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sure. Attention is "the best". All external educational factors must be internalized to play a role; The effect depends on the degree of internalization, and how to internalize depends on the size or amount of interest. Interest is strong, mood is high, and energy is easy to concentrate on this, so you can accept the educational content quickly, understand it well, and master it firmly; And the interest is poor, even not interested, the opposite is true. Nowadays, many teachers and parents are often eager for quick success and instant benefit, paying little attention to the cultivation and stimulation of children's interests, paying little attention to children's inner changes, ignoring the acceptance of educational objects, blindly criticizing, blindly exerting pressure, not talking about science, violating the law, often wishful thinking, getting twice the result with half the effort, and even being confused!
Mommy Lexiangbang, a senior lecturer in family education, has nearly 2 years' working experience as a class teacher and a municipal backbone teacher. She has experience in foreign education and is willing to share her knowledge and experience with friends who love children and learning. I hope my sharing will bring you some inspiration!
Einstein once said: Interest is the best teacher.
I personally agree with this view.
If you are interested in everything, you are willing to do it, spend time thinking, and explore and study. He won't feel tired or bitter when he is interested in something, and he enjoys it.
Just like my husband is interested in fishing. He doesn't have to know anything, but he knows what kind of weather is suitable for fishing, what kind of bait to use for fish, what kind of fishing rod to use and so on. And whether it's cold or hot, day or night, I'm always happy, whether I catch fish or not.
So, interest comes first. In fact, you don't have to teach, and he will explore for himself.
interest is the best teacher for children? This sentence sounds reasonable, but it can't stand scrutiny. If a teacher has the "best" interest, the requirements for teachers are inevitably lower.
what is a teacher? Teacher, preach and teach to solve doubts. What role can interest play? In my opinion, the role of interest is more like a stepping stone, so that children can take the initiative to understand some things, and any thing, just relying on interest, is difficult to last.
When chatting with friends, I often hear the saying, "Children learn musical instruments and painting, and the degree of learning depends on whether they like it or not. If he is interested, he will continue to learn, and if he is not interested, he will not learn. "
If you follow your child's interests completely, I'm afraid that in a few years, the child will see Wang Xun and Henry Lau playing the violin like AnglaBaby in "A Life I yearn for", and talk about what Baby said when he was forced to learn talent as a child, "Why didn't anyone force me?".
(Image from the Internet, deleted) 1. First contact, interest is the best teacher.
Children's interest can only maintain temporary enthusiasm. At the beginning of contact, curiosity will prevail, and children do not need to pay too much energy. At this time, interest is indeed the best teacher. Interest is the best stepping stone. 2. The freshness has passed, and where does the motivation for persistence come from? < P > The freshness has passed, and there is not so much curiosity. It's time to learn about it. It needs boring practice, and it takes time and energy, so the interest is not so strong for children to persist. The motivation to keep children going is inseparable from the guidance of parents and teachers.
As mentioned in Deliberate Practice, people need to go through four stages to achieve outstanding results: to become interested, to become serious, to devote themselves to it, and to explore and innovate.
Interest is a stepping stone, but it is only the first stage of success. The last three stages are the key points that need a lot of effort and deliberate practice.
You can't cultivate outstanding children by relying solely on sticks and threats. As we all know, Lang Lang practiced piano since childhood, and his father was very strict, but what kept Lang Lang going was not his father's intimidation, but his heartfelt love for the piano. Therefore, to make children interested and motivated, he will become serious and devote himself to it. From this perspective, interest is the best teacher. Because there is no interest, everything is nonsense.
but only interest, no method, no effort, can only know the fur, and even the fur can't be understood. Sometimes, children need to be properly "forced" to get through the bottleneck stage, so that children can feel the sense of accomplishment in practice.
As Henry Lau said, he was reluctant to learn the violin at first, but when he was eleven or twelve years old, he took part in a competition and liked it very much. After hard practice, he realized the fruits of his own efforts and the fun of music. The power generated at this time is the continuous power.
I am the mother of a second-grade urchin. In my experience. I think children's interests are the best teachers. For example, my son is active, so he is interested in all sports. Every year in the school sports meeting, I will get a gold medal. My son is still on the school football team, and now he is selected as the elite football team in the district.
He still plays football for two hours after school every day. He doesn't feel tired at all.
If he is interested in something emotionally, he will be willing to do it, so he won't feel tired, and he will stick to it.
A child in our community likes reading books since childhood. In summer, the children in the community are running and making trouble. His grandmother would find a shady place to read to him. Then he read books by himself. After school, I got good grades. Keep reading.
Interest requires parents to cultivate their children from an early age. Before the age of six is the best time to cultivate interest.
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it's hard to say, on the one hand, it's parents' guidance, on the other hand, children are really interested, on the other hand, it's teachers' methods!
Yes, interest is the best teacher. You should be interested in everything, big or small. Only with interest can you get close to success.
Personally, I am a calligraphy teacher. My students are of different ages, some are Grade One, some are Grade Five, and there are a few junior high school students. I made a comparison with the students in the same grade. Some students are very interested in calligraphy, and their writing has made special progress after a period of practice. On the contrary, a child who is not interested in calligraphy has practiced for a long time. Although he has made progress, he is much worse than the former classmate. This shows how important interest is for a person to do something. One thing, finding interest, will be twice the result with half the effort; On the contrary, if you are not interested, it can only be in vain.
So, friends, no matter what you do, you must first find your interest in it. If you find your interest, you will be half successful.
Interest is the key to the palace of knowledge, but it won't be a teacher.
Children begin to explore the world from birth. They are very curious about the world and begin to learn and grow in social life.
At the beginning, it must be something that caught the children's attention and interest at the first time, and attracted them to explore and learn because of their curiosity.
But children's interests are definitely not the best teachers! Interest is just a good start in learning this matter.
The ocean of knowledge is vast and profound, and children have to learn a lot in their life. Some of them start with their own interests, while others become more and more interested after learning knowledge and achievements.
The best teacher for children is the one who guides them to learn this matter! It may be an enlightening mentor, a helpful friend, a wise parent, or a child's own belief!
It can stimulate children's interest in learning, help them to explore and discover, give them correct guidance when they are frustrated, and establish the mentality and confidence to persist in learning. This is the best teacher!
Parents often interrupt their children's study because they feel that they are not interested. This is not very good, and it is easy for children to develop the study habit of giving up halfway.
Mastering any knowledge or skill is definitely good for children. You can learn to set learning goals with your child, such as a musical instrument, and you can stop at what level your child learns; Or a sport, such as playing badminton, should children learn to play games or just have fun? Then the use is difficult, tired, criticized by the coach, losing face, and the child will definitely appear depressed and sometimes even rejected. At this time, don't give up easily, learn to communicate, and even the necessary encouragement means and adjustment methods to support children to learn their goals.
there is a long way to learn and a long way to educate. I hope this answer is helpful to you.
I'm glad to answer this practical question that many people care about. I'll talk about my humble opinion when I come down:
First of all, I personally support interest teaching, interest learning and happy learning! If children are interested in some subjects and things, they will certainly be self-motivated in this respect, and they will also show their talent compared with other things. If they can add their efforts, they will definitely get twice the result with half the effort! If you are only interested, you can only regard interest as entertainment without effort, and you won't achieve much!
Personally, I prefer to be interested. I am not interested in cultivating my interest and ability through strict education! Some parents and teachers blindly pursue interest in educating people and do not advocate strict education, but ask themselves, is strict education really more cruel than letting themselves go and letting TV educate their children?
Parents or teachers should have the attitude that grades are paramount, high standards and strict requirements, and they will not hesitate to have a big fight with their children for study, so as to resist their adolescent rebellious psychology, so that children can keep forging ahead in a relatively superior environment, and prevent them from falling into depravity, laziness and rudeness in doting, and from being surrounded by students who are not enterprising in a superior environment, and becoming a helpless bucket. In other words-don't give children the option of not working hard.
children's achievements are the best response.
However, it turns out that most of the severely educated adults are happier and better than before, and have no psychological problems. Nowadays, most of the successful people express their gratitude to their parents and teachers for their educational methods, and they will demand their children by the same standards in the future.
Most people said that they were much more confident than many people because they earned their self-confidence because they lacked praise from their parents and teachers when they were young. Parents and teachers gave them tools and channels to gain self-confidence.
But the strict education I agree with refers to teaching by example, setting an example, devoting energy, giving positive guidance and strict supervision to children, and is by no means an act of arbitrary corporal punishment or abuse of children! Resolutely oppose: parents and teachers who simply pin all their hopes on their children and give them great pressure but can't get enough support.
rigor makes people forge ahead.
Excellence makes people confident.
self-discipline makes people free.
Is a child's interest really the best teacher?
it must be! Interest is the greatest motivation for learning. If you don't let your child learn what he is interested in, he can learn without a teacher. For example, all kinds of games, no one teaches them, just look at them or try them themselves and they are very skilled.
For example, many parents are not as clear as their children about mobile phones, various settings and APP applications. We adults hold other people's different brands of mobile phones, and we have to look at them for a while before we understand, while children randomly get a mobile phone and start the game in a few seconds ...
If you ask children what their favorite courses are? Basically, all children will say: I like physical education class and computer classes best, because they can play games without doing homework. Of course, I like them best.
So sometimes children are interested in what parents and teachers don't want them to learn, which requires teachers and parents to find ways to shift their children's interests instead of blindly respecting all their interests.
For example, turn your interest in playing games into understanding how games are designed. Do you want to learn how to design games? Then it is further transformed into interest in learning programming and reading.
Interest is very important. You need to observe children more in daily life. When children show interest in something, they should be good at guiding them, and at the same time, they should cultivate their tenacious perseverance to stick to their interests.
In addition to interest, children need to be motivated to meet challenges, and then make progress, build self-confidence, gain positive energy, and then set higher goals and meet higher challenges ..... and so on, so as to establish a virtuous circle-children's inner motivation will be awakened, and they will become more and more interested in this.
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Personally, I think that being interested is just a child's initial psychological activity about what he wants to learn. With this psychological premise, learning will be faster and easier, and detours will be less, but it does not mean that if you are interested, you will be able to learn well and learn. In the process of learning, you need patience and persistence, and parents will encourage and praise you. Being interested is equivalent to having a good seed. If you want to harvest good fruit, you need sunshine, rain and dew, watering, fertilization, pest control and weeding to harvest rich fruit.