Lu Xiaoman Francois in history? Beijing's famous social butterfly

1926 On the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, Cowherd and Weaver Girl met in Beijing Beihai Park and had a long-discussed marriage. The groom Xu Zhimo and the bride Lu Xiaoman have already become the center of public opinion. At the wedding, the teachers of Liang Qichao and Xu Zhimo embarrassed everyone present except himself. He didn't say anything auspicious, but scolded the bride and groom, saying that they should not treat marriage as a child's play. Finally, he said, may you get married for the last time! Liang Qichao wrote to his daughter Liang Lingxian afterwards: Yesterday, I did something I didn't do and didn't want to do, that is, I married Xu Zhimo. His new wife is Wang Geng's wife. It is immoral to divorce Wang Geng after falling in love with Shima. Mo Chi found such a person as his partner, fearing that pain would follow in the future. So I gave him an expressive stick, hoping to realize something, so as not to kill Shi Ma in the future. I had a big lesson in the wedding hall, and all the newcomers and guests were eclipsed. I'm afraid this is an unheard of wedding at home and abroad. Lu Xiaoman is a famous social butterfly in Beijing. Her father Lu Dingyuan is the director of the tax department of the Ministry of Finance. Later, he abandoned politics and became the general manager of Zhenhua Bank, which was regarded as the god of wealth. The Lu family has a lot of money and can't. They couldn't bear to let their little daughter go to school, so they invited all the teachers they needed to come home. So, although there is no Lu Xiaoman except China, I don't go to school. My writing level is quite high, and my spoken English and French are fluent and natural. In terms of art, Chinese painting, Beijing opera and dancing are all acceptable, except handkerchief calligraphy. In addition, she has a glib tongue and has been like a little fairy since she was a child, so she has won the reputation of peerless beauty. Lu Xiaoman's first husband was Wang Geng mentioned by Liang Qichao. He studied at Princeton University and West Point Military Academy. When Lu Xiaoman and I got married, we were teaching at Peking University. Soon after their marriage, their American lifestyle and habits were different. Wang Geng is serious and responsible, and often studies hard to prepare lectures. Lu Xiaoman is a romantic by nature and goes out to play from time to time. Therefore, Wang Geng thinks that Lu Xiaoman has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a wife or a woman. Lu Xiaoman thinks that Wang Geng is not considerate enough, and people who have drunk foreign ink are still so old-fashioned. At this time, Xu Zhimo, a colleague of Wang Geng's friend who studied in the United States and Peking University, quietly intervened. Xu Zhimo, a native of Wujin, Jiangsu, Lu Xiaoman and Jianjiang, Shi Xia, is one year younger than Wang Geng and six years older than Lu Xiaoman. Studied in Peking University, Clark University and Cambridge University. He was born extremely clever, and later worshipped Liang Qichao. His prose and new poems combine the differences between China and China's classical literature and western literature. They are unpretentious, flashy but not greasy, charming but not vulgar. On the eve of the May 4th Movement, he was appointed as the deputy editor-in-chief of Beijing Morning Post. Later, he founded Crescent Bookstore and published Crescent magazine. Adding fuel to the flames in the new culture movement, and becoming the idol of people who pursue fashion. Xu Zhimo is outstanding, with a wide range of interests and romance. He has a wife, Zhang Jialing, who has been married for a long time, and pursued Lin desperately when studying in Europe. Such people are naturally Lu Xiaoman's favorite. Xu Zhimo is a good friend of Wang Geng, and he and Lu Xiaoman are getting to know each other gradually. On one occasion, Wang Geng was too busy or too lazy to go out, so he asked Xu Zhimo to accompany Lu Xiaoman out for sightseeing or dinner. At that time, Xu Zhimo was in the stage of lovelorn. Lin, whom he desperately pursued, looked down on him and married Liang Sicheng, Liang Qichao's eldest son. So he transferred his tenderness to Lu Xiaoman. Wang Geng happened to be hired as the police chief of Harbin, and Lu Xiaoman was very lonely. Lu and Xu are like glue A and B, the more they stick, the tighter they get. From the perspective of traditional morality, Xu Zhimo's pursuit of Lu Xiaoman is regarded as disloyalty to married wife Zhang Jialing and injustice to friend Wang Geng. However, Xu Zhimo has been drifting with the tide and not sticking to the rules. Once he meets a banquet and hugs each other, don't mind his outside affairs. Lushi and Xu Fami

In the vast sea of people, I am fortunate to meet my soul mate, but this is not my life, then this is all! In the new trend, they are encouraged and cheered by young men and women, and they don't think about the past and embark on the road of marriage. For example, Yu Dafu said: Zhi Mo is passionate as fire, and Xiao Man is gentle as cotton. When they touch each other, they will naturally burn into a ball. There, they still care about ethics and discipline, and even ignore the patriarchal family style. At this time, he was invited by Sun to Nanjing, and was appointed as the Chief of Staff of the Allied Command of the Five Provinces, occupying a high position. Hearing that his wife's behavior was different, he wrote an express letter to Lu Xiaoman in lightning speed, stating that if he missed the love of husband and wife, he would meet him in the south immediately, and if he belonged to another family, he would never stop him. After many twists and turns, Xu Zhimo and Zhang Jialing divorced, and Wang Geng and Lu Xiaoman also went through the separation formalities. Wang Geng said sourly to Lu Xiaoman: You get along well, and you are husband and wife. If not, if you can't get along, you will be separated. I will give in voluntarily to help you. I hope you can live happily. With the help of friends such as Hu Shi and Yu Dafu, Xu Zhimo actively prepared for the wedding. The elders of Xujiahe and Lujia hated Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman and resolutely refused to attend the wedding. Therefore, although Liang Qichao and Xu Zhimo's teachers also oppose their combination, they must invite him. Liang Qichao finally agreed to attend the wedding after Hu Shi and others repeatedly advised him to say either good or bad. The wedding was held as scheduled, and Liang Qichao said the shocking words mentioned earlier. Unexpectedly, it works like a god. Shortly after the marriage, Lu Xiaoman proposed to move to Shanghai, saying that she would use colorful scenery to dilute her bad luck accumulated in Beijing. They built a love nest in Siming Village, Fuxi Road. For a time, they lived a very sweet life. The next spring, the warm wind was intoxicating and flowers were in full bloom. Finally, Lu Xiaoman failed to resist the exciting love desire and began to relapse. As soon as I joined the social circle, it immediately caused a great sensation. Shanghai is a land of crouching tiger, where ancestors, princes, wealthy businessmen and wealthy and idle aristocratic children abound. So someone invited her to dinner; Someone asked her to dance; Some people even came out to encourage her to vote for charity. Is one of the limelight, time, spirit, money are lost together, Lu Xiaoman think it's worth it, but Xu Zhimo secretly complain. There is a Suzhou man named Weng Dragon Boat Festival, who is rich as an enemy, extravagant, eating, drinking and having nothing to do, spending money like water, spending money like water. He is the pillar of the box office of Yage Collection, and he also has the ability to massage with one hand. I met Lu Xiaoman through a fan show, so I made great efforts in front of Lu Xiaoman. They often played together and got a full house of applause. On one occasion, Lu Xiaoman was tired of singing at the finale and once fainted. Weng used his massage technique to massage Lu Xiaoman during the Dragon Boat Festival, which actually relieved Lu Xiaoman's fatigue. So Lu Xiaoman often finds Weng to massage her during the Dragon Boat Festival. She feels very comfortable and their relationship is getting better and better. On Dragon Boat Festival, Weng taught Lu Xiaoman to eat opium. In this way, Weng touched the Dragon Boat Festival for a while and rubbed Lu Xiaoman for a while; After a while, he and Lu Xiaoman leaned back on the pillow together, smoking under the light, even others didn't dare I didn't see it. However, Xu Zhimo still defends his wife with pure heart. He explained: the relationship between husband and wife is love, and the relationship between friends is affection. This is a medical treatment. Lotus pillow, smoking, can only fall in love at most, not make love. So Lu Xiaoman pushed his luck, completely ignored Xu Zhimo, went out for the Dragon Boat Festival with Weng in front of Xu Zhimo, and even kissed Ni. What Xu Zhimo did in those days seems to be more thorough now. When Wang Geng was embarrassed, Xu Zhimo also had a bitter taste. What a retribution! Xu Zhimo is now lying in the thorns of life reality, bleeding profusely. There is a rift in the relationship between husband and wife, and Lu Xiaoman still doesn't care, playing in the dark. In order to make money for his wife Xu Zhimo to go to Shanghai to teach and write, he went to Beijing.

Lu Xiaoman is addicted to opium on the sofa. Suddenly, she lost her temper, grabbed the smoke lamp and hit Xu Zhimo. Although it didn't hit Xu Zhimo on the head, it flew over his forehead and knocked down Xu Zhimo's glasses. Xu Zhimo was completely desperate and quietly left home for Nanjing. 19, fly to Beiping by Jinan plane of China Airlines Jingping Line. When I flew to Dangjiazhuang near Jinan, I was caught in a fog. The plane accidentally hit the top of the mountain, resulting in death. Xu zhimo's hands and feet burned to coke and died tragically. The death of Xu Zhimo caused a great shock, and friends from all over the world came to hold a funeral for him. There is an elegy written by Yu Dafu in the mourning hall: two volumes of new poems, twenty years of old friends, a long way to go, Xiu Yuan, and it is hard to get a beauty again; When the river is full and the smoke rises, the crane will return to China. You have to worry that you will be too high to be cold. The most conspicuous and touching elegiac couplet in the mourning hall is Xu Zhimo's original wife, Zhang Jialing, and Xu Zhimo's father, Xu Shenfu, who announced their separation from the father-son relationship. Shen Fu deeply felt that his son's death was not worth it. He shouted: "In the epic, the agarwood catches the moon, the literati suddenly dies, each with his own grief and indignation, and his son is detached." Even if you meet Feng Gang, you will be robbed badly. I have been learning to be a teacher since I was a child, and my husband and wife have been guarding it. I feel most sorry for my only son. My mother has passed away, and I can't bear to let my lonely father give me a new life. Zhang Jialing was divorced by Xu Zhimo because of Lu Xiaoman. But she loves Xu Zhimo deeply, and Xu Zhimo's father, Xu Shenfu, also thinks that Zhang Jialing is a rare good daughter-in-law, so Zhang Jialing still lives in the Xu family. She cried Xu Zhimo like this: Wan Li flew fast and he lost his way alone; I was shocked. I feel sorry for my soul. In the hall, Xu Shenfu didn't want to see Lu Xiaoman, but Zhang Jialing didn't. T avoid suspicion and comfort Lu Xiaoman. Lu Xiaoman's conscience, shame, remorse, separated by a long distance, cried in the mourning hall. In the hall, Xu Zhimo's ever-burning lamp flashed his footsteps. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman have been married for five years and paid their precious lives. Teacher Liang Qichao's concern has become an irresistible fact. Xu Zhimo died at the age of 36 and was in the middle of his career. At this time, Lu Xiaoman was just thirty years old, and it was the most gorgeous time for women. However, as a widow of Xu Zhimo, she is naturally bound in social occasions, and the society has low tolerance for her. Most people try to avoid getting involved with her. Today, learn what painting, tomorrow, learn Wang Xingbo's poems, and spend that painful time. She simply spent the Dragon Boat Festival with Weng and was finally forced by life. The copyrights of Aimeixiaozha and Zhimo Diary in Even Xu Zhimo were sold to Chen Guang Publishing Company. Beauty has been famous since ancient times, and there is no bald head in the world. Lu Xiaoman was lazy and lethargic all day, and soon he was haggard. 1965 She died in Shanghai when the Cultural Revolution approached.