Back then, Zhu Yuchen’s mother fell in love with Huo Siyan and tried her best to make her her daughter-in-law. Huo Siyan was so frightened that she shook her head and publicly stated: “His mother was deceived by my appearance. It’s quite fierce. She wants to find a new wife for Zhu Yuchen, and I’m not suitable.”
Now, more than ten years have passed, and Huo Siyan has already married Du Jiang and gave birth to a lovely son. Zhu Yuchen is 43 years old and still hasn't gotten married. It's not that he doesn't want to, but that he doesn't dare.
As the saying goes, you should marry a virtuous wife and not a mama's boy. However, Zhu Yuchen is the mama's boy who "everyone is afraid of".
But his mother was particularly happy that her baby boy was cute.
She loved her son with her whole life and wanted to take care of everything for him, but this love imprisoned Zhu Yuchen and made him unable to enter into marriage.
In her own wishful thinking, the mother pushed her son into the abyss of emotion.
Today, Zhu Yuchen is 43 years old, but no one dares to marry him. Such a mother-in-law is suffocating. Zhu Yuchen is her puppet. How can her daughter-in-law resist?
Zhu Yuchen was born in Shanghai. He also has an older sister named Zhu Beibei. Both siblings are the favorites of their parents, and they are treated equally in terms of food, drink, housing and transportation.
But her mother’s love for Zhu Yuchen is even stronger. In her opinion, her son is her heaven, her earth, and the meaning of her life.
Because of this, Zhu Yuchen’s childhood was both happy and depressing.
My mother hoped that Zhu Yuchen could develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically, so she decided to let him learn piano.
But playing the piano is boring and boring, and Zhu Yuchen resists it. He eats raw beans and goes out in the rain, hoping to get sick and escape from those few hours of study.
His mother saw through his little trick, and after Zhu Yuchen recovered from his illness, she gave him additional training.
If Zhu Yuchen disobeys again, his mother will pinch his arm until Zhu Yuchen practices the piano obediently.
Under this pressure, Zhu Yuchen thought of death. He reached out to touch the switch, but soon he retracted his hand. Zhu Yuchen was afraid that if he died, his mother would not be able to bear it.
Unable to resist or die, the only thing Zhu Yuchen could think of was to escape.
In 1997, 18-year-old Zhu Yuchen applied for the Central Academy of Drama, but unfortunately, he failed.
But as a blessing in disguise, Zhu Yuchen met Tang Wei, who also failed the exam.
As teenagers, the two were quickly attracted to each other. They agreed to repeat the exam together and take the exam again next year.
The days of reading books with Tang Wei were a rare moment of relaxation for Zhu Yuchen.
A year later, Zhu Yuchen was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama as he wished, and became classmates with Deng Chao. Tang Wei regretfully failed the exam again.
Fortunately, with enough water, Tang Wei decided to go north to accompany Zhu Yuchen to school, so that he could also experience the atmosphere of an art school.
In addition to studying, Tang Wei had to work part-time to pay the monthly rent of 300 yuan.
She originally thought that Zhu Yuchen would come to the hut to be affectionate with her when he was not in class. As a result, on the day of registration for school, Zhu's mother came all the way to see her son off. Tang Wei could only watch Zhu Yuchen's back silently as he entered the school gate. Envy and blessing.
Unexpectedly, an embarrassing scene appeared for Zhu Yuchen.
Entering the dormitory, Zhu Yuchen was about to spread the bedding. His mother stopped him and said, "Son, wait a moment. Mom will come."
After laying out the bedding, she immediately asked Zhu Yuchen Roommates: "Do you snore while sleeping? Don't disturb my son."
Zhu Yuchen was so embarrassed that he wanted to find a crack in the ground to crawl in. However, before he could find a crack in the ground, his mother made another shocking statement.
She opened the window and saw the wall full of ivy. In her mind, she immediately thought that there would be bugs in the ivy, and the bugs would crawl into the dormitory and bite her precious son.
Zhu’s mother’s imagination was wide open: “Can I burn this ivy to death with boiling water?”
The roommates were stunned, Zhu Yuchen immediately “died” and hurriedly He pulled his mother out of the dormitory. For a long time, the roommates ignored Zhu Yuchen. They felt that this boy was not easy to mess with.
After being in contact for a long time, they realized that Zhu Yuchen was a pitiful person, and they began to sympathize with him, and their relationship became better.
After escaping from his mother's clutches, Zhu Yuchen grew long hair and called it literary style. In fact, it was his belated rebellion.
Zhu Yuchen is very clever, and he is very good at acting, and he soon became the best in the class, but his relationship with Tang Wei has become weaker and weaker.
In 2000, Tang Wei passed the college entrance examination four times and finally passed the Chinese Opera. As a result, she became Zhu Yuchen's ex-girlfriend.
The two people who once worked together for the same goal have become the most familiar strangers.
I wonder if Zhu Yuchen will regret this relationship many years later. After all, this is the only relationship in which his mother did not interfere.
After graduation, Zhu Yuchen started to work as a minor player and wandered around for several years without becoming famous until he met Zhao Baogang.
In 2006, Zhao Baogang was planning to shoot "Struggle" and needed a group of energetic young people. Zhu Yuchen became the best candidate for "Hua Zi".
Zhu Yuchen reaped the dividends from the hit drama, and his life was ruined.
Zhao Baogang liked Zhu Yuchen very much, and two years later, he cast him in "Who Makes the Decision of My Youth".
Seeing that her son was developing better and better, Zhu's mother couldn't sit still. It happened to be her retirement, so she thought about it and decided to go north to take care of her son wholeheartedly.
So, she went straight to Beijing carrying a large iron pot, and she also brought 80 hairy crabs in the package.
Zhu’s mother has a clear position for herself. She is her son’s “Filipino maid”. No matter where her son goes, she will give him a warm kitchen.
It can be said that the place where Zhu Yuchen is is home.
Zhu’s mother gets up at three or four o’clock every day and prepares various “nutrition products” for Zhu Yuchen, including soups that promote body fluids and quench thirst, pear water that moisturizes the lungs, mung bean soup that relieves heat, juices that supplement VC, etc. Lots of bottles and cans.
Zhu Yuchen’s assistant had to carry these bottles on his body, set the alarm on his mobile phone, and ask Zhu Yuchen to drink them on time every day.
At the end of the day, Zhu Yuchen couldn't drink a few sips of pure water. He didn't know if it was due to excessive nutrition. In those years, Zhu Yuchen became greasy, and his face also had pits and pits.
Zhu Yuchen thought about resisting, but was afraid of hurting his mother's heart, so he could only bear it silently, and the Internet became a place for him to vent his emotions.
Here, he expressed himself unscrupulously, but suddenly one day, he discovered that his mother had copied the content he posted on the social platform word for word, and he collapsed instantly.
He stopped posting content, and his outlet for emotional outlet was blocked, making Zhu Yuchen extremely depressed.
Fortunately, his mother did not go to the filming site, so this became Zhu Yuchen’s only place to breathe.
In 2009, on the set of "Love Is Perfect With You", Zhu Yuchen shared his sugar water with Huo Siyan.
Huo Siyan thought it tasted delicious, so Zhu’s mother made double portions of sugar water every day to supplement Huo Siyan’s nutrition.
Compared to Zhu Yuchen's resistance to sugar water, Zhu's mother liked Huo Siyan's well-behavedness very much, so she shouted that she wanted Huo Siyan to be her daughter-in-law.
But Huo Siyan is so smart. She lied that she already had a boyfriend, which dispelled Zhu's mother's idea of ??bringing them together. Later, in a program, Huo Siyan publicly stated: "His mother was deceived by my appearance. I was very cruel to my boyfriend. His mother wanted to find a new wife for Zhu Yuchen, and I was not suitable."
In the next few years, Zhu Yuchen never found a girlfriend. It wasn't that he didn't want to find one, it was him who found her, and his mother was not satisfied. Zhu Yuchen simply stopped looking for him. He would pursue whoever his mother thought was suitable.
At this moment, Jiang Yan appeared.
Jiang Yan is 7 years younger than Zhu Yuchen. She graduated from Beijing Film Academy. She has fair skin, good looks and long legs. The most important thing is that she cooks well.
Once, Zhu Yuchen brought home a piece of coir raincoat cucumber made by Jiang Yan. His mother was greatly surprised when she saw that the knife skills were perfect.
She immediately imagined a picture of Jiang Yan washing hands and making soup for Zhu Yuchen, and encouraged Zhu Yuchen to chase Jiang Yan.
Zhu Yuchen successfully caught up with Jiang Yan. He thought that from then on, he could start a harmonious and beautiful world.
Unexpectedly, her mother picked on Jiang Yan again.
She felt that Jiang Yan was wearing too little, exposing her shoulders, waist, and thighs, so she encouraged Zhu Yuchen to break up with her.
Jiang Yan is young and beautiful at that age. She is also an actress, so she naturally shows off her beauty. Besides, it is not a sin to show off your figure.
But Mother Zhu stubbornly believed that wearing less = frivolous.
Zhu Yuchen really liked Jiang Yan and he was unwilling to leave her, but he could not convince his mother to accept Jiang Yan.
Gradually, Jiang Yan saw Zhu Yuchen's hesitation and understood Zhu Yuchen's attitude, so she asked Zhu Yuchen: "Are you looking for me just because I can cook and take care of people?" Right? Do you think I am suitable for you, or am I suitable to be your wife?"
Zhu Yuchen was speechless by the question, and the two broke up immediately.
The failure of this relationship was a huge blow to Zhu Yuchen. He closed himself off and stopped falling in love, and he became fatter.
Perhaps for a new start, perhaps for his mother to change her mind, in 2018, 39-year-old Zhu Yuchen took her mother on the variety show "My Boy".
As a result, Zhu's mother's remarks brought the show's ratings to a new level, but Zhu Yuchen was also completely labeled as a "Mama's boy".
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Let’s take a look at what Zhu’s mother said:
Regarding the woman’s role in the marriage, she said: < /p>
Regarding Zhu Yuchen’s “Mama’s Boy” image, she said:
Regarding her position in Zhu Yuchen’s life, she said:
Regarding Zhu Yuchen’s feelings, She said:
Zhu’s mother never thought there was anything wrong with herself. Zhu Yuchen once told her: “When I feel I can take on responsibilities, don’t worry, Mom, I will get married.”
< p> This sentence reveals Zhu Yuchen's fear of marriage, but his mother believes that Zhu Yuchen does not dare to get married because he is too childish.If her son's marriage is not settled, she can understand without being anxious. After all, even a man in his fifties or sixties can marry a girl in her twenties, and it is not too late to have children.
However, my daughter is also in her forties and still has not entered into marriage. She has watched her mother's dedication to her younger brother since she was a child, and she is also afraid of marriage: "I can't bear this responsibility."
Both sons and daughters talked about the word "responsibility" when they were facing marriage, but Zhu's mother was unmoved. She still stubbornly believed that a woman should contribute to the family and sacrifice herself to achieve success. The next generation.
But is it really good for her children to do this?
Facing the camera, Zhu Yuchen cried: "Why is there no one willing to stay with me?"
The answer is self-evident, it was his mother who blocked him. All his marriages.
In Zhu’s mother’s plan, Zhu Yuchen would live with her after getting married.
She even believed that being able to marry into the Zhu family was a blessing.
But no one wants this blessing, and no one dares to ask for it.
Perhaps he had enough control over his mother's paranoia. Not long after he left the show, it was revealed that Zhu Yuchen was in a relationship with jewelry designer Du Ruo.
Du Ruo is at the forefront of fashion. Her dressing style is a bit similar to Jiang Yan, with her legs exposed, her navel exposed, and her tattoos.
I don’t know how Mother Zhu felt after seeing it.
However, after four years of dating, the two still have not entered into marriage. Maybe Du Ruo is waiting for the day when Zhu Yuchen gets rid of his mother's control. After all, no one wants to live under the same roof with such a mother-in-law. .
There is no doubt that Zhu’s mother loves Zhu Yuchen. It is because of love that she can treat herself as a Filipino servant and work hard without complaint.
But this is not the maternal love that Zhu Yuchen wants.
When the children are young, the mother can shield them from all wind and rain, but one day the children will grow up. They are independent individuals and have to face all kinds of society.
Mothers love their children and children are filial to their parents. This is the best relationship.
Be cute in moderation and keep your distance.
If Mother Zhu doesn’t want her son and daughter to die alone, she must let them go and let them find happiness.
As for Zhu Mu, she should also focus on her own life, go square dancing, travel, practice calligraphy, painting, flower arrangement, etc.
Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Never interfere in the lives of children in the name of love.
Love from the heart, keep a proper distance, that’s all.