A pillow of autumn wind dreams comes back for the first time, and a third spring dream comes back to life nine times.
"Three glasses of wine are a great success, and a pot of tea is a great success for a thousand years. A pillow of autumn wind dreams first returns, and the third spring dream is reincarnated. " From Zhai Hongshen's Communication Skills of Great Wisdom, a master of Chinese studies, it means that things that have been disturbed in the world of mortals have been talked about in three cups and two light wines; Any ambitious plan in the world will be spent in a pot of tea in the afternoon. Living in today's materialistic society, the life of the world of mortals is like drinking three glasses of wine:
The first glass of wine is full of pride, which is at the peak of life;
drinking the second cup is like watching the world in a daze, like being drunk or not;
The third cup is like seeing through after frustration and waking up after drunkenness. The glory and favor of the world of mortals, which was proud for a while, ended and will eventually come to nothing. It is intended to persuade people to relax their minds, be a man of realm and accomplishment, and look at everything calmly.
Meaning:
1. This sentence compares "three glasses of wine" with "a pot of tea", showing two completely different States of life, one is "the world is full of dust" and the other is "the great cause of a thousand years", which is far from better, but represents two completely different cultures.
2. As two completely different things, tea and wine have completely different characteristics. Wine, strong and unrestrained, makes people more emotional after drinking. In China, northerners prefer drinking, drinking when they have something to do and drinking when they have nothing to do.
3. Wine plays an important role in people's lives in the north. Even if you encounter any more troubles, these troubles will often be forgotten after three glasses of wine, making people forget their worries. Therefore, it is more appropriate to use "three glasses of wine" to correspond to "the world of mortals".
4. Unlike tea, tea is mild and leisurely, which makes people more rational after drinking. In China, southerners love to drink tea, and many places have the habit of drinking afternoon tea, drinking tea almost every day.
About the author:
Zhai Hongshen, born in Jilin on April 21, 1943, is a special senior training lecturer of Beijing Zhidian Future Management Consulting Company. China is a marketing training instructor, a practical application scholar of Chinese studies, an economic and cultural scholar, and a visiting professor in Peking University. He is currently Chairman of Daoang International Group, Dean of China International Talent Engineering College, President of DAM Marketing Development Agency, Director of China Entrepreneur Training Center in Peking University, Chief Consultant of China Business News Expert Advisory Group, and Doctoral Supervisor of American National University. In recent years, Professor Zhai has been invited to give thousands of education, training and lectures in various forms in governments at all levels and well-known universities, which has enabled nearly one million people to make breakthroughs in their thoughts, behaviors and mentality after being shocked and awakened, and is regarded as the most valuable education and training expert in China today.
an advocate and disseminator of traditional culture in China. For a long time, Professor Zhai has been devoted to the study of China's traditional culture and philosophy with a strong sense of nationality and mission. After integrating various international representative philosophical mainstream and marketing theories, combined with the actual situation in China, he put forward a set of unique solutions for management science, decision-making science, personnel training, marketing and enterprise team, which caused great repercussions in academic circles.
The famous "TAT" course developed by Professor Zhai Hongshen has been very popular in MBA, EMBA, DBA, excellent leadership programs and other seminars in famous universities such as Tsinghua University, Renmin University of China, University of Science and Technology Beijing and American National University.
In recent years, Professor Zhai has been invited to give thousands of education, training and lectures in various forms in governments at all levels and well-known universities, which has enabled nearly one million people to gain mental growth and breakthroughs in shock and consciousness.
I have served:
China Unicom, Zhongyuan Oilfield, Guoqiang Group, tingmei Group, Daya Group, Shifeng Group, Yutong Bus Group and so on. More are small and medium-sized enterprises that are developing, such as Yinman Company and Qirui Company. These enterprises have gained vigorous vitality after Professor Zhai experienced their corporate culture construction, team building, internal staff training and the education and training of dealers and agents all over the country. In a short time, they have thousands of chain organizations nationwide, and their annual turnover has exceeded 1 million yuan!
Professor Zhai has been exploring the ways to train talents in China, and spontaneously established the "China University Entrepreneurship Training Camp". He has personally successfully trained hundreds of thousands of college graduates and achieved the entrepreneurial dreams of countless talents. He is known as the "godfather of China's entrepreneurial marketing"
the master of the application of Chinese studies, the practitioner and disseminator of Dacheng culture and Mahayana wisdom, the calligrapher, Tsinghua University, Renmin University, University of Science and Technology Beijing distinguished professor, and the doctoral supervisor specially invited by the National University of the United States. Professor Zhai has been devoted to promoting the traditional culture of China, and has been invited to give lectures and lectures in governments at all levels, famous universities and business circles, which has enabled millions of people to make breakthroughs in their thoughts, behaviors and mentality in shock and consciousness. Courses sponsored by Professor Zhai, such as Great Wisdom in the Application of Chinese Studies, Top Ten Practices for Entrepreneurs, Wisdom of Tao Te Ching, Seven-day Meditation Class, and Health Preservation of Chinese Studies, are very popular in MBA, EMBA, DBA, President's Seminar and excellent leadership training in well-known universities at home and abroad. Professor Zhai Hongshen's courses spread "good knowledge", convey "positive energy" and share "great wisdom". The perfect combination of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism makes people feel the talent of Professor Zhai flowing from his bones and the glory and spirit of China people surging in his blood.
Main courses:
The Power of Leadership
Speaking Just Right
The Strong Who Breaks Through Self
Asking about Filial Piety: A Record of Zhai Hongshen's Filial Piety Application Wisdom
Three Capitals to Achieve Yourself
Spiritual Training Course for Fortune 5 Salesmen
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Communication skills of great wisdom:
1. Self-cultivation
Only by changing the inside can we change our face. A dark heart can't hold up a bright face. There must be kindness if there is love; Where there is kindness, there must be joy; Where there is pleasure, there must be grace. A person with a low realm cannot speak lofty words; A person without a sense of mission can't say anything with a sense of responsibility; A person with a small pattern can't speak atmospheric words.
The final competition between enterprises is the competition of entrepreneurs' mind and realm. Seeing others is not pleasing to the eye, because one's self-cultivation is not enough. Only when there is kindness can there be virtue, and when there is virtue, there is happiness. This is what the ancients said: "Being virtuous and carrying things". A person's life is a process of cultivating Tao, realizing Tao and finally gaining Tao. Only when you are in the same stream can you communicate, communicate with each other, and communicate with each other to trade. The same flow equals confluence, confluence equals syncretism, and syncretism equals heart-to-heart. ?
2. About success
If you want to succeed, you must first learn to be abnormal-change your mentality, state and attitude. The way to success = thinking × action × expression. ? Many failures are not because there is no plan before action, but because there is no plan before action.