1. Infinitely praise some teachers and parents. When they see their children doing well in some aspects, such as improving their ranking in mid-term exams and helping their parents with housework, they will praise their children. For example, many teachers and parents always praise their children with words like "You are great" and "You are a good boy". However, after a long time, the child may become numb, and even feel that teachers and parents are trying to perfunctory him. Because the scope of this kind of praise is too large, the children are very confused. Parents should praise their children's specific personal behavior, that is, praise a specific thing.
2, too exaggerated, divorced from the actual praise This is a mistake that many teachers and parents will make. For example, for example, a classmate in the class won the calligraphy art competition, and the dean happily praised this classmate, "You are simply a wizard of calligraphy art!" " "If this kind of praise is often used several times, this classmate is likely to gradually become cocky. Because he thinks he is already the champion of calligraphy, must he still work hard? This is obviously unrealistic. Teachers and parents must praise their children appropriately and pragmatically on the premise of objective facts.
Conditional praise is the most taboo. Not only does it not let children relax, but it also increases their psychological pressure. For example, a classmate won the title of "sports champion" in the school sports meeting. So the classmate's mother praised him, "You are very good. It would be better if you could always win the song king and the primary school Olympic champion! " This is a typical jiacang Zan. This kind of praise seems to be very happy for a while, but it is very stressful inside.