It's always harder to reform yourself than to ban others. -Lu Xun
When marching, people always have to retire, some are defeated, some are depressed, and some are rebellious. However, as long as it doesn't hinder the progress, the team Wu Yue will become a pure elite team later. -Lu Xun
Just say no, the important thing is to do it. -Lu Xun
Huge buildings are always made of one stone and one wood. Why don't we do one stone at a time? I often do odd jobs, that's why. -Lu Xun
Words such as empty talk will not last long, but will always be reflected in the mirror of facts and dragged away. -Lu Xun
If you kill the present, you kill the future. -The future is the era of future generations. -Lu Xun
Children need to be taught by others, and their problems need to be treated by others, even teachers or doctors. However, I'm afraid I have to think about how to behave. Many people's prescriptions are often just waste paper. -Lu Xun
Dissatisfaction is the upward wheel. -Lu Xun
I do dissect others from time to time, but I dissect myself more ruthlessly.
The first step of reform is naturally to eliminate waste and create opportunities for the birth of new life.
The fact is a heartless thing, which can smash empty words into pieces.
A great mind should greet tragic misfortune with a smiling face and deal with all misfortunes with a hundred times of courage.
Think for yourself and make your own decisions.
I understand the reason why the declining nation is silent, silence, silence! If you don't break out in silence, you die in silence.
If you don't have a hobby, you can't do as much as possible. If you don't read a set of books first, you will be at a loss or lose your preference. First wide and then deep, first wide and then specialized.
The commentary praised Historical Records as "the historian's swan song, leaving Sao without rhyme".
It doesn't matter whether hope exists or not, just like the road on the ground. In fact, there is no road on the ground, and more people will become roads.
What is a road? It was stepped out from a place where there was no road, and it was opened up from a place where there were only thorns.
One is survival, the other is food and clothing, and the third is development. Whoever dares to hinder these three things, we will resist him and drive him out!
You must pick many flowers like a bee, so that you can brew honey. If you stare at a place, your income will be very limited and you will have no patience.
Great achievements are directly proportional to efforts. Work hard and you will get something. Over time, from less to more, from then on to create miracles.
Life is based on time, wasting other people's time is equal to murder for money, and wasting your own time is equal to chronic suicide.
I'm afraid you have to think about how to express yourself. Many other people's prescriptions are often just waste paper.
Even a genius, the first cry at birth will never be a good poem.
"Don't insult the last". Even if it is slow, it will never stop. Even if he falls behind and fails, he will certainly achieve his goal.
If it has real meaning, whitewash it, be less melodramatic and don't show off.
The poor will never worry about opening an exchange, and the kerosene king will never know the suffering of the old woman who picks up cinders in Beijing.
Underscoring the enemy is the easiest way to fail.
Chew a little bit of your emotions and treat it as the world.
2. I don't know what is the poem that represents overcoming dependence and constantly accepting the test of life, but if you are trying to motivate yourself, I will tell you this sentence: Wang Guowei's "Words on Earth" once said: "People who have made great achievements in ancient and modern times must go through three realms.
Last night, the west wind withered the trees, and I went up to the tall building alone and looked at the horizon. So is this first place.
My belt is getting wider, and I am haggard because of Iraq, and I don't regret it. So is this second environment.
The crowd searched for him for thousands of Baidu, and when I turned around, I saw that man was in a dim state. So is this third place. "
The first stage is chaos and confusion, and I don't know where the road ahead is. The second stage is a top-down exploration, and after going through hardships and no regrets, I began to see the dawn of sunrise.
The third stage is suddenly enlightened, and finally found the key to career success. Suddenly, I feel that the answer that I thought was far away is actually in front of me. These three stages can be summarized as confusion-seeking-epiphany and taste, which is really an insurmountable stage of success in life. From a philosophical point of view, they are the objective laws that must be experienced in the success of life.
These three realms are also. I don't know where the road ahead is, and the world is vicissitudes. I hope to do my best to cross this round of spring, summer, autumn and winter! I hope it will help you, but if you are trying to motivate yourself, I will tell you this sentence: "People who have achieved great things since ancient times.
"In this third place, I will begin to see the dawn of the sunrise, and life will not be in vain." This first scene is also: Wang Guowei once said in "The Thorn on Earth".
Looking for him in the crowd is really an insurmountable three stages of success in life. Quietly dormant in life.
Compared with the three experiences and emotions of life experience, these three realms have finally found the key to career success, and the inevitability of success is just around the corner, which can be summarized as confusion-seeking-epiphany. The exquisite beauty presented by Wang Guowei with these three words is an objective law that must be experienced in the success of life, and it feels the true meaning of life.
Time is like electricity, beyond the reach of future generations, unfathomable, that is, that person is in the dim light I like these three words very much. The answer was originally thought to be far away, and the hardships of persistence must go through three realms. Lonely and fragrant life, full of warm sunshine, a high-rise building. From a philosophical point of view. "
The first stage is chaos and chaos, simplicity and richness. The belt is getting wider and wider, and you will never regret it.
These three stages, suddenly feel: lonely and miserable. Last night, the west wind withered the trees, and I went through hardships and no regrets, waiting for the beauty of bloom. Later, I saw that I finally understood the inevitability of success, which made people haggard for Iraq.
The second stage is top-down exploration, realizing the tragic loneliness and savoring it. This second scene also shows the depth of life experience.
The third stage is suddenly enlightened.
3. Famous sayings about dependence The youngest son who can't get the inheritance right often gets a good development through his own struggle.
People who enjoy success rarely achieve great things. -Bacon Mother is not a person to rely on, but a person who makes dependence unnecessary.
-American female novelist Fisher D.C. Friends and acquaintances are the backers, but you can't rely on them blindly. -Sakurai Hideyoshi It's not enough to rely on it. You have to live on your own.
Napoleon might as well rely on others. (Shit. )
-Pre-Qin "Everything is done by Han Feizi, the foreign reserve says the lower right" Smart people rely on their own efforts, while stupid people rely on their own hopes. -it is reliable to rely on your loved ones anonymously. "
-The above is taken from Learning and Articles. Although we can grow up under the protection of our parents and relatives, we can rely on our brothers and friends, and we can get happiness because of our loved ones with the help of our friends, in any case, in the final analysis, human beings still have to rely on themselves. Goethe's mother is not a person to rely on, but a person who makes dependence unnecessary.
-American female novelist Fisher D.C. Friends and acquaintances are the backers, but you can't rely on them blindly. -Sakurai Hideyoshi It's not enough to rely on it. You have to live on your own.
Napoleon might as well rely on others. (Shit. )
-pre-Qin "everything is wrong, and the foreign reserves say the lower right."
4. Say goodbye to the famous saying of dependence, which is unclear.
Dependence refers to the dependence of one party on the other, or interdependence and mutual conditions. (1) "Dunhuang Bianwen Conference recorded Vimalakīrti's changed text by Bodhisattva A": "Ask my heart, it is the four big ones, relying on false karma.
After all, deduction is always true, people and I are empty and have no master. (2) Song Ceng Gong's "qi zhou Arrives at Shunsi": "Always give alms, help the poor and help the adherents, and always rely on them."
(3) Liang Qichao's "On the Future of China Nation": "I want to be independent without relying on the power of the state, which is what China is good at." 4 Lao She's Crescent Moon 18: "I don't depend on anyone, I want to earn my own food."
⑤ Li Er and the Waterway History of China: "The Book of the World records the story of the defeat of Pakistani Lin Jun in driving an earthen boat, which shows that Pakistani people depend on and attach importance to water transport." .
5. What are the famous sayings about "independence"? 1. Gentleman, strive for self-improvement. -Zhouyi
There are not enough people to rely on, you have to live on your own. -Napoleon
Humor is a sign that workers have confidence in their careers, indicating that they have advantages. -Engels
4. Self-confidence is the essence of heroes. Emerson
5. Confidence is the conqueror of mankind; It overcomes people and exists in people's hearts. -Marfa Tabo
6. It is my self-confidence that enables me to float in the quagmire of life without getting into trouble. -Dante
7. Many people accomplish nothing because they underestimate their abilities, belittle themselves and reduce their achievements.
8. Destiny is in your own hands, you can only rely on yourself.
9. Self-confidence is one's courage. With this courage, you will be invincible!
10 confidence is the master of fate. Helen Keller
1 1. People with firm beliefs are invincible. Betty
12. The only obstacle to realizing tomorrow is to doubt today.
13. People with inferiority always bury themselves in inferiority. Remember, you are the only one in the world.
14. The most important thing in life is to have a lofty goal and achieve it through talent and perseverance. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
15. Telescopes can see distant targets, but they can't replace you.
16. Don't laugh at Cycas. In order to open a flower, it has made more efforts than other tree species.
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6. Don't rely on other people's famous sayings 1. A man who does nothing will never achieve anything. He either failed in his action or made bold progress.
Said by: Chaucer, Troy Lars and Clayside.
Introduction: Geoffrey Chaucer (1343-1400 65438+1October 25th) is an English novelist and poet. The main works are the collection of novels "Canterbury Tales".
Second, only courage is the right way! What can't be avoided, if you are afraid of anxiety, can only be regarded as childish and cowardly.
Said by: [Britain] Shakespeare: The Second Part of Henry VI.
Introduction: william shakespeare (English: William Shakespeare, 1564-65438 May 3 +0665438 May 3 +06 May 3), often regarded as Shakespeare in China society, was the most outstanding dramatist in the history of English literature, one of the most important and greatest writers in the European Renaissance, and a master of humanistic literature at that time.
Third, people who are brave and tenacious and dare to fight will not be discredited even if they are defeated.
Said by: [England] Butler: Hardy Brass
Introduction: samuel butler (1835- 1902),19th century British writer.
Fourth, once a person is firm, he will be fearless.
Byron said, heaven and earth.
Introduction: george gordon byron (1788- 1824) was a great English romantic poet in the early 9th century. His masterpieces include Childe Haller's Travels and Don Juan, and he created a number of Byronic heroes in his poems.
The biggest test of courage is whether a person can fail without being discouraged.
Said by: [Britain] ingersoll: Declaration of Independence.
7. Proverbs and cases about independence or dependence are healthy, and a gentleman strives for self-improvement.
The source is The Dry Elephant of Zhouyi. Celestial bodies move vigorously, and talented people should strive for self-improvement with the movement of celestial bodies.
It is suggested that according to the observation of nature, the ancients found that the movement of celestial bodies is very regular and endless. So take Heaven as an example to encourage people to strive for self-improvement. The famous saying "Zhouyi" has inspired many people with lofty ideals of the Chinese nation to shed blood and sacrifice and struggle for resisting foreign aggression and defending their homeland.
It is this sense of self-improvement that makes the great Chinese nation endless and stand tall. The winner is strong, and the winner is strong.
Source "Lao Zi" Chapter 33. Being able to beat others is a sign of strength, but being able to beat yourself is the strong one.
I think there are many dialectics in Laozi's thought. What I'm talking about here is a life attitude, which emphasizes the importance of personal cultivation.
When you meet a powerful opponent in battle and competition, don't be intimidated by the powerful momentum of the other side first, but strengthen your confidence. Sun Tzu, a military strategist, famously said, "A good war is unbeaten, but a good war will not die", that is, we must first strengthen ourselves and fully study the advantages and disadvantages of the enemy and ourselves, so as to mobilize all favorable factors, overcome our own weaknesses, carry forward our advantages and win every battle.
Don't complain and don't be rude. Source: The Analects of Confucius, Xianwen.
Don't hate the sky, don't blame others. It is suggested that some people encounter setbacks and often complain that they have been treated unfairly, or that others have not treated themselves well.
In fact, you should find your own reasons first. If you don't work hard subjectively, you can't solve the problem by just making excuses objectively.
The final solution to the problem still depends on our own continuous efforts. If the sky is going to be a great task to people, we must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and mess around.
Source "Mencius Gao Zixia". When God wants to give an important mission to a person, it will definitely make him mentally miserable, physically tired, hungry and emaciated, and things are always unsatisfactory.
It is suggested that the so-called heaven here actually refers to the times. What these words emphasize is that to undertake the great mission entrusted by the times, a person often has to go through a series of hardships and setbacks before he can temper his will, increase his talents and achieve great things.
Sima Qian was jailed for defending Li Ling, which was considered a great shame. He tried to commit suicide several times, but in order to write a history book, he endured humiliation and worked hard to write, and finally finished this historical work.
Born in sorrow and died in happiness. Source "Mencius Gao Zixia".
The general idea can survive and develop in difficulties, but it will perish in happiness. It is suggested that Mencius say in the first article of this sentence that "heaven will descend to a great position, and so will people." This sentence is a summary sentence, which further warns people that suffering often makes people angry, energetic and positive; However, an excessively comfortable environment, without external troubles and internal worries, will easily make people feel comfortable with the status quo and even lead to family ruin.
The rapid demise of the Sui Dynasty and the decline of the Tang Dynasty are all related to the rulers' excessive pursuit of pleasure and loss of sense of hardship. Rummanmanqi Xiu Yuan Xi, I will search up and down.
Source Qu Yuan's Li Sao. Although it's a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, I still want to go to heaven and earth to seek the truth.
It is believed that Qu was exiled twice because he advocated political reform and United against Qin. His lyric poem Li Sao mainly expresses his worries about going abroad and leaving home.
These two poems are famous for Li Sao, which shows Qu Yuan's diligent pursuit of truth. In the imaginary world, poets travel in the universe in dragon carts and phoenix carts, express their feelings to the ancient emperors, ask questions to God and pursue tirelessly.
This spirit of "seeking up and down" has inspired future generations to pursue truth and forge ahead bravely for the just cause for thousands of years. Self-cultivation and self-improvement are worthy of Yuyao.
Source "Xunzi Self-cultivation". Through moral cultivation to achieve self-improvement, reputation can be as good as ancient sages Yao and Yu.
It is pointed out that self-cultivation is an important requirement of Confucian traditional morality, which means self-improvement and strict compliance with social moral norms. Xunzi's requirements for self-cultivation are so high and specific that his words and deeds, even his clothes, diet, place of residence, appearance and attitude, require ethical standards.
He thinks that doing these things is similar to Yao and Yu. In fact, he emphasized that self-cultivation can be a way of self-improvement. Whoever can defeat the strong enemy will win first.
Source: ce, Shu Hua, Shang Jun. A person who can defeat a powerful enemy should first be a person who can defeat himself (weakness).
This sentence is about the enemy's strategy and tactics, similar to Laozi's "self-defeat" thought. It is emphasized that people who struggle with strong enemies must first overcome themselves, that is, they must have full confidence.
If you lose confidence in the face of a strong enemy, you will fail. This idea also applies to all aspects of people's lives, that is, we must first establish firm confidence, strive to surpass ourselves and overcome our own shortcomings and deficiencies.
Beat yourself first, and then you can be invincible. The old horse crouches, aiming at thousands of miles; The martyrs were full of courage in their later years.
The source is Cao Cao's "Although Gui Shou". Although the swift horse is old and stays in the stable, it still has to gallop thousands of miles; A person with great ambitions will not disappear even when he is old.
It is suggested that the growth law of physiological age cannot be changed, and psychological age varies from person to person. Some people are depressed in their later years, especially after retirement, doing nothing; When some people get old, they are good at adapting to the environment, keep the same passion as young people, make positive progress, find a suitable position, play their role, and even start a new career.
Visible, as long as self-improvement, a correct understanding of themselves, the elderly can also create brilliant. Don't say Sang Yu is late, because it is still full of clouds.
The source is Liu Yuxi's "Appreciating Lotte and Singing the Old". Don't sigh. The afterglow of the sunset shines on mulberry trees and elms, and it can still shine all over the sky.
It was suggested that "Sang Yu" was synonymous with sunset and old age in ancient times because the sunset shone at the end of Sang Yu. These are two sentences in Liu Yuxi's poem to answer his friend Bai Juyi.
They are about the same age, and they are all in old age when writing this poem. Liu Yuxi said that it is a natural trend for people to get old, but they should still keep their enterprising spirit.
8. The famous saying about not relying on others 0 1. If a person is weak, he is his greatest enemy.
02. A brave man is his best friend. Life without friends is like life without sunshine.
The hope of tomorrow makes us forget the pain of today. 05. If life is stripped of ideals, dreams and fantasies, then life is just a pile of empty shelves.
06. Glowing is not the patent of the sun, you can also shine. 07. A fool monitors his mind with his body, while a wise man monitors his body with his mind.
08. The only way to get happiness is to cherish what you have and forget what you don't have. 09. Greed is the truest poverty, and contentment is the truest wealth.
10. You can get the whole world with love or lose the whole world with hate. 1 1. The value of a person is determined at the moment of temptation.
12. Youth is the only time when we have the right to weave dreams. 13. A youth classic will never be redeemed immediately.
14. Without the language of love, all words are boring. 15. True love should go beyond the length of life, the width of soul and the depth of soul.
16. Love is so powerful that people can forget everything, but so small that they can't even hold a grain of jealous sand. 17. when a person really realizes, he gives up the pursuit of wealth in the world and begins to pursue real wealth in the inner world.
18. As long as you have confidence, people will never be defeated. 19. No matter when you start, it is important not to stop after you start.
20. No matter when it ends, it is important not to regret it after it ends. 2 1. Tell yourself "I'm really fine" once a day.
22. Being angry is to punish yourself for what others have done wrong. 23. "Impossible" only exists in the dictionary of fools.
24. Hope for the best, strive for the best result and prepare for the worst. 25. Sweet home! The best thing in the world is home.
26. Laziness corrupts people's minds. Everything should be viewed from various angles.
28. Where there is an ideal place, hell is heaven. 29. Where there is hope, pain becomes happiness.
30. Compared with the victory of conquering oneself, all the victories are insignificant. 3 1. Compared with the failure of losing self, all failures are insignificant.
God never complains about people's ignorance, but people complain about God's unfairness. 33. A good life should be full of expectations, surprises and gratitude.
34. The most tiring thing in the world is to live in hypocrisy. 35. I feel I can do it, but I can't. Actually, it's just a moment.
36. The first youth is given by God; The second person's youth depends on his own efforts. 37. Without preset expectations, caring for people will be more comfortable.
38. Ideas are like practice. You must concentrate on drilling down at a point to have strength. 39. As long as you don't lose your way, you won't lose yourself.
40. If you ever sang the praises of the dawn, please embrace the night. 4 1. greetings don't have to be discreet, but they must be sincere and touching.
What matters in life is not where you stand, but where you are going. 43. Don't give up flying if you can fly.
44. Don't give up dreaming when you can dream. 50. You have to respect yourself before others will respect you.
5 1. One today is better than two tomorrows. 52. Keep it in mind; Every day is the best day of the year.
53. Optimists see opportunities in difficulties; Pessimists see suffering in opportunities. Courage does not mean that fear does not exist, but that you dare to face and overcome it.
If you are willing to admit your mistake, you have corrected half of it. 56. Tomorrow is the land with the fastest appreciation in the world, because it is full of hope.
57. The ideal road is always for people with confidence. 58. Self-deception is the most serious of all deception.
59. The biggest mistake in life is constantly worrying about making mistakes. 60. Turn your face to the sun, and there will be no shadow.
6 1. Experience is extracted from pain. 62. Face the past with the least regret.
63. Face the present with the least waste. 64. Face the future with the most dreams.
65. Happiness is not because you have more, but because you care less. 66. Your choice is to do or not to do, but if you don't do it, you will never have a chance.
If you want to have a perfect friendship, you may never find a friend. 68. Don't drill into sadness when you are unhappy. Think about the days when you have laughter.
69. Treat yourself as a fool, ask if you don't understand, and learn more. 70. Before correcting others, reflect on whether you have made any mistakes.
7 1. If you are afraid of failure, you will never succeed. 72. To overcome the anxiety and depression in life, we must first learn to be our own master.
You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood. 74. Loneliness and abandonment are the most terrible poverty.
75. Imagination is more important than knowledge. 76. Living aimlessly is like sailing without a compass.
77. Play your role and do what you should do. 78. All great actions and ideas have a small beginning.
79. Be kind to others when you are proud, because you will need them when you are frustrated. 80. Learn to do everything step by step.