What kind of parents are behind an excellent child?

Speaking of excellent children, I can think of him at once.

He is not a celebrity at present, and it is hard to say in the future, because I think he is the best, and it depends on his personal wishes to go further.

His mother is a middle school teacher and his father is a university teacher. They live in a second-and third-tier city and do not have as good educational resources as first-tier cities.

His primary school and junior high school are not famous schools, but he studies in the school where his mother works. In high school, I was admitted to a local key high school with excellent results. This high school is one of the best schools in the area.

In high school, he also took time to learn seal cutting and saxophone. In addition, he often paints in his spare time, and his calligraphy has won prizes in the city.

After the college entrance examination, I was admitted to Tsinghua, and my fucking school was boiling in an instant. Every year, some people in this small middle school are admitted to key high schools, and some students are admitted to 985 or 2 1 1, but this is probably the one in Tsinghua, which is excellent enough.

Teachers who have taught children have given high praise. They are sensible, polite, study well and have strong hands-on ability. Because the mother is a teacher, the boy has special respect for the teacher and often helps the teacher and the class.

Many people ask this mother for advice. How does she raise children?

She said these points:

1、? Respect children. Both parents are teachers, and they are usually busy with their studies and work. My father often writes at home. When my son sees it and wants to learn, my father will teach it seriously. Many parents have this attitude towards what their sons want to learn, including seal cutting in their freshman year and saxophone in their sophomore year. Although parents were reluctant to worry that this would affect his study, their son immediately supported it as soon as he put it forward. 2、? Good family atmosphere.

Both parents are people who love learning. When my son was young, he often did homework in his mother's office, watched his mother prepare lessons and looked up information. He is reading his own books and drawing his own pictures. It's quiet and undisturbed. At home, my mother not only studies, but also likes music, singing and dancing. Besides reading, my father likes playing basketball, so he also likes music and sports. Of course, I also have very good reading habits, which is something that the whole family loves to do.

3. Don't spoil the children.

Although he is an only child, his parents have never been spoiled. Mother is the eldest sister in the family. She has to do a lot of things since she was a child, and she has to take care of her siblings. When she got to her son, she also trained him to do all the things he should do.

Of course, Tsinghua University is just the boy's first step. He successfully went to graduate school in Tsinghua. From the beginning of graduate school, he was financially independent and spent all his own money. When preparing to go to the United States to study for a doctorate, his mother intends to buy him a suite as tuition and living expenses. As a result, he directly applied for a scholarship from a top American university, which was enough for tuition and living expenses. I heard there is still some left.

His mother said happily, it's good to save a suite.