I also went through a period of confusion before.
Yes, don’t be surprised. It’s true, I was confused too.
At that time, I just felt that life had no meaning.
Until one day, I met a grandmother selling vegetables.
She took a cloth stall at the door of the vegetable market, looked at it with a smile, and didn't shout. She sold it when someone asked, but when there was no one, she just chatted with other vegetable vendors there.
I also don’t understand how a vegetable seller can be so calm every day. Hey, as a good person, after thinking about it, I have to go up to the grandma to ask for advice.
The grandma said that her wife passed away a few years ago, her son also passed away, and she was the only one left in the family. She lived her life how she wanted to live, and there was no need to be sad.
She said that she had lived enough and was enlightened.
Selling vegetables with her was an aunt who was younger than her.
Auntie also likes to laugh, but she is different from grandma. She came early, and among the many vegetable vendors, she also shouted the loudest.
I asked my grandma the same question.
She said, if you have to fight, just fight. Isn’t life like this? If you don’t laugh, do you still have to cry? Crying takes more effort than laughing.
Then, I looked away. People only live one life and one journey, and nothing happens. It doesn’t matter. Just smile.
When you encounter ups and downs, are confused and at a loss, laughter is the antidote to your miserable life.
But when you see through life, laughter is life.
When I have nothing to do, I will try my best to avoid life, keep myself away from his poisonous claws, and not take the poison he gives me.
When I can't hide it, I try my best to see it through, and that's okay.