1. "Love and Idleness since Ancient Times" is actually an anonymous poem by Shi Qingxi, a scholar in the Qing Dynasty. The original sentence is: love has been idle since ancient times, and good dreams are the easiest to wake up. The whole poem is as follows:
Affection has been idle and hateful since ancient times, and good dreams are the easiest to wake up.
Isn't it difficult to take off flowers, poor flying catkins are too falling.
Xiang Chao suddenly married Yuanyang Society, and the new sentence is like a jade screen.
Not because parting is broken, tears are full of old shirts.
2. In addition, Wei Zian's novel "Flower Moon Mark" in the Qing Dynasty also has the expression of "sentimental and carefree hatred since ancient times". The whole poem is as follows:
Since ancient times, there has been love and hate, and it is difficult to find a sad day here.
When love comes to an end, it turns to ruthlessness, which is more tiring than affection.
You compose silent music for me, so I can smell it like you.
If you don't hate, it's hard to know sorrow, and if you worry, you don't know hate.
Listen to the wind and feel the autumn rain. I have forgotten when I was drinking at the west window.
Yun Qi's blood froze in the sky, proud smile and tears.
When there is wine singing, people laugh at me and I am stupid.
If you are not drunk with wine, you will be more worried with wine.
The Flower Moon Scar is another long romance novel after A Dream of Red Mansions in the Qing Dynasty, and it is the origin of the school of Mandarin Duck and Butterfly. For example, Xu Zhenya's Soul of the Jade Pear was learned from the name and content of the novel. This poem was written by Du Caiqiu, the heroine of the book, to Han, the hero.
3. "Affection is always hurt by ruthlessness" comes from "Affection is annoyed by ruthlessness".
"Dead Hua Lian"-Su Shi
Flowers wither and red apricots are small.
Swallows fly, green water people go around.
There are few willows blowing on the branches, but there are many herbs in the sea.
Swing inside and outside the wall.
The layman in the wall, the beauty in the wall laughs.
Laughter dies in silence, but passion is mercilessly annoyed.
Sometimes, passionate people are the most ruthless, but ruthless people often pay the most attention to what they have.
Many times, his ruthlessness is the greatest salvation for you, but his affection is an unfathomable trap.
If you are in love, actively strive for it; If not, let go and never look back.
Being free and sober is the best guarantee to face the world of two people.
No one has the right to criticize anyone's handling of feelings, nor can he doubt anyone's feelings.
You can disagree, but you have to respect it.
Forever, this is an imaginary number.
The separation and combination in life is always so unbearable.
What will happen if you love? No one can say for sure.
Probability is ridiculous in the emotional world.
Affectionate is always hurt by ruthlessness, and ruthlessness turns into sentimental troubles.
People and feelings in the world cannot be forced, entangled or turned back.
If you love each other, please be together.
If you are no longer in love, please open your heart!