A gentleman knows his destiny and is not afraid of it. He makes a new start every day.
? ——Zhihu "Bear Group"
The first time I heard this sentence was when I saw an art exhibition interview about Qian Xi on Weibo.
When a reporter asked him what he would do when he became an artist, Qian Xi replied:
? Know your fate and not be afraid, and make a new start every day.
Just as this is the saying in hip-hop, "You are as good as Mount Tai but not arrogant", the overall pattern revealed by this boy is naturally unmatched by ordinary people. Gentle and elegant, but with a wild streak, it doesn't matter if it's worldly, as long as it's yourself.
I really like what he said in "2023 Nonfiction Growth". When people grow up and do what they are most comfortable and like the most, they have become the best version of themselves.
Perhaps the growth experience is not enough, or the depth of thought is not enough, this boy keeps surprising me. This maturity and stability beyond his years just highlights his uniqueness.
Start with appearance, focus on talent, and be loyal to character.
When he was a child, because his appearance was too immature and he had not grown up at that time, he was bombarded by other fans, insulted by anti-fans, ridiculed and ostracized when he first debuted.
He was still very young at that time, but he endured too much. A sentence that impressed me deeply. When I was in junior high school, the most common thing was to ask the teacher for a leave note, then put on my schoolbag and happily go out to train. Later, I was too busy and wanted to go back to school but couldn't. When I was in my senior year of high school, I attended the opening ceremony, and then I was busy traveling to various places to catch up on announcements and work.
He is the most talented boy I have ever seen, with calligraphy, dancing, singing, and various musical instruments. Some people often say that he is a band by himself.
He is the gentlest boy I have ever seen. In his eyes are the stars and the sea, the breeze and the bright moon. He is grateful to all those who like him and uses his actions to live up to others' appreciation of him.
? The world kissed me with pain, but I responded with songs
At a young age, he spent five years in the spotlight. The stage witnessed his growth and transformation, but also endless suffering and torture.
Two days ago, I accidentally read Qianjia Day of Shame on Weibo. Although I am Qianzhihe, I don’t know about these things. Curiosity drove me to click in, and then I was crying alone in the library.
My eyes were blurred by tears, and I could hardly see clearly the screen of my mobile phone, but I kept scrolling down, I wanted to see the suffering he had suffered. Why is the world so cruel to let the boy I like so much suffer so much?
1109 was his teammate’s birthday. He flew alone to attend his teammate’s birthday party, but was insulted and pushed by the opponent’s fans in public. He just kept being patient.
He was still a child. He didn’t understand anything yet, but he still had a strong sense of self-esteem.
After the birthday party, he was in a very depressed mood. When he returned from the airport, his father came to pick him up for the first time. He blocked himself tightly and never raised his head all the way.
At that time, Qianjia was not as strong as it is now, and there was no Fat Tiger around him at that time. At that time, he had to bear too much by himself, and he was the only one.
Therefore, he cherishes everyone who likes him. He is grateful, so he puts his fans at the forefront of his heart. He works hard just to prove himself. Now he is liked by many people, but only he can understand the hardships he has experienced.
He told fans, I know you feel sorry for me, but these things are what a handsome boy must experience.
This warm boy has grown a lot in the past five years, from that immature little boy to a handsome young man. The passion and innocence in his heart have never diminished. He still has an innocent heart and will walk on the road covered with flowers every day in the future.