I don't know what stimulated that man to make such a move. I don't comment on the right or wrong of breaking up here, just on this matter. I have experienced a breakup, and I can feel the pain after it. Both sides are tired or disgusted, and even bring you a green hat. What can it do? Of course choose to forgive! Isn't it good to be a decent person?
When two people are together, they cherish each other and live up to their youth. When they can't be together, they leave generously, without entanglement or noise. This will also give you a good reputation. You shouldn't be happy that your predecessor has become better since he left you, should you? It's a good thing you didn't delay others' future. You shouldn't be happier, should you? Fortunately, I left, and I didn't delay your future.
Now more and more people choose to be single. I read a report that the divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher. In fact, happiness in life itself has nothing to do with marriage. It doesn't matter whether you are married or not, and it doesn't matter if you are single all your life. Compared with marriage, it is more important for us to look at ourselves, find ourselves confident and stretched, and find ourselves with dreams and love. This is the theme of human life. Love is not a necessity of life, nor is sex a necessity of life. Gentlemen make friends, make no noise, cherish each other and never say goodbye!
I have a schoolmate who talked about a girlfriend ten months ago. I introduced her. She invited me to dinner at that time. I didn't attend because of work. It's a pity After all, this is my first time as a lunar elder, and they fall in love so easily. My classmate is very handsome and my sister is very beautiful. Together, it is simply a fairy combination. This girl is the cousin of a friend of mine. They met at that time and soon got together. I almost dislocated my jaw in surprise. Not too fast.
They often show their love in the circle of friends, and I even envy this thousand-year-old dog a little. I envy their good relationship. I brought them together, which made me feel relieved. However, the good times did not last long. One day, I suddenly saw my brother make a long circle of friends in the circle of friends, probably saying that he is so kind to girls. Girls don't understand his thoughtfulness, her romance, and even denigrate girls. I was angry at that time. After all, this is my introduction, and I think there is nothing wrong with this girl. She has a good life, but considering that she is angry now, she didn't say anything about him.
One night, he suddenly sent me a lot of WeChat voices, which were deadly serial voices. When he heard this, he should have drunk too much, poured bitter water and cried. I'm in a hurry, too How much does a big man have to suffer to cry like this? So I can't help it, I just want to find a junior to understand the situation, persuade him and comfort him. My junior told me politely that they actually had a conflict because of a little thing, so he lost his temper, gave up on himself, and even threatened to slander her, speak ill of her in front of his classmates and scold her. This is originally a very small matter between lovers, just coax her. I didn't expect my junior's character to be so poor. If I had known before, I would never have introduced my school sister to him.
Later, in the circle of friends, I often saw my classmates send some lonely sentences in the circle of friends, as if the other party had brought him a big cuckold husband and turned him into a victim. One day, I finally couldn't stand his negative attitude and blocked his circle of friends. How can I stand such a negative person, no matter how broad-minded I am? Later, when I met my junior, she told me that it was a good thing that I didn't get back together with him at the beginning, otherwise I was really afraid that he would do something stupid. If a person makes his predecessor feel that her previous departure is right, then this person must be a failure.
My colleague Lao Wu, we have a good relationship and often ask me out fishing. He is also very amiable, and his interpersonal relationship at work is very good. Once he chatted with me while fishing and asked me when I would get married. I smiled and told the reason why I didn't talk about love in recent years. Maybe I'm scared, maybe I can't forget the girl in my heart, maybe I haven't met anyone touched. Lao Wu said with a smile that the young man has experienced a lot at a young age. When I said this, I opened my mouth. Lao Wu told me that he was divorced once when he was young, but he finally found true love. He told me with joy that he had quarreled with his ex-wife when he was young. At that time, he was young and didn't know humility at all. He was really blindfolded when his wife said he was divorced. He didn't expect such a thing to happen to himself. He talked a lot with his ex-wife, and finally felt that their personalities and other aspects were still inappropriate, and finally chose to divorce.
Lao Wu is a decent man. At the time of divorce, he didn't slander or tear. He left generously and divided the property, which actually made his ex-wife feel a little guilty! After the divorce, Lao Wu did not feel depressed or give up on himself. Instead, I plunged into my work, became a small leader of the unit, and then passed the law exam. My work is very active, and I finally met my present wife.
Teacher Luo Xiang once said: True love must not be moved instantly, but must be a permanent commitment, mutual sacrifice, mutual achievement and mutual respect. Break up depends on personality, divorce depends on humanity. A person's cultivation and quality will be reflected incisively and vividly in extreme circumstances. Finally, I wish everyone can love what they love!