The final result of this kind of woman is that in this relationship, she becomes more and more tired and eventually loses happiness.
There are also some women who play the role of money worship in a relationship. She doesn't put feelings first, but money first.
Her purpose will determine what she will eventually get in this relationship, so the final result is that such a woman will become more and more lonely in her relationship.
Spending money does not mean "spending money". How to spend a man's money to make him love you more? Smart women tell you these three ways.
1. In the relationship between men and women, money and relationship are invisibly linked. When a man measures a woman, he often looks at her attitude towards money.
If a woman always likes extravagance and has no sense of saving, in the eyes of men, such a woman can't be a good wife.
A woman who really spends money knows how to save face for a man and cherishes his labor income, so such a woman will consider the man's own economic situation first when spending.
This is not only a kind of respect, but also a silent love in men's eyes, which will make them feel gratified and satisfy men's vanity.
Women can spend money, but it must be within the range that men can afford. You can spend each other's money or you can spend your own money, provided that you don't put any pressure on each other.
If you don't consider other factors and the other party's conditions when spending money, it will make this relationship into a state of tension and anxiety.
Second, the currency with higher value itself is equivalent exchange, and its value cannot be measured. A woman who really spends money knows how to make money more valuable. In other words, she knows how to spend money on "cutting edge".
It is also a sum of money, which some women use for aimless consumption. In her view, this has completed the value of money and played its role.
And some women, she not only regards money as some low-level needs, but also can raise it to a higher level.
Those women know how to satisfy themselves and men, and she will invest more money in things that can be expected in the future.
For example, women will spend a sum of money on luxury goods, and some women will spend the money on some value-added projects, such as going to the gym and investing in their own careers. All these have predictable effects. After a long time, men will not only feel bored, but also sit up and take notice of them.
There is a law of attraction between people, and women should use money to improve themselves, not as a tool of indulgence and slack.
Third, make good use of the principle of reciprocity. In the relationship between men and women, we should also apply the principle of reciprocity, also known as the principle of reciprocity. Reciprocity is the mutual or corresponding transfer of interests or privileges.
Smart women understand that in a relationship between men and women, you can't just give or take, you need to keep a balance in the relationship.
The essence of any relationship is actually an exchange of interests. In heterosexual relationships, money, power, emotion and affection will be mixed together.
Smart women can also exchange benefits when spending men's money, in other words, women also know how to pay in the process of taking.
She will give men some feedback and response to the greatest extent. Men not only meet the needs of love, but also meet the needs of being loved.
Women spend men's money on the principle of reciprocity, which is actually unconscious cooperation. The handling of money relations will also play a certain role in the relationship between the two.
The correct application of the principle of "sunk cost" is actually the process in which women spend men's money indirectly, and it also uses the principle of "sunk cost".
"Sunk cost" refers to the expenses that occurred in the past but have nothing to do with the current decision.
From the perspective of decision-making, the expenses incurred in the past are only one factor that causes the current situation. The current decision-making should consider the possible future expenses and their benefits, rather than the expenses incurred in the past.
The more a woman spends money, the more inseparable she is from your man. The behavior of women spending money will reflect women's values and abilities to a certain extent.
Instead of spending money, it is actually that women can handle the trivial things in life and distribute the benefits between them reasonably.
The heterosexual relationship is not unitary, but diversified, including material, spiritual and cultural aspects. Being a woman who can spend money can make men love you deeply.