Be reasonable, ask for leave when necessary, and don't care about other people's faces. This is your right.
People will have lazy thoughts to some extent, but when they are young, they should always warn themselves: abandon distractions and enhance motivation.
Where is the world big? Of course, we must understand what is the first condition for holding our heads high.
Always think like this, and do everything like this. I think your heart will calm down.
Question 2: How can I keep a clear head at work? Do you think you have found a job that suits you?
I want to tell you that people do what they do and complain about what they do.
Does everything make you happy?
Find a job that makes you feel natural.
Now the employment problem is also very troublesome. If you can find a good job, cherish it.
I hope you will be satisfied.
Question 3: It is unclear how to have a correct attitude, a correct mentality, and a mentality of doing a good job. A calm mind is to keep a normal mind. Attitude, there is no absolute standard. Correct attitude and attitude, in the final analysis, is to do your own job honestly, do what you should do in time, and do it well. If it is your own job, don't be lazy, don't delay, don't deal with it, and do it seriously. On this basis, you can neither be arrogant nor impetuous. Presumably this is the correct attitude and attitude.
Question 4: What should you do when you don't want to work but don't have to? How to straighten your mind? Try to divert your attention and find something interesting, anything that will make you happy without delaying your work.
Question 5: How to put a good attitude at work so that you don't have negative worries? First of all, you should understand that no matter what you do or what failures or blows you encounter, you can't affect yourself. Society allows failure. Failure once or twice doesn't mean anything You can also improve your own shortcomings through these setbacks. So, don't blindly deny yourself because of failure.
Secondly, things are not successful, there are internal reasons (their own reasons) and external reasons (the reasons of things themselves, no matter who does it, it is impossible to succeed). Don't have negative emotions because of some unavoidable things. People can improve themselves, but they can't force them. You can't take everything too seriously.
Finally, it is inevitable to face up to your emotions and produce negative emotions. Just as people cry when they are sad and laugh when they are happy, it is best to vent negative emotions when they arise. Make the next effort plan, sing songs and communicate with friends. You can also try to hint to yourself and tell yourself in the mirror that you can. Although it is a bit like pyramid selling, it works well and has no harm.
Question 6: How to correct the mentality 1, ambition is not easily discouraged: people who are not easily discouraged can be described as persistent. Perseverance people are not afraid of setbacks and hardships. No matter what happens, they can always be full of confidence, forge ahead and always strive for their favorite cause. On the academic side, Hegel said, "A person who is determined to achieve great things must know how to limit himself, just as Goethe said. On the other hand, those who want to do everything can't do anything and eventually fail. He must concentrate on one thing and not be distracted in many ways. " Under the guidance of this thought, Hegel not only read widely, but also specialized in learning, and eventually became a great thinker. Even Marx had to learn from him. People should be like the stars in the universe, with goals, directions, ideals and pursuits. As long as you think it is right, you should try your best to do it according to your own point of view, no matter what others say. As long as you are just and correct, you must stick to it, and you will not be given in by other forces, and you will not be * * *, and you must have a strong and persistent spirit. We should be persistent, selfless, stick to the truth and make unremitting efforts for a better tomorrow. Whether it is career or love, it is not enough for us to have persistent spirit. We should also learn to survive under pressure. Only under pressure can we pursue our goals. General masters often have to bear great pressure, and only under pressure can they show their great personality. The ancients said: "If Heaven wants to be the great task of Sri Lankan people, it must first suffer its mind, its bones and muscles, rub its skin and empty its body, so it can endure and get what it can't." So when we face the pressure, we must think that it is an inevitable experience, just like Shelley's poem "If winter comes, can spring be far behind?" 2. Opportunities only belong to those who are prepared. Everyone wants to be an extraordinary person. Everyone is looking forward to the opportunity to get rich. Some people just lie in bed and look at the sky with their eyes open, complaining about the rare opportunity. In fact, for such people, even if the opportunity really comes, it is impossible to catch it. Because opportunities only belong to people with determination. People who work hard for it, in other words, opportunities only love those who are prepared! American Vice President henry wilson was born in a poor family. /kloc-left home at the age of 0/0 and became an apprentice at 1 1 year. He can only receive one month's school education every year. Mr. Wilson is determined not to let any opportunity for self-development and self-improvement slip away. 12 years later, he stood out in politics and entered. Although President Wilson was born in poverty, it did not hinder his progress. He overcame one difficulty after another and finally succeeded. And all these changes are the result of his efforts. People have to be ambitious if they want to live up to expectations. No, it is not enough to have ambition, but also to turn it into a force to motivate yourself to keep making progress, so as to succeed. 3. Powerful people will be valued. Everyone wants to be affirmed by others, and wants to be valued by the boss or superior leaders at work. However, getting affirmation and attention is not unconditional. The key is to see whether you have the ability, that is, whether you have the capital and reason to let the boss pay attention to you. Once upon a time there was a man who was very dissatisfied with his work. He said angrily to his friend, "The boss doesn't take me seriously at all, and I can't get his attention." I'll slap him one day and then resign. "Do you fully understand the trading company? Have you fully figured out their tricks in international trade? " His friend asked. "no!" "The gentleman revenge, ten years is not late. I suggest that you thoroughly understand all their trade skills, business documents and company organization, and even learn how to remove the small obstacles of photocopiers, and then quit. " His friend suggested, "You regard their company as a place for free study. After everything is connected, you can leave again. Isn't it both venting and gaining a lot? " Men listened to their friends' advice, sharpened their guns at the last minute, and even stayed in the office after work to study the writing methods of business documents. A year and a half later, my friend met him by chance and said, "You have probably learned it now, so you can get ready to strike the table and quit!" " ""But I found that in the past six months, my boss was very impressed with me. Recently, I was entrusted with a heavy responsibility, promotion and salary increase. I have become a red follower of the company! " "This is exactly what I expected! "His friend smiled and said," At first, your boss ignored you because of your lack of ability, but you didn't study hard. "Then you should work hard and shoulder heavy responsibilities, of course ... >>
Question 7: How should I correct my mentality? Do you think this is okay?
1. List the things you are grateful for, be kind to others, don't hold a grudge, embrace life with childlike innocence, understand life with maturity, be grateful, and be kind to those who are kind to you.
Develop your hobbies, maintain a strong curiosity and thirst for knowledge, and maintain a healthy body and mind.
3. Establish contact with others and talk with friends and relatives. People's energy is limited, but there are many things they want to do to reduce unnecessary interpersonal constraints.
4. Love yourself, take good care of yourself, don't change yourself deliberately to impress others, plant flowers deliberately, and plant willows unintentionally.
5. Competition with excellence, not with others, is the greatest victory. Competing with yourself instead of others, defeating yourself is the biggest winner.
6. Accept the fact that your ability is limited, and choose what you really want to do and who you really want to love in life.
7. Eliminate hostility and aggression, try to cooperate with others instead of competing alone, act decisively and improvise.
8. Learn to chat and care about others, don't take yourself too seriously, and try not to give others a selfish feeling.
9. Don't complain about unimportant things, don't always take things seriously, don't blame yourself for all your mistakes, keep looking for new hobbies, and care about recent current events and new things around you.
10. Make more friends, be positive, associate more with positive people and less with negative people. Unless you can change him, you will be changed by him, and different choices will lead to different lives.
1 1. Love life rather than its rewards, be fresh in life, and know that the sun is new every day.
12. If your financial ability permits, you might as well find some time to play, such as traveling on holiday or hiking in a place you have long longed for.
13. When you do well or succeed, celebrate for yourself, even if you are alone at the party.
14. Helping others to do one thing will make you happy, especially when others are in trouble, what you get will be far greater than what you pay.
15. Don't distort other people's criticism. You should know how hard it is to hear others' positive and objective comments about yourself. You should be calm, correct it if you have it, and encourage it if you don't.
16. Take part in moderate exercise for a certain period of time, get up early for ten minutes, and be sure to sit and have breakfast.
17. Try to keep yourself busy and eliminate tension and fear.
18. Know what you can and should do, don't be afraid to face your limited ability, give yourself an objective evaluation, know yourself, and get rid of the mentality of being too high and too low.
19. Learn to calm yourself, keep a normal heart, don't care too much about small things, it's hard to be confused.
20. Do things with opinions and principles, and don't take the likes and dislikes of others as the standard of your actions.
2 1. Get rid of things that are a burden to you and stop doing things that make you feel bored.
22. See the bright side of things, admit that there is a bright side and a dark side in human nature, and have a tolerant and understanding mind, not happy with things, not sad for yourself; Don't go to extremes and don't eat in anger.
23. Try to do something new to enrich your life and give up unimportant things. Listening to music and reading books and newspapers are the best ways to improve your interest.
24. Understand that good motivation may not bring good results, but you should not give up.
25. Understand the truth that "people are more popular than others", don't compare yourself with others, let alone compare yourself with others, and don't compare yourself with others in trivial matters.
26. Don't be too strict with yourself, pursue the results without demanding perfection, and develop a winning mentality, but you can't be above them.
27. Vent your depression in time. When things go wrong, you can talk to yourself and comfort yourself.
28. Set feasible goals and divide a big project into smaller feasible parts, so that each part will have a sense of accomplishment.
29. Calculate your pride, imagine that you are succeeding, recall the glory of the past, ignore your troubles and disappointments, don't dwell on the past, and don't feel guilty about your proper behavior.
30. Make up your mind to change the rules that you don't appreciate. It's better for everyone not to appreciate them. If you can't change others, change yourself. Do not complain about the future. Everything will work out eventually.
3 1. Have a rest before you feel tired. Please remember: rest is not a waste of life, it allows you to do more efficient things in the situation.
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Question 8: Why do you have to keep the right attitude and stand in the right angle at work? This is more conducive to work. After all, emotional intelligence is sometimes much more important than ability.
Question 9: Regarding the workplace mentality, how to correct the mentality with a colleague who likes to show off? One is doing business, not doing things. I have heard such a story. When I graduated from college, I didn't have any special ideas about what to do. Because of the embarrassment during school, her work direction is to look at "money". Xiao Ya changed jobs almost every year for five or six years after graduation. First of all, I work as a secretary in the office. A year later, when health care products were booming, I applied for a biopharmaceutical company to do sales. It didn't take long for the health care products to stink. At this time, a friend took her to a marketing planning company with a good monthly salary, so she reported for work the next day. After working for one year, although the income is higher than before, there is still a long way to go to get rid of poverty and become rich. I happened to meet an old classmate. He started a small trading company and dumped some best-selling goods from Guangdong to Beijing. The scene of "money" is very attractive, and he needs help. Little A joined his trading company without hesitation. After half a year, the company's business turned weak, and she went to an advertising company. Soon, the streets were full of advertising agencies, and she went to a newspaper as a reporter ... Every time she went to another company to earn more money than the previous one, she would gladly go. After all this, I earned a little money and my life improved a little, but when I calm down, I will find that I have actually accomplished nothing. ................ is here. The difference between doing things and doing business lies in persistence and singleness, and then the difference between the results is "enriching my life" and "flashy". If you see a company making money and jump there, you are doomed to get nothing in the end. At the time of recruitment, the human resources department had received some resumes. Some people engaged in clerical work in the company in the early 1990s. After leaving the company, 10 jumped four or five companies. When they finally submitted their resumes to the company's recruitment booth again, their youth was gone and their ability remained the same. At that time, many of his colleagues who were still working in the company with him had already become department heads.
Second, you should feel hard, not painful. I've heard some employees privately complain about too much work and heavy work pressure. They wake up every morning, open their eyes, and think of the endless work every day, and feel extremely painful. I often have to stay and work overtime, but in the end, my health and family life have gone wrong, and my personal career plan can't be continued. In particular, the triviality and inflexibility of daily life make people work very hard every day, and there is no sense of accomplishment and fun at all. What can we say about "happiness" at work? The company once advocated hard work, not suffering, and taking work as fun. In fact, the so-called happiness at work means that everyone can give full play to their strengths at work, constantly surpass challenges and enjoy the happiness brought by the sense of achievement at work; Instead of aimless efforts, just do it without thinking, because once the work lacks input and enthusiasm, even if you finish all the work on time every day, you will not feel satisfied and happy. This is the first and biggest problem that people can't enjoy their work.
Question 10: How can I get along well with my colleagues? It is the easiest to form an interest relationship between colleagues. If we can't treat some small things correctly, it's easy to form barriers. In daily communication, we might as well pay attention to several aspects to establish a harmonious relationship with colleagues.
Focus on the overall situation, make up more and dismantle less.
If you don't point out your colleagues' shortcomings in person on weekdays, it is easy to criticize, find fault or even attack your colleagues when you are in contact with people from other units, which will affect your colleagues' external image and damage your own image in the long run. Colleagues who come together because of their working relationship must have a collective consciousness, put the overall situation first, and form the same interests. Especially in contact with people from other units, we should form the concept of team image, make up more and tear down less, and don't harm the collective interests for our own small interests. It is best to wash our dirty linen in public.
When dealing with differences, we should seek common ground while reserving differences.
Due to the differences in experiences and positions between colleagues, they often have different views on the same issue, which leads to some disputes, and it is easy to hurt feelings if they are not careful. So, when you disagree with your colleagues, first, don't argue too much. Objectively, it takes a process for people to accept new ideas, subjectively, it is often accompanied by good face and competitiveness, and it is difficult for anyone to convince each other. At this time, if there are too many arguments, it will easily intensify contradictions and affect unity; Second, don't blindly value peace. Even when it comes to principles, we don't insist or argue, but go with the flow and deliberately cover up contradictions. In the face of problems, especially differences, we should try our best to find common ground and seek common ground while reserving differences. If I really can't agree with you, I might as well treat it coldly, indicating that I can't accept your point of view. I reserve my opinion and play down the argument without losing my position.
Treat promotion and utilitarianism with a normal heart, and don't be jealous.
Many colleagues are usually amiable, but when they encounter conflicts of interest, they will take advantage. Or talk to each other behind their backs, or be jealous and sarcastic. This is not aboveboard, and it is not good for yourself and others. Therefore, we should always keep a normal heart when dealing with the issues of promotion and utility.
Keep an appropriate distance when interacting with colleagues and superiors.
In a unit, if several people communicate too frequently, it is easy to form a superficial circle, which is easy to make other colleagues doubt and make people feel that they are talking about other people's right and wrong again. Therefore, when interacting with superiors and colleagues, we should keep a proper distance to avoid forming small circles.
Be tolerant and learn to apologize when encountering contradictions.
There are often some bumps between colleagues, and if they are not handled in time, great contradictions will be formed. As the saying goes, friends should make up instead of getting married. When you have conflicts with your colleagues, you should be patient, find the reasons from yourself, put yourself in other's shoes and think more to avoid the intensification of conflicts. If you have formed a contradiction and you are really wrong, you should put down your face, learn to apologize and be sincere and touching. To take a step back, if one party breaks the deadlock on its own initiative, it will find that there is not much difference between the two.