Explanation:
Nine times out of ten things in life are not entirely in your mind. There are very few things you can tell others.
Nine times out of ten, life is unpleasant:
Biography of the Book of Jin Yang Hucheng was first published.
Other sources: Xin Qiji, a poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, wrote "Preface to He Xinlang's Re-Fu": "Sigh that life is always unsatisfactory." After Xin Qiji, there was a poem by Fang Yue, a poet in the Song Dynasty: "Frustration is often nine times out of ten, but it is no different from the speaker." (Commander of Other Talents).
Since the Yuan and Ming Dynasties, Fang Yue's poems have been mostly used in the association of "unsatisfactory things often happen eight or nine times, but they are no different from the speaker".
Extension:
Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and it can be said that it is no different from others. Or unhappy things in life, only happiness is in my heart.
Extended data
Bai: Beautiful failure is another kind of success.
Failure, in fact, has many meanings, greater than success, or a success must be promoted by failure.
Li Houzhu in the Southern Tang Dynasty reached its peak in failure, and it is difficult for us to experience such a failure. But we are still talking about him. Why?
As a great literary creator, he stayed in the history of China literature. If the country had not been completely destroyed, would he have written such a feeling of "asking how much sorrow you can have, just like a river flowing eastward"?
No. This failure is painful for Li Houzhu, but isn't it a blessing for future generations and the inheritance of China people? In his works, failure has become a wonderful artistic conception.
Mozart, I have been to his hometown Salzburg more than once. He was not a popular man in his hometown. He has been ostracized many times and his fate is ill-fated. But he is also a genius. How far is genius?
The musical works he created in his life may not be copied by ordinary people. In his music, you can't hear failure, frustration, drifting of life experience and all unspeakable secrets. His music will always be the most beautiful existence in the world, which is a very beautiful thing.