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Anyone who has experienced emotional trauma knows that the most unreliable thing about love is that it can change at any time, just like the eyes that your lover once looked into you, and you don’t know why. Time has shifted his attention to other people or things. His attention is no longer on you, which means he no longer regards you as an important person in his life. Or, even more horrifyingly, maybe he is infatuated with another woman. .
When Yiyi told her love story, her eyes suddenly lit up. This nearly fifty-year-old woman immediately became energetic whenever she mentioned her past relationships.
At that time, she and her husband became friends because of calligraphy. She was studying in a vocational college, and he was already a worker who had just started working. The two people, who had nothing to do with each other, met in a calligraphy competition. Yiyi was just accompanying her student to participate in the competition, and she also submitted a manuscript by the way. She knew that it was a bit reluctant to win an excellence award based on her own level, but there was one thing that made her more excited than winning the grand prize, because she saw the words he wrote, which she admired, and he was also admired. Yiyi looked at him with frightened eyes.
Later, the two people left each other’s contact information, so they became pen pals. In that era when communication was not so developed, letters became a way of communicating between them. Yiyi soon fell in love with him. She fell in love, and she was graduating in a year, and she told him that they would get engaged when she graduated.
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During this year, Yiyi often ran to his work to see him. Every time Yiyi lowered her head to write, she suddenly raised her head and saw him falling on her face. Yiyi knew that all he saw was her, and every move she made was in his sight. In order to express his love, he folded a thousand small red papers with his rough hands. Crane and Yiyi were deeply moved by him.
Like all people who love each other, they entered the marriage hall smoothly. Their marriage was like other people's marriages. Their relationship turned from passionate to dull, and Yiyi's yearning for beautiful love gradually lost, until She found that his eyes would no longer stay on her face like before.
It was a weekend night. Yiyi pushed her husband who had just drank into the bedroom to sleep. At this time, she found a message from her husband’s mobile phone. Yiyi opened the text message by mistake, and the other party His words were very ambiguous, saying that the weather was getting cold and he asked him to take care of himself and his children.
Yiyi thought that such words could not be said by a man. She was very sure that the person who sent the message was a woman, and her relationship with her husband was unusual. Yiyi was very sad. She really wanted to know who the other person was. Who is she, what does she want to do, how did her husband meet her, and what happened between them, but she resisted her impulse. She did not wake her husband up to ask this question, but silently wrote it down. That phone number.
In the following days, Yiyi knew that if she wanted to know the truth of the matter, she did not need to ask him deliberately and without force. As long as she paid attention, he would definitely reveal clues.
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Yiyi could see that his eyes had not stayed on her face for a long time, and he had long focused on the hand she was holding tightly. On his mobile phone, every time there was a text message prompt on his phone, he would open the message nervously, then read it and delete it very quickly. Yiyi knew that there must be something wrong in his heart, otherwise how could he do such a thing? Sneaky things are coming.
Yiyi went to check the phone number. She learned that the number belonged to a neighboring city, but there was a huge crowd. Where could she find the owner of the phone? In the end, Yiyi took advantage of her husband When I had the opportunity to fall asleep again, I secretly picked up his phone and found a landline number he often contacted. It was in the same city as the mobile phone number that sent the text message. Yiyi could conclude based on intuition that the two numbers belonged to the same person. .
She didn’t tell her husband where she was going, so she bought a train ticket to that city that day. When she found out where the phone number belonged, Yiyi learned that the woman behind her husband was still in school. She looked for the student based on her guess, and it turned out that she was really a girl in her senior year.
Yiyi approached him directly, and the girl was also startled by Yiyi's sudden visit. She had no choice but to tell the story of how she met Yiyi's husband.
It turned out that they were netizens. Once she was checking information on the Internet and logged into QQ, Yiyi's husband added her. As a result, the two of them got along very happily, so they often agreed to meet online.
The girl had a classmate who happened to go to school in Yiyi’s city. That time, she wanted to come here to visit her classmates, so she made a bold decision. She wanted to meet Yiyi’s husband, but she didn’t expect that it was just a good idea. netizen, but as soon as they met, she fell in love with Yiyi's husband uncontrollably, and Yiyi's husband also developed a different kind of feeling for her. The two of them knew that it was a mistake to do this, but they were so attracted by that at that time The so-called love went to their heads and they walked hand in hand.
Yiyi shed tears as she listened. She asked the girl what she wanted to do, did she need a divorce to fulfill her wish?
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The girl knew that this incident was her fault, and in the process of getting along with him, she learned that in fact, a man’s main thoughts are on his wife and children. He may no longer have any passion with his wife, but the affection between them is unbreakable, and she has never had any illusions about him. She only knows that it feels good to be in love, but she also knows that he He is a man who betrays his family, which makes her have very complicated feelings towards Yiyi's husband.
On the one hand, she feels that he is worthy of love, on the other hand, she feels that it is dangerous to love a man who can betray the family, because if he can betray once, he can betray a second time, a third time, don’t look at it. She has never been married, but she knows something about marriage.
The girl swore to Yiyi that she would never do such an act against her conscience again. She said she would delete Yiyi’s husband’s phone number and QQ, and would not answer his calls again, nor would she Will contact him again. Yiyi decided to trust this sincere looking girl, so she turned around and left.
After returning home, Yiyi still did not tell her husband that she had gone to find the girl, and she was still doing housework and busy with her own affairs as before. However, she occasionally caught a glimpse of her husband being absent-minded. He was talking on the phone, looking very disappointed, and you could even see his tangled brows. Yiyi knew that he must not know why the girl had lost contact inexplicably, and the imaginary love he placed on the girl also disappeared. He was confused because he had nowhere to put it.
When a man’s eyes no longer have tenderness, and he has even moved his eyes away from you, but he is not aware of your various actions at all, then this man is very It is possible that he is putting his energy on others, and it is very possible that he has another woman. As a woman, you must be more careful. If you meet such a man, then what you need to do is to save him. Or give up.