1, reed
Clear water and green mountains are in the sky, and flowers are planted in the crevices of barren slopes. Flowers and plants are far from prosperous, and cranes and plums have wives. Lin Hejing, a poet in the Song Dynasty, lived alone in the mountains for a long time, without being an official or getting married or having children. Throughout his life, he will plant plum blossoms around his residence and spend his life with flowers and a white crane. Later it was called "Mei Wife Crane".
Step 2 wait for the moon
Autumn moon hangs in the sky and Guanghua is wet. The surprised magpie has not settled, and the flying fireflies are rolling in. -"There is a bosom under the autumn moon" (Tang) Meng Haoran. In ancient times, the moon was always endowed with the meaning of missing and loneliness. When I miss loneliness, I look at the moon hanging in the sky and think that we may be looking at the same moon, which seems to be no longer far away.
Step 3 burn incense
Make Sanskrit rhymes and burn incense in laurel bushes. -"Send to Songyang Lan Ruo" (Tang) Liu Changqing. Most ancient nobles had the habit of "bathing and burning incense". The ancients pursued the realm of burning incense, and tried to reduce smoke and make the incense low and long, mostly for convergence.
4. Father
I want to talk to Yao Qin. There are few bosom friends, and no one listens to the broken string. -"Xiao Chongshan, cold last night, can't stop singing" (Southern Song Dynasty) Yue Fei. As the saying goes, "it's hard to find a bosom friend when mountains and rivers flow." When there is no one to say the resentment in your heart, you can only caress the piano to express your feelings.
5. Negative metaphysics
According to the south corner of my house, I go out in winter. Sit with your eyes closed and your skin will be healthy. -"Negative Winter" (Tang) Bai Juyi. Being negative is basking in the sun. The ancients especially loved negative metaphysics in winter. In the cold winter, basking in the sun can: "I forgot where I was, and my heart was empty."
Step 6 play chess
Thanks are floating clouds, and the game is calm and quiet. -"Yan Xianliang Dongshan Collection" (Song) Li Fu. In ancient times, people with learned status were used for entertainment, and at the same time, they also exercised their overall planning ability and enhanced their strategies.
7. Drink moderately
Please pour you wine to console yourself. People are fickle like waves. -"Drinking and" (Tang) Wang Wei. "When drinking songs, what is the geometry of life?" Even now, it is a great pleasure to have a drink with three or five friends!
8. Seek seclusion
Seeking seclusion is not extreme, and you can praise it at any time. -"Wandering" (Tang) Li Shangyin. The ancients believed that staying away from the hubbub and exploring solitude can not only achieve inner peace, but also explore the truth.
9. Tea tasting
Burning incense leads to a quiet step, and drinking tea leads to a quiet feast. -"Dragon Boat Festival Temple Zen" (Song) Su Shi. Drinking tea is a unique tradition of China people. The fragrance of tea is bitter, just like life. Tasting it is a pleasure.
10, listening to the rain
Teenagers listen to the rain and sing upstairs. The red candle is weak. Listening to the rain on the boat in the prime of life. The river is wide and the clouds are low, and the broken geese are called the west wind. -"Yu Meiren Listening to the Rain" (Song) Jie Jiang. Teenagers and mature people listen to the rain in different moods. When a person sits in front of the screen, they lament this life experience. At this time, what they feel and think of is quite lonely with the sound of rain.