Although there are too many negative comments on the teacher online, some charitable measures taken by Shaolin Temple are still good, and the master's intentions can be really seen in many aspects.
In the family, don't think about becoming a monk or even comment that it is destroying Buddha. Please look at Master Lv Hui's "Say that monks are guilty and guilty."
If you are interested in Buddhism after reading my answer, you can look at the Buddhist materials recommended by me in my personal profile of my last school.