What is the interest class that preschool children must attend?

Recently, Teacher Xiaoyue received many parents' inquiries about how preschool children choose interest classes. In this regard, I made a special question and answer. During the Q&A, I was surprised to find that many kindergarten children signed up for many interest classes, such as piano, art, calligraphy, English and dance. At least one and at most four. I am surprised! ! ! It is hard to imagine that children who have just learned to walk for a few days are at the age of play and are in a hurry to go to class.

Some parents said they were afraid of losing at the starting line; Some parents say that if most children go to school, they will go to school themselves; Another parent said that stupid birds fly first, learn more knowledge, and it is not difficult to go to school; Some parents also said that this age is the time to play and should play more.

No matter which statement is right or wrong, it is understandable that parents want their children to be successful, but parents must ask themselves, is the child forced or active? If it is forced, is the baby happy? What's the difference between this and caged birds? Can you achieve the effect you want? Of course, it is best if children are voluntary and active, and get happiness from it.

What I want to say is that for preschool children, playing is the "interest class" he must attend! No matter what class you give your child, this "class" must be attended. Get in touch with nature, run around in the sun, even play with mud, catch bugs, build blocks with children, play games with parents and so on. Playing is the nature of children of this age, and they learn more knowledge in playing than sitting still in class. We should respect the natural growth law of children. Children aged 3-5 attend interest classes in class, unless they like it, they can't be forced!

Parents can play interactive games with their babies at home. I don't need to say the benefits of parent-child games. Parents all know how good it is for the baby's growth. Let the baby grow up under the care of parents, which is better than any interest class. Children aged 3-5 should try not to be sent to any training institution. If children don't like it, it will do more harm than good. For babies of this age, all activities should be interest-driven, exploration-oriented and fun-oriented, which is the real interest class.

The process of parent-child interaction between parents and babies is based on the deepest love. In this process, parents can gradually discover their children's talents. Children aged 3-5 will be deprived of many talented things if they go to any interest class. In early childhood education, the more passive education they receive, the more amazing the educational effect children actively participate in. As treasures, parents should be good at guiding their children's curiosity about the world and thinking about problems.

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Author: Yue Lan, a senior media person, graduated from a famous university and an expert in parenting education. For more questions, please pay attention to the official WeChat account. Teacher Xiaoyue is waiting for you and will answer your questions.