Last night, the candles in the bridal chamber were lit all night, waiting for dawn to worship the parents-in-law.
Make-up whispered to her husband, is thrush fashionable or not?
Make an appreciative comment
The whole poem takes the word "no time" as its soul. The bride is dressed up. If she can please her in-laws, she'd better ask the groom first. Such careful questioning is self-evident and amazing.
Zhang Ji replied in the poem "Rewarding Zhu Qingyu": Yue Nv's new makeup is in the mirror, and he knows that he is more thoughtful. When Wan Qi was young, people were expensive, and a Song Ling was the enemy of ten thousand gold. Comparing Zhu's life to a woman who picks diamonds in Jinghu Lake, Yuezhou, she is not only gorgeous and moving, but also has a wonderful singing voice, which is unmatched by other people who wear precious silk. Scholars attach great importance to each other and give wonderful answers, which is an eternal story and enjoys a high reputation in the poetry world.
Comparing the love relationship between husband and wife or men and women with friends, teachers, students and other social relationships is a traditional way of expression in China's classical poems, which appeared in The Songs of the South and developed afterwards. This poem is also written in this way.
The title is "Dedicated to Secretary Zhang on the Eve of the Imperial Examination", which can help readers understand the meaning of this poem. In the Tang dynasty, scholars who wanted to take the imperial examination had the habit of writing papers for celebrities, hoping to praise them and introduce them to the assistant minister who presided over the examination. The object of Zhu Qingyu's poem is Dr. Zhang Ji from the Ministry of Water Resources. At that time, Zhang Jihe Han Yu was equally famous because he was good at literature and was willing to be promoted. Zhu Qingyu usually writes papers for him and has always been appreciated by him. The exam is coming, and he is afraid that his work may not meet the requirements of the examiner. Therefore, he compared himself with the bride, groom and in-laws as an examiner, and wrote this poem for Zhang Ji's advice.
It is an ancient custom for a bride to get married the night before meeting her in-laws. The focus of this poem is her psychological state before she went to visit. The first sentence is married. New house, here refers to the new house. Stop and get in position. Stop the red candle, that is, let the red candle burn for a night. Write an interview in the second sentence. Because visiting is an important event, she got up early in the morning, dressed up in the light of red candle, and waited for dawn to salute in front of the mourning hall. At this time, she couldn't help wondering whether her dress was fashionable. Is whether you can please your in-laws? So the second half will continue to write her words and deeds in this mood. I carefully combed my makeup and drew my eyebrows, but I still felt uncertain, so I had to ask my husband's opinion. As a bride, of course I'm a little shy. Moreover, it is not easy to say this idea out loud for others to hear, so it is very reasonable to ask in a low voice. This writing is really meticulous.
Just like a boudoir, this poem is complete and beautiful. However, the author's original intention is to express his unique anxiety and expectation when facing an exam related to his political future. For intellectuals at that time, the imperial examination for learning was as important as the marriage of girls. If you pass the exam, you will have a very broad future, otherwise, you may spend your whole life. This is like a woman marrying a family. If she is loved by her husband and in-laws, her position will be stable and her situation will be smooth. Otherwise, life will be hard. The poet's metaphor comes from the real social life and is typical under the historical conditions at that time. Even now, readers can't help but marvel at his ability to kill two birds with one stone.
This poem by Zhu Qingyu was clearly answered by Zhang Ji. In Zhu Qing language, he wrote:
Yue Nv's new makeup appeared in the mirror, knowing Yan Yan was more considerate.
When Wan Qi was young, people were expensive, and a Song Ling was the enemy of ten thousand gold.
Because Zhu's poems are comparative, so are Zhang's poems. In this poem, he compared Zhu Qingyu to a girl who picked on ling. She is beautiful and has a nice voice. So she must be appreciated, suggesting that she doesn't have to worry about this exam.
The first sentence is about the identity and appearance of the girl. She is a ling-picking girl in Yuezhou. At this time, she just dressed up and appeared in the middle of Jinghu Lake, singing while picking diamonds. Write her mood in the second sentence. Of course she knows that she is beautiful and radiant. But I meditated again because I had too many hobbies. (thoughtfully, this means meditation and taste, and it is extended to secretly ponder and think. Zhu Qingyu is a native of Yuezhou (now Shaoxing City, Zhejiang Province). There are many beautiful women in Yuezhou, and Jinghu Lake is a scenic spot. So Zhang Ji compared him to Yue Nv and appeared in the mirror. These two sentences are the answers to the last two sentences in Zhu Shi's poems. The new makeup is the opposite of thrush, and it is thoughtful and out of date. In the second half, she further affirmed her outstanding talent, saying: Although there are many other girls wearing clothes made of precious silk from Tiqi (now Shandong), it is not worthy of attention. On the contrary, the beaded throat of this diamond-picking girl is really worth thousands of dollars. This is to further dispel Zhu Qingyu's unfashionable concerns, so it is especially relative to people in time. Zhu's poem of giving a reply is well written, and Zhang's answer is wonderful, which can be described as a perfect match, and has been circulated in poetry for thousands of years.
Contains a deep and shallow fate.
1, the vastness of the sea lies in the gathering of streams, and the Wang Yang of life lies in the tolerance of the depth of fate.
People are not interested in anything when they are in low mood, so they should learn to divert their attention. Now that it has become a fact, try to accept it and face the reality. One person cannot change the world, and the world will not change because of you. What we can do is to adapt to the world. Don't get into trouble. Don't be dissatisfied with the status quo and don't compare with others.
It is said that people go up high, but it is too cold. Water flows downwards, but all rivers flow downwards!
4. Many things that we thought we would never forget for a lifetime were forgotten by us in the days when we never forget them.
Regret is an emotion that consumes the spirit. Regret is a bigger loss than loss and a bigger mistake than mistake, so don't regret it.
6. The difference between a lie and an oath is that the listener takes it seriously and the speaker takes it seriously.
7. Opportunities will never be lost. People will catch you and miss it. When you let pain dock, happiness will dock elsewhere.
8. Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed.
9. Everyone is a book. The cover was given by our parents, and we can't change it. All we have to do is try our best to write out the contents. Perhaps, at first, we were not satisfied with ourselves or others, but it doesn't matter. As long as we try our best, we have no regrets.
10, everyone used to be an angel. When he fell in love with someone, he broke his wings and fell into the world, becoming a mortal. So don't let the person who loves you down, because he has no wings to fly back to the original heaven.
1 1. When you are sad, eat a candy and tell yourself that life is sweet!
12, the only thing that can wash away everything is time. The longer the time, the weaker the conflict, just like tea that is constantly diluted.
13, you never gave me a look back, but I kept smiling at you.
14, you can be silent, regardless of my concerns; Regardless of my anxiety; You can take my concern as a reason to upset you; You can put my ideas in the corner and ignore them. You can smile at others, you can hug others, you can be good to the whole world, but forget that I was sad. You like you just because of me, which is the only reason that makes me humble.
15, you only need to pay attention to someone for one minute and become friends within one hour. If one day you fall in love with him, once you really fall in love with him, you need to forget him all your life.
16, people should not wait for tomorrow, because no one knows if they have tomorrow.
17, the success of life lies not in getting a good deck of cards, but in how to play bad cards well, when the mentality tends to be calm; The spirit will be eternal; Give yourself a smile, the sun is new every day!
18. There are some things in life. If you miss a moment, you miss a lifetime.
19, the most important thing in life is not where we are, but where we are going.
20. If life is a journey, happiness and sadness are two long rails that follow me closely.
If I love you, I will understand you and see the world through your eyes. I can understand you, because I can see myself in you and I can see you in me.
22. If there is an afterlife, I would like to be your sister. Even if we can't enter the marriage hall, I can still be a relative you can never give up!
23, if one day, you want to leave me, I won't leave you, I know you have your reasons; If one day you say you still love me, I will tell you that I have been waiting for you; If one day, we pass by, I will stop and stare at your distant back and tell myself that I once loved that person.
Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get.
25. In life, people keep leaving or entering. So, what you see, what you can't see; Remember, forget. In life, there are gains and losses. Therefore, the invisible see; Forgot, remember. However, does invisibility mean non-existence? Remember, will it never disappear?
26. There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple in human observation, so it is difficult to be confused.
Life is a river and its depth must be crossed.
Life is a river and its depth must be crossed.
Life is a nameless river, no matter how deep or shallow. Life is a cup of colorless tea. Drink it whether it is bitter or sweet. Life is a fearless song, no matter how high or low, you have to make peace. I hope everyone can treat themselves easily and smile at life! We should also learn a little philosophy of life. Don't publicize and magnify the shortcomings of others, and don't appreciate and cheer for your own advantages every day.
There are three kinds of pains in life: one is that you can't get it, so it is very painful; The second pain is that you get it, but that's all, so you feel pain; The third pain is that you give up easily, only to find that it is so important in your life, so you feel pain.
If you regard suffering as suffering, it is really suffering. However, if we combine it with the most vast land in our spiritual world, it will become a valuable nutrition, moisten our hearts, make us like a phoenix in suffering, sublimate our thoughts and experience a special sweetness and beauty.
As old as a year, one day passes without a day; Autumn after autumn, one generation urges another; A party, a parting, a joy, a sadness; Lying in bed alone, dreaming all my life.
Heart, dream, existence, memories, some people, some things, wait until the autumn wind, you should stay, you should go, go to other places, life is a good play.
Conquering the world is not great. A man who can conquer himself is the greatest man in the world.
Life is a hundred years, in a hurry. On a sunny afternoon, we always doubt whether we really exist. Is our life like sleepwalking? What is the meaning of life? I worked hard for a long time, but I got nothing. Should I give up? You might as well learn a natural mentality in your life and let yourself stay and be natural.
No matter how much trouble we encounter, we accept it frankly, and there is no need to leave any scars in our hearts.
Don't be pessimistic that we are unlucky. In fact, there are many people worse off than us. Don't be optimistic that we are great, in fact, we are just a drop in the ocean.
Hold fate in your palm, empty; The fate of walking at the foot is really long; Leaving fate to tomorrow is just a distant dream.
To the world, we are as small as dust, but to ourselves, we are as wide as the world, and we are everything to ourselves. If we give up, everything will be gone.
Life is alive, and everything is autumn. Whether it is a happy time or a sad time, time is slowly advancing. We will not stay because of anyone's nostalgia, nor will we speed up our pace because of anyone's boredom. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. I've been unpredictable all my life. I am experiencing big and small gains and losses in my present life. Some mistakes are irreversible, and some beautiful fragments have become dusty memories.
No matter what we have, how much we have and how long we have it, it is only a small moment. People praised my modesty and added another kind of beauty; Blow your own horn and add another failure. Whenever and wherever, we should keep a humble heart.
People in the world are disturbing each other, forgiving each other, tolerating each other, deducing all the grievances in this world, and watching the changes in the world of mortals, one thing is not fixed. In the face of everything, put it down when it's over, without entanglement, calmly and calmly, just like a cloud rolling around. Every day, every moment, is the end and the beginning.
Sentences about Depth _ Classic Quotations
Sentences about Depth _ Classic Quotations _ Both oceans and rivers have depth; People's education and speech also have depth. Most people are always dismissive of people who don't know how to learn; Some people are deep, but they are too deep and unfathomable, which will keep people away.
People are too deep, too high and too few; It's too shallow to look down upon, and it's best to explain it in a simple way. The Buddha's teaching method can be said to be simple for fun; In order to make people enlightened, all kinds of statements always make people gain something.
Now many scientists, in order to introduce scientific knowledge to the public, do not hesitate to shout out popular science; Philosophers want to explain difficult philosophy, so they use various metaphors to attract people. The famous Zhuangzi, ((Hokkekyo) and ((Dabao Jing) are the wisdom presented by many philosophers after expressing them in simple terms.
Ordinary people always disdain superficiality. In fact, doctors should treat diseases with deep and shallow injections. Friends only need to make shallow friends, so they can't talk deeply; Listening only needs superficial knowledge, not in-depth study. Some scholars sometimes laugh at themselves, but in fact, people who claim to be ignorant must be hidden. Of course, dragons are born in the deep sea and secluded in the deep mountains. Your majesty, important people are reclusive, and everything must be carefully thought out before they can improvise and have the same depth.
Some people say that Buddhism is deep and difficult to approach; You haven't swam in the Ganges, how do you know how deep it is? The spread of Buddhism makes it possible for Buddhism to flow in hills and continents, just because it is deep or shallow, which is an opportunity to deal with diseases and medicine. If three kinds of animals cross the river, elephants, horses and white rabbits can swim across it. Their footprints in the water must be different in depth, but the depth of the water is always the same, so people who know it will say: I have benefited a lot, and my blessings are great.
When Dharma arrived from the East, Liang Wudi invited him to the palace to ask Dharma: Since I was in charge, I have been building and guiding monks and doing good deeds. What are my advantages? Father Dharma replied: No merit! Liang Wudi seems to have been poured cold water, thinking: I have done so many good things, and you not only don't praise me, how can you say that there is no credit? So I can't help but feel disgusted with Father Dharma. Father Dharma also felt that there was no chance with him and left. This is because the depth does not correspond, so there is no tacit understanding.
Speaking of depth, water has depth, man has depth, reason has depth, and even Buddhism has depth. Although the deep sea provides navigation for big ships and deep hiding for big fish, the shallow sea makes people swim, dive and clean. For another example, people who can drink and sing like to drink lightly and sing low; People who study education always want easy-to-understand teaching methods. Deep ploughing and shallow planting, shallow communication, the so-called deep is deep, shallow is shallow, and the depth can be used.