First, cultivate children's interest in learning. Interest in learning is the motivation of children's conscious learning, and interest is the best teacher. If children have a strong interest in learning, they will naturally not regard learning as a chore. We often see that some children are very interested in computers, and they are willing to take the initiative to read many books about computers, which will greatly improve their playing habits. Therefore, parents and teachers should know their children's interests from time to time and guide and cultivate them to promote their healthy development.
Second, let children taste the taste of success. Many children don't like studying, mostly because they always fail in their studies and their test scores are always inferior to others. Therefore, it is necessary to proceed from the reality of children, appropriately set learning goals for children, and give practical and effective help, so that children can achieve their goals through hard work and gain a successful experience. Successful experiences will inspire children to continue their efforts and make him progress.
Third, cultivate attention from an early age. Children don't like learning, which is often related to inattention. Classroom teaching requires concentration for at least 20 minutes, but some children can only concentrate for a few minutes. There are many things that they didn't hear or understand when they were "absent-minded". As a result, their grades are poor, they gradually lose their confidence and interest in learning, and then they don't like learning. Therefore, we should cultivate children's attention from an early age. Some children are born with inattention, which requires parents' long-term efforts.
Fourth, the study intensity should not exceed the children's tolerance. Many parents are eager for their children to succeed. In order to improve their grades, they arrange tutoring after class. Actually, it's easy to get twice the result with half the effort. Children have learned enough at school, and a few more hours will be beyond their capacity. This kind of "classroom-family-style" relay learning often makes children lose their sense of freshness and feel tired of learning.
5. Example is more important than words and deeds. Parents' words and deeds are the best role models for children, and their every move can have a subtle and far-reaching impact on children. If parents want their children to study rather than play, they should study hard and strive to create a good learning atmosphere at home. If parents are addicted to mahjong, TV, dancing and socializing all day, it is impossible for children to "get out of the mud and not get stained".
Sixth, avoid misleading family education. The wrong direction caused by parents' careless words in family education is also the reason why children don't like learning. If a parent keeps saying, "Your grades are so poor, you must be more stupid than others, and no matter how hard you try, it may not be effective." In this case, children's enthusiasm and enterprising spirit will be seriously dampened, and children will not like learning and become playful.
Seven, find a good partner who loves learning for children. Peer influence is also extremely important. Most children have strong imitation ability. As long as there is a good example around, children will become better internal motivation and gradually like learning. This peer power is sometimes even more effective than parents' preaching and beating. There are many ways to change children's playfulness, but the real key part is in the hands of parents and teachers. As long as parents and teachers are proper, serious and give their children enough care and help, I believe such problems can be easily solved.