But most of us are forced to make a living and can't engage in our favorite major, so we can only take our favorite as a hobby and use our spare time to finish what we like. For example, now you and I are not professional writers and writers, and now we have to spend a lot of spare time practicing writing here. The main reason is that we love writing. This hobby, if it started from the germination of writing hobby in middle school, has been adhered to. Maybe we will add the word "writer" after our name. Why not? That is, we started late and had no time to do what we devoted ourselves to. In contrast, we spend less time and energy. There is no way to compare with people who specialize in this job. Natural technology is not as good as others, and the results are not much better.
And some people want to do this and that over and over again. In the end, nothing was done, and nothing was done in the end. That's probably who I am. Because I had to work to support my family when I was young, I spent most of my life busy with work, children and family. After children go to college, they are busy traveling besides working. It was not until my children got married that I felt I should do something I loved. I have studied singing, calligraphy and painting, but I still haven't figured it out. I also said I would take my grandson. If you don't grasp your professional direction early in life, and don't persist in not changing your initial heart, it is difficult to achieve something. Therefore, when doing things, we must set goals early, do a good job, and stick to it.
Children, in particular, have cultivated their hobbies since childhood, practiced boys' kung fu and mastered their favorite skills, which will benefit them for life. For example, Lang Lang began to practice calligraphy at the age of four, and Sun Xiaoyun practiced calligraphy all his life. Mo Yan insisted on writing since he was a child. Now these people are famous and married. Do you envy them? We should not only envy the glory and aura of others, but also know the hardships of others.
Parents who don't want their children to succeed now want their daughters to succeed. They are also willing to spend money to learn this and that for their children. But some children stop learning when they learn, give up halfway and learn something else. As a result, they learned everything and mastered nothing. In this way, you need to ask yourself, what are children's hobbies? If you find a suitable hobby, you must let him stick to it until the end in order to achieve something. We can't give in to difficulties and don't persist. We all know that "young people don't work hard, but old people are sad".
I have heard a popular saying among ordinary people before, "Many skills don't support the family". This sentence is very reasonable, which means that as a craftsman, you have learned a lot, and your subjects will not be so superb and your skills will not be so superb. People won't ask you to take on his job, so what do you do to support your family?
If you want to achieve something, please remember that if you can concentrate on one thing, don't take care of several things.