With the continuous development of the times, everyone has learned to adapt to this era in their own way, and in the process of people adapting to society, everyone's emotional ability is slowly losing. We can't feel other people's thoughts more and more, just as others can't see through what we are thinking.
Modern people are becoming more and more indifferent, and everyone is beginning to learn to close their hearts. When we were students, no matter what happened in our life, we always shared it with friends around us, and sometimes even with our parents. When we enter social life, we suddenly realize that many things can only be hidden in our hearts, and many pressures and responsibilities can only be borne by ourselves.
So we learned to be silent, and people became more and more indifferent in silence. We began to close our hearts, unwilling to let others walk into our hearts easily, and unwilling to let others owe us real ideas. Life seems to be wearing a mask.
This is a sense of powerlessness brought by the times and a disguise brought by life. Indifference is like a meat cleaver, carving our hearts and faces into two looks.
I quite agree with this statement. Modern people are really losing their emotional ability. The so-called * * * emotional ability, in the final analysis, is the ability to understand the feelings of others and put yourself in others' shoes. However, in modern society, people are increasingly pursuing self-feeling and self-satisfaction. We become indifferent and unwilling to spend more time and energy to understand other people's ideas.
Maybe some people are very emotional, but in life and work, they don't bring more excitement to their lives, but make them more tired. So this group of people began to learn to give up this ability and gradually become a person with weak engineering ability, and those with weak emotional ability gradually lost this ability.
I agree with this sentence because I look back on my mental journey over the years and find that I don't care about other people's opinions more and more, and I find that I have become only thinking about myself. I think this is a mature process, and the loss of emotional ability seems to blow the horn of maturity.
In fact, in real life, people's emotional ability has not been lost, but under the influence of social life, we all subconsciously choose to hide this ability in our hearts, otherwise it may bring us a lot of trouble.
The more we grow up, the more lonely we become, and the lost emotional ability makes us truly independent individuals.