How is your relationship?
If the couple have a good relationship, they can directly bring it up, perhaps because of misunderstanding. After all, this age should have passed most of your life. What are the unspeakable contradictions?
If the relationship between husband and wife is not very good, you should also mention it. Now this social atmosphere is really chilling, and it is not uncommon for some old men to be ready to move. If you do this for a long time, you don't have to swallow it. Happiness is earned, and the person who knows himself best and loves himself most will always be himself. But we should also pay attention to the way, and we should not quarrel or even retaliate against each other, which will only make things worse. Tell him this life is not what you want, and don't mention Qi Mei, but we should respect each other.
As the saying goes, it is better to destroy a relative than to tear down ten temples.
Don't embellish those who say something and slap others in the face, and those who want to deal with a man as he deals with you.
In any case, the ups and downs of life are best understood by yourself, and should be handled as appropriate according to the situation.
I hope it's just a misunderstanding Life is only a few autumns, so don't be too hard on yourself.