Appropriate restrictions, a heterosexual contact, are often difficult to master and deal with. Enough is enough. To put it bluntly, we should know how to put ourselves in other's shoes. When you can really jump out of the limitations of thinking, know the details of how men and women get along, and grasp the appropriate boundaries between men and women, then your's feelings will gradually heat up.
Men and women, in order to truly grasp the appropriate boundaries of heterosexual communication, should always keep in mind the real needs of their partners. If you can't master the appropriate boundaries of the opposite sex, then you will hit a wall everywhere in your's relationship, and it will be difficult for you to join hands in the marriage hall.
Generally speaking, the appropriate limit, who has mastered heterosexual communication, is often reflected in these details.
1, pay attention to the tone.
If you want to grasp the proper boundaries of heterosexual communication, you should always pay attention to your tone and attitude. If you talk to a person in a particularly perfunctory and indifferent tone, and your attitude towards him is unreasonable and full of perfunctory, then others will naturally feel disgusted and dissatisfied with you.
Sometimes, appropriate restrictions have the same sense of ritual. If you didn't pay attention to your words and your attitude towards your partner was too arrogant, then no matter how much your partner loves you, you can't help but gradually get away from you.
Appropriate restrictions in heterosexual communication are often reflected in whether you can pay attention to your tone and attitude.
In feelings, if a person often communicates with you in a vicious tone, his interaction with you becomes very few, which often means that his heart may not be with you for a long time.
The more a person loves you, the more he knows how to remind himself of his tone and attitude. If you don't want to talk and communicate well, you are always silent and disgusted with each other in the process of getting along with each other, and the distance between you is getting farther and farther, then nine times out of ten, your's feelings have already cracked, and no matter how hard it is, it won't help.
2. Pay attention to keeping a proper distance.
Both men and women should always remind themselves to keep an appropriate distance from their partners. If you want your partner to really love you, then you should pay attention to properly limit people who come into contact with the opposite sex.
If you don't pay attention to keeping a proper distance from him, you will have more and more things to worry about. When you are bent on getting rid of your partner's company and bondage, you would rather live alone than accept another stranger's real integration into your life and world, which means that you may not be suitable for each other from the beginning.
Whether men or women, if they want to really grasp the proper boundaries of heterosexual communication and don't want this hard-won love to disappear quickly, they must always keep an appropriate and necessary distance.
If you don't know how to keep a proper distance from your partner in your relationship and always do things that hurt your partner in the name of love, then over time, your partner will be tempted to turn against you.
3. Pay attention to respect each other's privacy.
The most important thing is to remind yourself to respect each other's personal privacy.
There is no denying that everyone has an object in his heart more or less. If you really like someone, you love each other very much, and you are willing to pay everything silently for each other, then please know how to respect each other's privacy.
The so-called personal privacy refers to things involving personal safety, or topics that a person simply doesn't want to talk about and discuss.
Especially when you haven't known each other for a long time and are still in the running-in stage, the other half begins to inquire about everything about you intentionally or unintentionally, including some things that make people feel particularly embarrassed, and even some things that involve your personal privacy, indicating that the other party doesn't know how to respect your privacy, and he lacks the necessary understanding and respect for you.
When two people are together, the most important thing is to be happy. In feelings, only when a person knows how to respect and understand each other's difficulties, and you are willing to fully respect each other's privacy, will your's feelings have a more appropriate limit and your's feelings will be long and sweet.
In a word, with proper restrictions, whoever masters heterosexual communication cannot do without mutual respect and understanding. You should pay attention to every little detail. For example, you should pay attention to fully respecting your partner's personal privacy. Some things are only suitable to be buried in a person's heart.
If your partner doesn't want to mention something to you, it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you enough, but because it belongs to his personal privacy. If you really love someone, you should respect his feelings and experiences.
The so-called appropriate limit, to put it bluntly, is that two people treat each other as guests. You are interdependent and independent. If you can do whatever you want with your partner because he loves you enough, and you start to cheat his feelings unscrupulously, then you will gradually lose a person's love and trust, and your feelings will be in danger of disintegration and collapse.
When two people get along together, if they don't feel comfortable enough, it often means that there is a rift in your's feelings and she doesn't grasp the proper boundaries of the opposite sex.
Whenever and wherever, in a relationship, always remind yourself to keep proper limits. No matter how much you love someone, don't get too close to him, and don't be too enthusiastic about loving someone, otherwise it will easily scare others.
As the saying goes, everything goes too far. The more you love someone, the more you should keep an appropriate limit. You should know what you can do and what is not worth your time and energy.
Correctly grasping the appropriate boundaries between the opposite sex will greatly promote the warming of your feelings and reduce the quarrels between you.
Because you have appropriate limits, you know where the bottom line of love is, and you will not easily cross the bottom line and red line of love. When you have awe of your feelings and appropriate restrictions, your feelings will be more stable and last longer.