It is very necessary to develop good study habits, which should be reflected in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books. When a child was young, he cultivated and exercised his literacy ability early, which laid a very good foundation for his future study. When the child is older, we will help him form the habit of reading and let him spare some time to read every day. In our family, we can often see pictures of a family of three reading books. Moreover, as long as there is an opportunity, I will buy all kinds of books from the bookstore for him to read. Children's Day and Spring Festival gifts are all kinds of interesting or beneficial books. After a long time, children like reading. I have also developed good reading habits. It also played a great role in promoting learning. From the time my child goes to school, I pay attention to cultivating his study habits and finish the homework left by the teacher after going home every day. Preview the rest before learning the new lesson. Communicate with his teacher in time to help children develop good study habits. In family life, always pay attention to the formation of habits, pack up the toys you have played, wash your face and brush your teeth before going to bed at night. Sometimes, if a child wants to be lazy, tell him the truth and tell him that it is impossible. Slowly, he recognized this behavior, and the habit naturally formed.
Don't ask too much of your child, give him some room for free development, observe his advantages and disadvantages, and then give guidance. I think we have all been children and should know what children like. Too much preaching is better than guiding children with our own actions. What children are asked to do, adults must first do it themselves. For example, when my son was watching TV, he unconsciously walked in front of the TV as soon as he saw the wonderful part. I corrected him, and he immediately scolded him: you always surf the internet every day, and your eyes will be broken if you play for a long time. In the face of children's doubts, I have to correct myself first and influence my children with my own behavior. I told my child: Look, mom has changed, and it's only been online for a while, so you have to change! At this time, the child will readily accept your suggestion.
In order to broaden our horizons and cultivate children's various interests. In his spare time, he signed up for a calligraphy class. He has been studying for several years now, and he is very interested and his grades are good.
Children like to make by hand, and I will provide them with materials and help them as much as possible. Sometimes, watching him make a work that is not very wonderful and show it to us smugly, his expression is full of pride. I feel gratified from the bottom of my heart to see that children dare to do things and get happiness from the process of hand-making.
In addition, we also like to let our children take part in some physical exercises. If a child loves to run and jump, let him exercise more, which will not only strengthen his body, but also make him happy. Why not?
In short, we hope that the child is not only a child who is immersed in his studies, but also hopes that he can have his own fun while studying hard and is a person who loves life.
Parents' summary of their children at the end of the term II. Educating children is an important task for the whole family. Educating children really requires parents to move from self-cultivation to family harmony in order to achieve the goal of education. This year, I specially bought mp3 and a set of audio amplifier, downloaded the classic explanations and reading materials on the Internet into mp3, and then played them through the amplifier, so that everyone at home can get in touch with this information and learn at the same time. At the same time, the life behavior of family members is restricted and regulated to a certain extent, and the education of children needs the growth of every family member. At the same time, with the help of mp3 Walkman, my learning process of ancient Chinese will be accelerated. I found that there are many excellent traditional cultural resources on the Internet. Over time, my children and I have greatly improved our literary level.
In the process of studying, I have encountered such difficulties. Sometimes, it is not uncommon to be sarcastic but counterproductive. I've been troubled by this, too Later, I thought about it carefully: parents should not only blame their children, but also reflect on their children to see where the problems are and whether they can make them more acceptable in another way. In fact, as long as you are thoughtful and creative, family education can be very interesting.
After the child has some reading ability, I began to try to write some small notes with different contents for the child, even if there are only a few words. I sometimes put these little notes in the children's pencil box, sometimes quietly put them in the children's toy box, and even put them on the refrigerator door, mirror and pillow. Where children can see and find them used to be her goal. She hopes that when the child accidentally finds these small notes, it will bring him surprises and let him really feel the attention and love of his parents.
I don't know what is right and what is best in children's education, but some aspects of children's education are * * *, and some things are different according to children's personality and characteristics. In education, we should not only let nature take its course, but also be persuasive, and find a balance between management and no matter what.
Come on! Don't lose heart, try again. You did a great job! I'm happy for you! . We often give such encouragement to children, and children will make rapid progress in our encouragement. Children need encouragement. We often encourage children to take part in group activities at school. When they come back, we will listen to him talk about what happened when they participated in the activity, and further ask him some questions: What activities are you doing today? Are you interested in continuing to participate in such activities? What are the gains and experiences of participating in this activity to arouse children's interest, find problems and solve them in time? So every encouragement we give is a catalyst for his progress. In many aspects of study and life, we give children a lot of encouragement and appreciation. Therefore, the child is confident, and I think it is very valuable for him to have such a positive idea. This is our little experience in the process of educating children, but there are also many shortcomings. In the days to come, we will also learn while teaching, explore in practice and make continuous progress in learning, so that children can grow up healthily and happily and become outstanding successors in the new century.
Parents' summary of their children at the end of the term 3. How parents educate and train their children has always been the focus of attention in today's society. Children from kindergarten to primary school, from primary school to junior high school, high school and finally to college are the central topics people talk about. It is not surprising that parents and grandparents often arrange the life of the whole family around a child.
Times have changed, the living environment is superior, family planning, a family of six people (mom and dad, grandparents, grandparents) raise a child, who doesn't care, who doesn't love? This also invisibly gives children a sense of superiority. Therefore, educating and cultivating children is a headache. Here, I will briefly talk about my experience and lessons brought by my success and failure in this respect, and also provide reference for other parents.
First, communicate with each other.
The problem of educating and cultivating children is not achieved overnight, but requires a rather difficult, complicated and long stage, and then through this stage, we can constantly sum up experiences and lessons and take measures, which may or may not be successful. But as long as you have been working hard, paying painstaking efforts and costs, and treating everything correctly, there will be good results. I didn't deliberately raise my children, but the necessary care and education were not omitted. The first is to learn to communicate with each other, learn how to cultivate feelings with children, and learn how to talk to him, not necessarily telling the truth. At this point, some parents mistakenly think that telling the truth to their children will have a good result, but it is not! Children are born naive and like to listen to happy things. It is very important that unhappy things will disgust you or even alienate you. I think if my children like me, get close to me and even worship me, this is the first step to success. Next, it's not impossible to say something to him occasionally, and of course, you can't push your luck, otherwise the meeting will be in vain. The reason should be easy to understand, as long as he understands, he will stop immediately, otherwise he will give up the important reason.
When dealing with the relationship with children, we should treat children as our friends and treat them sincerely. Don't make up excuses to deceive him just because he is a child. When he needs to communicate, we should listen to him carefully and share joys and sorrows with him. When he needs help, she should carefully help him analyze some problems that she thinks are very complicated, help him solve difficulties, and keep her word. When discussing problems with him, allow your child to put forward different or even opposite opinions from his parents, listen carefully to his reasons, and then tell him your thoughts; Keep some "little secrets" that he asked you to keep, and don't tell others easily. In short, let him feel that his parents are trustworthy, friends worthy of communication, and honest, rather than commanding, so that children can communicate with you on an equal footing, talk about everything, and keep abreast of their thoughts and learning.
Second, form a habit
Good habits can benefit children for a lifetime, and good habits will affect their lifestyle and personal growth path. Good habits are extremely important for children, and they will become the mentor of their success in life, so in a sense, "good habits are the most important guide in life." Mr. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator in China, once said: "What is education? In a simple sentence, it is to develop good habits. " Therefore, as parents, we must make great efforts to cultivate children's habits.
From the time my child goes to school, I have strictly educated him to listen carefully in class and finish his homework on time. When encountering problems, you should use your head and not shrink back; Get along with classmates and listen to teachers. To this end, when I first started school, I often studied with my children. If there is anything I don't understand, I will discuss with him to solve it, eliminate the problems that children don't understand, and let him build up confidence and actively overcome the problems. Sometimes a child can't recite the text at once, so I will help him find out some key words and plug them in like a telephone pole. It is required to recite the whole text sentence by sentence, paragraph by paragraph and paragraph by paragraph. Now children are more conscious of learning, can finish their homework independently every day, and have high enthusiasm.
Third, be good at discovering.
Education and training are two inseparable parts. Therefore, in the process of educating children, we should pay attention to cultivating children's specialties and interests. In addition to discovering the advantages of children, we should also be good at discovering their shortcomings. My child has many shortcomings, the most prominent of which is timidity and fear of contacting people, especially teachers. This is a fatal flaw. People's life is mainly about dealing with people, otherwise you will be isolated and lead to abnormal personality. Besides, no matter how talented a person is, if he doesn't get in touch with others, your skills won't be displayed, and you will become a waste, so I must work hard to cultivate and train him. I try my best to work with him and let him experience exercise on all occasions where I can exercise him.
Of course, raising children is not always such a model. It is necessary to formulate various educational methods according to his own conditions, personality and hobbies, which is its complexity.
Fourth, treat it correctly.
All children have their own advantages, but there are inevitably shortcomings and mistakes. How to treat every achievement and every mistake of a child is a key issue for parents to consider.
Achievements should be praised and mistakes criticized, but the scale of praise and criticism is difficult to grasp. It is impossible not to encourage or criticize, but children who are too eager to encourage and criticize often have abnormal mentality. How to treat a few words is hard to say clearly. Here are only specific examples for your reference.
Once I accidentally found a lot of good things in his exercise book. I was very angry at that time, but I thought calmly, don't worry, lest I hurt his self-esteem. So I asked him calmly, "where did you get your homework?" Did you accidentally do it again? " He made some explanations. Although his explanation is obviously far-fetched, I don't need to expose it. At least he knows that he is wrong, even a slight accusation depends on how he knows. I think grades are very important, but what is more important is learning attitude and learning process. Paying attention to attitude and process will inevitably lead to good results in the end.
In short, parents should not be too happy when children have some achievements; Don't get angry easily when you make a mistake. On the one hand, we should leave room for children, on the other hand, we should seize the opportunity to educate them rationally when they know their mistakes. How to treat him correctly depends on the situation at that time.
In fact, every family has a unique and novel way of educating their children. To tell the truth, it is not easy to be a qualified parent. Some scholars say, "One of the most difficult things in the world is to educate children well." This is a profound knowledge. It is wise for modern parents to educate their children in a scientific way. I hope every parent can understand their children better. Let's work together!
Parents' Summary of Children At the end of last four semesters, when the parents' school just started, I greeted it with a feeling of doubt, curiosity and expectation. I always thought that what I could learn from these speeches would be helpful to the concept of family education. But after several wonderful lectures by experts and teachers this year, I really benefited a lot, so I have made many changes and new ideas in the concept and methods of family education. Let me talk about some of my ideas.
Children are parents' treasures and the most important treasures in our lives, but children's education is more important than life. If we can't educate our children correctly, they will not only be a burden to society, but also to ourselves in the future. However, with the rapid change of society, educating children has become more difficult and complicated than before, because children get information too quickly and from too many sources. Often because of this, children can't tell right from wrong? At this time, children need the guidance of adults, especially parents, because they are their first teachers and the people who have the greatest influence on their growth, so it is very important to set an example. In which direction do you want your children to go, you must try to be a role model for your children, and don't think that adults are educating them. In fact, in this interactive process, we learn more from children than from us, so don't be stingy with children.
Besides being a good example for parents, in real life, I find that our parents should pay attention to many aspects, such as:
1, thinking too much, worrying too much about children, such as worrying that children can't keep up with their lessons and can't adapt to life.
2, do too much, take too many responsibilities for children, such as: carrying schoolbags for children, reviewing lessons, etc.
3, scold more, when the mood is angry, irrational words often blurt out, causing the child's self-esteem to be frustrated and the parent-child relationship is not good.
4. Paying too much, whether it is compensation for material life or verbal praise, sometimes paying too much leads to children's ingratitude or self-expansion.
5, too much, in order not to let the children lose at the starting point, the result is too much study, so that the children are at a loss.
6. Too little play, too few interesting leisure activities between parents and children, and lack of laughter memories.
7. Too little love, of course, is that parents care for their children, but they are always not specific enough in action expression, which reduces the lubricant of parent-child interaction.
8, know too little, may be busy with work, may be busy with housework, often ignore the absorption of modern information, and parents can only talk about daily chores.
In short, every child has shortcomings or deficiencies, and every child has an upward heart for goodness and its bright spot. As the first teacher of children, we should improve ourselves, treat children with respect, normality and tolerance, and promote their all-round and healthy development.
Parents' summary of their children at the end of the term 5 Teacher, you have worked hard!
I am Zhao Man's parents and a sophomore. Educating children I always think that children's living habits and personality are the most important. However, I always feel that we can't start with how to educate. After studying in my parents' school, I feel suddenly enlightened. The summary is as follows:
First, always care about children, be their good friends and listen to their voices, so that problems can be immediately guided and solved.
Second, develop good living habits and benefit children for life.
Third, cultivate children's self-confidence and have an optimistic and cheerful mood. They are not discouraged and discouraged by setbacks.
Fourth, let children have the ability to discover, analyze and solve problems, which not only means that study and life are particularly urgent.
Fifth, cultivate children's practical ability. Children board at school once a week. Less contact with other students in society and life. I specially arranged these weekends to prevent my child from becoming a bookworm.
Rome was not built in a day. As a parent, I always think that education is a major event. Success comes from details, and children are educated under this concept. These are some of my thoughts. I hope the teacher can give me some educational methods suitable for Angie's problems and let her succeed.
First of all, thank the school for providing such a good learning opportunity for our parents. Through learning, I have a new understanding of how to educate and manage children, and I have benefited a lot. Here are some learning experiences:
First, parents are children's first teachers and the importance of family education.
Family education is very important for children's growth and plays an irreplaceable role in school education and social education. Parents have an unshirkable responsibility for their children's growth. Creating a harmonious family life is very important for children's growth, and parents should set a good example in every bit of life.
Second, stimulate children's interest in learning and help them find their own strengths.
In the usual learning process, parents should encourage their children and teach them how to deal with difficulties. When children make progress, we should praise and encourage them in time, cultivate and encourage their interest in learning, and always look for their strengths and encourage them.
Third, always care about children's academic performance and treat children's achievements correctly.
Parents should care about their children's academic performance and help them correct bad learning methods. If their children make slow progress in their studies, parents should not pay too much attention to their achievements. If the child really works hard, there is no problem. Don't rush for success, don't take scores too seriously, and correctly guide children's learning methods and learning purposes. As a junior child, it is more important. Of course, you can't say that grades are not very important in front of children.
Fourth, the cooperation between family education and schools.
In order to make the effect of family education better, it is very important for parents to keep consistent with school education, communicate with teachers frequently, understand the situation of children at home and at school, and let children develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically through home-school cooperation. In my opinion, if children can regard teachers and parents as their intimate friends, have troubles to talk about and have fun, that is the success of our family education and school education.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) cooperation between family education and social education
When children grow up, they will enter the society. As parents, children should feel the responsibility of society from an early age. In daily life, they should spread more good deeds and obligations as citizens in society. Cultivate children's correct outlook on life from an early age.