A female classmate of 20 years, she found me after divorce. How can I enlighten her by myself?

After 20 years of divorce, a female classmate found you. According to her age, she has passed the age of no doubt. Finding you shows that she trusts you, and your has a good relationship. Facing the fact that she has divorced, how should you enlighten her? I want to talk about my personal opinion, right? For reference only ~ ~

First, we should enlighten her to face the reality of divorce bravely, and we must let go of what should be put down. If you are divorced, you should face up to your mistakes and try to correct them.

The second is to enlighten her to face the reality of divorce, learn to take responsibility and cheer up. Summon up the courage to live, get out of the shadow of divorce and find new hope for life.

Third, try your best to help her in life and get out of the shadow of divorce. Stick to a friend's bottom line, try to help her out of the shadow of divorce, and do my best when she needs help.