A philosopher went to visit a friend and walked to the door of the community. The old doorman casually asked him a few questions, which made the philosopher lost in thought.
Is sweeping monk an uncle? What inscrutable questions did you ask? It stumped a great philosopher.
Actually, the problem is very simple. This is just a daily question: who are you? Where are you from? Where are you going?
But this is precisely the basic proposition in philosophy, also known as the "ultimate three questions", which touches the soul of philosophers' speculation and makes people "stunned".
It's just a joke, but it's really not allowed. But it also reflects that philosophy is around us.
Ni Ping said in Grandma's Quotations: Grandma is a philosopher in our family, and no scholar in our family can live as clearly, soberly and well as she does.
Ni Ping, a household name, has long been deeply rooted in people's hearts, and her kind and simple hosting style has influenced several generations.
Kindness, love, elegance and nobility. She is an excellent program host. She has acted in movies, plays and TV plays. She can also write books, draw pictures and write calligraphy. She won numerous awards.
And all this, she said, was taught by her grandmother, who was her lifelong teacher.
Grandma has never read a book in her life and doesn't know a word. But this, also does not affect her completely alive.
Grandma has a savings card, which contains kindness, tolerance, love, persistence, dedication, suffering, giving up, gratitude, openness, cheerfulness, responsibility ... too much, and the spirit we need to live.
Today is a beautiful sun. I'll take out the things in grandma's savings card to bask in the sun, so as not to be damp and moldy.
Grandma always said, "when no one is around, it will be much easier to take your brain out to bask in the sun."
Sunbathing and smelling the sun will make our life more fragrant.
First, kindness-the duty of being a man.
Grandma is old and dozes off all day. Ni Ping was really afraid that grandma would fall asleep one day, so she began to find ways to keep her busy. It's still fifteen yuan a day to sort and fold newspapers.
I heard that I had made money, and my grandmother suddenly came to life. That was grandma's first salary in her life. She is so happy. She is happier than we won the lottery.
She will give the money she earns to those who she wants to help.
Although grandma is not short of new clothes, she is always reluctant to throw away old clothes, because thrift is our traditional virtue and grandma has always been an excellent holder.
How to get grandma to throw away those old clothes? Ni Ping thought of another trick, recycling old clothes under the banner of environmental protection.
A "greedy" grandmother who paid back 100 yuan was positive this time. She not only cleaned up her old clothes, but also mobilized relatives and rural people to sell them. This time, grandma was happy and Ni Ping was miserable.
"Grandma, the unit can't say everywhere. The unit takes care of us and can't receive so much. "
But grandma said, "When you have something good, you think of others, and others will always think of you. When you have a good thing, you will not consider others, but only care about yourself. In the end, you are left alone and have no contact with anyone. The good things in a person's life are limited, and when they are finished, they are finished. There are many good things. "
Ni Ping's parents divorced at an early age, and grandma was particularly distressed because she was afraid that her nephew would not get the father's love.
In grandma's eyes, all dads are upright, kind and lofty. She will secretly call him to tell him about the situation at home, appease the father's heart of missing his child and fill the lack of fatherly love of the child.
Grandma nourishes the wounded heart of our family with love, kindness and tolerance, and warms us.
During the liberation, grandma also encountered an extremely angry thing: a rich farmer hid more than a dozen horses in grandma's house, and the result was reported, but grandma refused to admit it.
People gave it to us because they trusted us, she said. If these dozen pieces of cloth are classified as landlords, her five children will suffer and their bright future will be ruined.
Who knows that a few years later, the family came back to expose grandma. Grandma was angry, but finally she forgave her.
Because grandma said she knew her, it was all forced by form, for the sake of the children. Don't hold a grudge against her, she hates herself enough.
Grandma said, "Those who retire suffer temporarily. Giving others a way is equivalent to finding a way out for yourself. "
Grandma is always kind and tolerant, and always thinks of others.
Second, giving-the magic weapon of happiness.
Grandma has a magic weapon of happiness: she says giving others is happiness, and owing others is pain.
Grandma's house is going to build a big tile house. On the day of Liang Liang, many people came to the village to help. According to custom, the house should be the girder at noon. Grandma got up after the first crow and started steaming steamed bread. /kloc-more than 0/00 big steamed buns, grandma wants everyone to eat well.
As we all know, in order to build a house, grandma ate sweet potato noodles for a year, and grandma said, "face is lost." Wheat flour is prepared from the first year, and every steamed bread is saved from the teeth. Nobody wants to eat.
"Without beams, the house will collapse sooner or later. You can't live without help! " The girder was finished, the steamed bread didn't move, and grandma cried. At night, she knocked on the door behind Xiao Lou's back.
When his son was young, Ni Ping also taught him to be a caring person. When my son goes to school, he will give his grandparents what he can't eat at home.
During the Spring Festival, ask my son to give each of them a hundred lucky money. But the next day, grandpa came with a huge toy plane. This toy will cost at least 200 yuan.
At this time, I remembered my grandmother's words: "You are willing to give things to others."
Grandma has a theory: money and things should be circulated, or they will be blocked. Of course, this cycle should also be measured. This is our interpersonal relationship.
Ni Ping's grandmother is also everyone's grandmother. When new things come on the market, everyone buys them for grandma to taste first.
Once, a white brother estimated that there was really nothing new to take, so he took a bundle of colorful towels. If grandma gets a treasure, she will give everyone one, keep two for herself, cut it into squares, and sew the four sides with a needle and thread as a small handkerchief.
"Grandma, come on. If you need a small handkerchief, let's buy a stack. Some are. "
"You go to buy buy to try, which have! This is all your big brother's heart. Where can I buy it? "
"There is a bowl of rice for others to eat, and they are hungry. This is called helping others; If you can't eat a pot of rice, give someone a bowl and let them help you. "
Someone always asks: Why do you want to donate money and materials? Many people will say: help people in trouble. Actually, that's not asking you to help others. It's about people helping people use things you don't need.
Grandma often said, "Don't let people know when you do good deeds. If people know, good things will go bad. Doing good things is right, just like a person who doesn't steal, do you still praise him? "
Third, wisdom-Grandma's debate on politics and law
On the cliff of grandma's house, there is a wild strawberry. It is green at first, then yellow, then red, and finally black, which is very scary.
Legend has it that a fierce woman was tortured by a man and jumped off a cliff to die. I was dressed in red when I died, but when I fished it out of the water, it turned black.
In order to satisfy his curiosity, Ni Ping went to the cliff again and again to see if the wild strawberries changed color, and also wanted to try the magic of water. He deliberately soaked his clothes to see how red the wild strawberries in Dulu were.
But in an instant, her basket of delicious food was gone.
Ni Ping cried all the way back to grandma's house, and grandma smiled and said, "Well, ghosts are greedy, and they won't eat you after eating jiaozi. Get a bowl of jiaozi for my nephew and count it! "
Ni Ping Jr. believed it. I won't know until I grow up. This is grandma's dialectics. Any dead pimples can be solved smoothly when they reach her. This is grandma's wisdom.
Ni Ping often said: It's true to be plain, and it's right. Don't expect to be as rich as an enemy. We ordinary people don't have the ability to withstand great disasters, and peaceful days are good days.
I thought grandma would agree, but she said, if you can't afford it, why not go to the top of the mountain if you can? What's the point of wandering in the ravine all your life? What you see at the top of the mountain is different from what you see at the foot of the mountain. Everyone is a lifetime, but the people at the top of the mountain live, and the people at the foot of the mountain live for several lifetimes. Haven't you calculated it?
Grandma said that the top of the mountain is a different way of life. A person should try his best to climb to the top of his own mountain all his life. If you can't go up the mountain, go up the mountain. You can't go to the distant mountains, you can go to the mountain in front of your home.
Grandma's heart is really high.
She said to Ni Ping earnestly, "You are not only at the top of the mountain, but your mountain is also a big mountain. You have seen everything on the mountain and learned everything. Son, the wind is strong on the mountain, so it's not easy to get up. You have worked hard, and you don't have to regret it in this life. "
Fourth, happiness-grandma's little happiness
Recently, Ding Zhen became popular because of a pure smiling face. No background, no strength, a mess.
The mystery of meditation is that people find a heartfelt smile that they lack. Ask yourself, did you laugh today? Are you happy?
Many people's answer is definitely "no". They are busy, busy, bored and have no happy time every day.
At work, the leader makes things difficult for colleagues, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not harmonious, the children are disobedient, and the other half is not pleasing to the eye. They have no money to buy bags and travel. How can they feel happy?
We are all counting what we lack, not what we have.
"Grandma, your happiness index is too low. Just be a woman. There is too much missing in your life. As a woman, you have never worn high heels and skirts in your life. Is it a pity? "
"Why didn't you wear it? An apron is not a skirt? "
Grandma said: "Happiness should not be too small. One is small, two add up and three add up. Why not try adding it to 100? " Happiness will be great. You can't always think about a hundred kinds of happiness a day. How many hundred kinds of fun can you meet in life? "
"There is no great happiness in life, but a little happiness in one day."
Five, love savings card-grandma's inexhaustible gold card
Grandma was busy taking care of a family all her life and didn't get her first salary until she was 97. Her share of happiness and pride.
Grandma was really poor before. I have to wait countless times to buy a red rope for my nephew.
Although her daughter says she wants money to send her every month. But she just wouldn't say.
Grandma always said, "living in the city, you can't lose a penny." You can survive the end of the year without spending a penny in the country. You can work hard to fill your stomach, dig a basket of wild vegetables and eat steamed bread. It is not easy for your mother to make money! "
But when she is rich, her generosity is different from the past. When she returned to her hometown, she was so happy and refreshed, not to mention so excited.
Grandma has never been to school in her life and can't read, but she can play abacus very smoothly. Grandma has two abacus, one in the drawer, left by her ancestors, and the other in her heart.
Grandma's view of money is: money is valuable only if it is spent in useful places!
In a donation to a water shortage project in the west, Ni Ping decided to donate one million when he started to earn money and received the first advertising fee.
Donate money for fear of being known, because relatives at home need money, and there are letters for help from all over the country? Ni Ping is very helpless, so big things no one to discuss.
"Put one hundred heart, basking know your difficulty. Son, you have been a penny for a lifetime, and a penny for a penny. " Grandma said, "The scales in your heart are the same as yours."
When Ni Ping's niece was in Beijing, Ni Ping never gave her any pocket money except the normal daily expenses.
My niece was admitted to three universities with excellent results and chose the director department of the Central Academy of Drama. Who knows a teacher asked: "Ni Ping niece, hang up first."
In fact, Ni Ping has never used connections to enter through the back door. She hopes that her niece can realize her dream through her own efforts.
I didn't expect my niece to be troubled instead of touched by light. Ni Ping was very angry and wanted to get justice from the headmaster.
Grandma stopped and said, "remember, son, God is fair. You have to take as much as you pay." You see, a person who carries a burden can only go far if both ends are equally heavy. One head is heavy and the other is light. Would you like to try? If you can't walk a few steps, you have to stop Xiao Ni is your niece. I can't even touch your light. Shouldn't I be wronged? "
Ni Ping also wants to send his niece a gold card with kindness, beauty, tolerance and diligence, just like grandma!
Six, it's getting dark-grandma's gone
Grandma said, "It's getting dark, and you will encounter an irresistible disaster, so you have to accept your fate.
Fate is not to let go, but to bite your teeth until dawn. Dawn gives you hope, so get up quickly and go forward. God will help you as much as you can.
Don't waste in the dark, you will be exhausted, and you will lose your strength in the morning.
Remember, son, when something good comes, it will say hello in advance. When something bad comes, it will bump into your head and you will never be told in advance!
The more capable people are smashed, the stronger they are, and those who can't are smashed at once. "
The sun can't be in the sky 24 hours a day, and you have to go back to rest. No one can stop it.
Grandma said: Is Chairman Mao capable? The old man can't help it if his son dies on the Korean battlefield, can he? Cigarette after cigarette, waiting for the morning.
Everyone understands the truth, but not everyone can do it. The pain of family diseases devours our hearts, and the unspeakable pain can only be swallowed by ourselves.
Grandma repeatedly told me: remember, son, as long as you don't fall, you can pass anything; If you fall down, no one can help you.
Everyone's life is not smooth sailing, and we always complain about how hard life is.
But grandma said, "you have to suffer when you are born." Don't complain Complaining is bitter, and not complaining is bitter. Didn't you intellectuals say that' people are born to live'? ..... What is sweet? It is sweet to have no illness or disaster, it is sweet to have no arms or legs, and it is sweet for illiterate people to recognize a word. "
What a simple philosophy of life!
Grandma's darkness, but grandma's spirit is like a bright lamp, which illuminates our hearts and our way forward!