There is a saying: you didn't ask for real connections, but you attracted them. This is the "law of attraction": who you are, you will meet. People with the same magnetic field will attract each other. People with the same energy will get together. As the saying goes: "Respond with one voice, and seek with the same spirit."
If you want to break the circle, you need to be an excellent person before you are qualified to enter an excellent circle. The so-called connections are actually the natural result of personal growth.
There is a hot question on the Internet: "How to get out of the trough of life?" A high praise replied, "Take a few more steps." Many people do things with seven seconds of initial intention and three points of heat. How many people are willing to work hard to hone themselves?
If you want to be great, you must be honest. Only when a person has walked enough roads and accumulated certain abilities can life be a different situation, meet a higher quality circle and achieve a better self.
A writer once said that the most important thing in our time is the wise man, and the most important thing is actually the "fool" who is struggling for himself. With the development of the times, people have more choices, but it seems difficult to stick to one thing for a long time. Facing the time, all we can do is make a contribution.
A calligrapher once had an inkstone inscription: "Only the inkstone works as a field, singing songs and enjoying one's old age, the ink crops have autumn, and the pen farming has no tax." Make a living with pen and ink, and use inkstone as a field. Another famous painter also specially carved a seal of "Yantian old farmer" to show encouragement. Even in old age, people still paint every day and never stop. From morning till night, I either sit quietly thinking or write at my desk.
No matter which field, whoever achieves great things will know how to cultivate himself deeply. Life is not the pursuit of more, but the pursuit of perfection. Only by settling down in your own field and working hard with ingenuity can you achieve something. Only the "stupid people" who are willing to work hard are the closest to success.
As one writer said, "Masters are fools. Only a very stupid person who is willing to work hard will stick to the summit and sharpen a sword for ten years.
No matter in which field, a person wants to be "outstanding", there is never a shortcut, and it must be tempered by time. Forget all those "impossible" excuses and stick to that "no problem"
Life is like pebbles, it will become perfect after constant polishing. Life cannot be full of surprises everywhere. If you want to create the life you want by yourself, it's no good always complaining and waiting.
What people have to do is to settle down, be down-to-earth, devote themselves to deep cultivation, practice their skills hard and seize every opportunity in life. Only by sticking to what others can't stick to can we have what others can't have.
You have to work all day, get through loneliness, take the road of Wan Li, and meet your best self gently. While lighting up "watch" and cultivating yourself, it is also creating motivation for your own life.