His wife Gan Lin was mistaken for a groupie.
The outside world is always interested in Dashan's family. He and his wife Gan Lin, a seemingly ordinary China girl, have been together for many years. Dashan said: "Everyone always likes to ponder this transnational marriage, thinking that there will be many stories of the collision between China and the West. In fact, marriage is mainly a fusion of two personalities. " Dashan always wears a "trademark" smile outside, but when he comes home, he is a silent person and doesn't want to talk at all. His wife, however, is quiet in appearance and active in heart. Dashan's personal website was established by Gan Lin for him, which contains an overview of Dashan 10 and his recent situation.
Dashan hardly mentions his wife in public. "This is her request and my idea. We met at 1990. She is not engaged in literature and art. She chose to marry me, but she still wants a quiet environment. " Shopping in China, they invented the "two-meter shopping method". The mountain is in front, and the showers are two meters behind. In case of onlookers, Gan Lin pretended to be a bystander and waited. However, this method sometimes leads to some embarrassment. Dashan said that just two days ago, his wife followed him, and a reporter next to him said, "Hey, you are a groupie." A word angered Xiaoyu and blurted out: "I am his wife!" " "This is probably the first time that Gan Lin has voluntarily admitted his identity in public.
A pair of children in the mountains, one is 9 years old and the other is 6 years old, and they have also made a lot of trouble because of "celebrity dad". "Every time I take them out, people won't stare at me and shout. Look, that's Dashan's son." When I was in kindergarten, when the teacher saw that it was Dashan's son, his attitude changed immediately. But Dashan and Gan Lin didn't let their children go to that kindergarten the next day. They don't want their children to live in preferential treatment since childhood. After all kinds of efforts, Dashan finally sent his wife and children to Canada, and Dashan himself ran between China and Canada. Children go to French school in Canada, neighbors speak English, and the main communication at home is Chinese.
Dashan said that he and Gan Lin are enough to teach children Chinese, and there is no need to send them to Chinese schools like many overseas Chinese. "Those children are more traditional than those in China. On weekends, I have to recite Tang poetry and Song poetry, learn calligraphy and learn Chinese painting. I don't understand why China's culture is so extensive and profound, and why do you have to force children to learn such boring things? Many overseas Chinese children will never learn Chinese again when they are teenagers. "