"Everything must meet Bole", which means that if a person wants to succeed, he needs to meet someone who appreciates his talents, which is the so-called Bole. It is important to meet people who appreciate themselves, but the ultimate success depends on your own efforts and strength.
"But don't miss yourself" means that when you encounter things that have passed, you should stop missing and learn to let go. Only by letting go of the baggage of the past can we move forward better.
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