make a private marriage. A lifelong event. In old China, which was bound by feudal ethics, it was considered a violation of ethics and treason to set a private life.
②In areas where ethnic minorities gather, there is often a custom of private life-long marriage between men and women. After some young men and women from ethnic minority groups fall in love, they swear an oath to each other and give each other tokens of love. Some even choose a wedding date privately and get married in secret.