Parental love: Did Ouyang Yi misread Su Shi's poems intentionally or unintentionally?

The Love of Parents tells the story of love, marriage and family of parents' generation. The drama of that era always has the unique imprint of that era, and so does the love between parents. "Parents' Love" does not describe the political movement vividly, but we can still see that the movement has changed people's destiny. Angie didn't like Jiang Defu at first, but her brother Antai has been trying to improve relations. The original intention of Aetna to set them up was to take advantage of Jiang Defu's status as an officer to shelter and settle down, but Jiang Defu was just a small official with very limited ability. Not to mention it's hard to protect your wife and settle others. In that unprecedented political movement, the Antai family suffered a lot of money without personal persecution, which was later confirmed when they lived in a simple residential building. Angie's sister, An Xin's family, is very unfortunate. A family of four was sent to the remote island of Montenegro and lived a precarious life. If it weren't for Jiang Defu's frequent relief, I'm afraid life would be unsustainable.

Antai and Ouyang Yi have the same family background, but their situations in political movements are different, which is due to their different personalities. Antai is calm and mature, and knows how to avoid disadvantages. He always speaks slowly and unhurriedly, and is good at reading words and feeling. He really despises Jiang Defu. Jiang Defu's simple and rude behavior is incompatible with settlement. For example, Jiang Defu will send a bag of flour at the shower, bring a pot of white chrysanthemums at the flower show, and slurp his food, which has always been criticized by Anjie. But Antai keeps the goal in mind and will not change his original intention because of small details. Every time, he always solves these problems perfectly, avoiding embarrassment for Jiang Defu and his family.

Ouyang Yi is a perceptual intellectual. He looks at everything around him with pretentious eyes. He can't pretend, but he is always happy. He didn't like Jiang Defu, so he made it plain. He likes to express his views, no matter what the occasion, because his wife and daughter are involved. After being banished to Heishan Island, Ouyang Yi lost her former elegance and became sensitive, melancholy and taciturn. After his rehabilitation, he regained his arrogance and even boasted to Jiang Defu that "not everyone is qualified to be a Rightist". Did the sufferings of those years become the capital he touted? Shouldn't he blame himself for bringing trouble to his wife and daughter? This kind of person is completely self-centered, doing things only for a while, regardless of the consequences.

There are many people around us like Ouyang Yi, who unknowingly offended others and brought unnecessary trouble to themselves. We have heard a lot of tragedies caused by verbal disputes. It is better to absorb the silence of the ancients as soon as possible than to regret it afterwards.