1. Don’t be angry?
Life is like a play because we get together because of fate?
It is not easy to support each other until we grow old. Should we cherish it more?< /p>
Why bother thinking about it when you get angry over trivial things?
If I get angry when others are angry, I will get sick and have no one to take care of me?
If I am angry to death, who will be happy? Is it tiring and laborious?
Don’t let neighbors, relatives and friends do trivial matters over children and grandchildren?
Being together for hardship and enjoyment, gods envy good partners
2. Buqi Song
p>I am not angry when he is angry with me, I have no intention of making him angry;
If I am angry and fall into his trap, there will be no one to help me when I am angry;
Invite a doctor It is difficult to cure diseases, but it is not easy to treat qi diseases;
The harm caused by qi is terrible, and I am sincerely afraid that my life will be lost due to illness;
I have tasted the taste of qi now, and I don’t feel qi. I'm really not angry.
1. Stupid people only get angry, smart people know how to strive for success!
The philosopher Kant said: "Being angry is punishing yourself for others' mistakes. There is no such thing as climbing in the world But the Flame Mountain. Maybe life has given us too many hardships, family, work, love, but who can say that we will not encounter these in our life? Why not try to avoid it over and over again? , be a smart person, be a person who treats yourself well? "Life is created by yourself, and your mood is created by yourself. Don't be angry about small things. It is better to live up to your anger than to live up to your anger. You can live the color of life.
2. Happiness is not about having more but worrying about less!
The most important thing for a person is to learn to make yourself happy and not to worry about trivial things all day long, otherwise In the end, you only hurt yourself.
Life needs love but also happiness, but happiness is not about having more but caring less. People will encounter many unpleasant things in life. If you worry about things and cannot face them calmly, or complain or get angry, you will be the only one who will be hurt in the end. Don't be angry, don't care too much, be content with what you have. People who are easily satisfied will be happier and happier.
3. Learn to look at difficulties from another perspective!
Hemingway also said this in "The Old Man and the Sea": "Heroes can be destroyed, but they cannot be defeated. "There are good times and difficult times in life, and adversity cannot be everywhere. There are peaks and valleys in life. Don't be at the bottom everywhere. Being arrogant because of good times or peaks, being downcast because of adversity or troughs, are both shallow lives. Dilemma is just a test in life. Have courage, have hope, comprehensively analyze your mistakes, persevere, make yourself a strong person, and bravely get out of the bottom is the life of a wise man. Extended reading: "100 Strategies for Social Survival, Very Useful, Be sure to Keep the Strategies in Mind"
Looking at the dilemma from another angle will lead to different results.
4. Choice and giving up are both a kind of life!
There are too many hazes and too many winds and rains in life. Sometimes it does not consider our feelings, it just It’s your own business how you choose to be a “child” of your own personality, and it’s also your own business to bear!
In fact, life is a process of constantly choosing and giving up. It is often impossible to have your cake and eat it too. You want what you see, what you think about, and you are enslaved by things and fascinated by things. Mentality is not the most essential meaning of life, nor is it the wisest choice.
5. Look down on what is lost and cherish what you have!
There is a saying: "The most precious thing in life is not what is lost or what is not obtained, but the happiness you have now." .
Losing is a kind of pain and a kind of happiness, because when you lose, you also gain. If you lose the sun, you can enjoy the stars in the sky; if you lose the green, you will gain the rich golden autumn; if you lose your youth, As time goes by, we enter a mature life - life; we need to enjoy the joy of gain, and we should also enjoy the fun of loss. More importantly, we must cherish the beauty we have now.
6. Find a way to show off. You in the workplace!
In the workplace, if others are better than you, are you praised by the leader, or are you rewarded, will you be angry? If so, then you must learn to be energetic and act proactively. , The wisest choice is to work hard to get ahead of others. As long as you are strong and successful, others will naturally not look down on you.
Enrich yourself, improve yourself, and move towards success. The most important thing. Extended reading "How far can you achieve in the ten stages of cultivation in life?"
7. The biggest failure in life is to be defeated by yourself!
Failure is not terrible, being defeated by others. It’s not scary. What’s scary is being knocked down by yourself and being unable to recover and complaining about everything. The biggest failure in life is this. The biggest difference between people, between the weak and the strong, and between success and failure. The difference with the power of will. Once a person has the power of will, he can overcome his own weaknesses. Dare to challenge himself is a sign of success. Anything you can do.