What kind of woman is high-quality in men's eyes? In daily life, high-quality women are the focus of men's attention wherever they go, and many people are curious about what kind of women are high-quality. Next, I will show you what kind of women are high-quality in men's eyes.
What kind of woman is good in men's eyes 1
1, exquisite and elegant, pleasing to the eye.
A woman who can be called a "landscape" looks pleasing to the eye. It's not how beautiful and delicate she looks. Now most women look beautiful after makeup, but her dress mix, her manners and her personal temperament can make her stand out in an instant.
Proper dress and clean makeup are the basic conditions for women to become exquisite. Many men think that this woman "looks very comfortable", and the most important thing is to dress up. Some women wear strapless clothes in the workplace and think they are beautiful, but wearing inappropriate clothes in a serious working atmosphere will not be respected by men.
In addition to exquisiteness, elegance is also a major feature of these "landscape" women. What makes men think of the word elegance immediately is a woman's posture. In this respect, Liu Shishi is the object that many people should learn from. Whether sitting or standing, Liu Shishi's back is always tall and straight, and his shoulders and neck stretch naturally. A good gesture can make men feel that this woman is unusual and worthy of respect. If you are in a concave S-shaped curve all day, or always shrink your neck and bow your back, I'm afraid this gesture is too far from "elegance".
2, rich in ideas, have their own specialties.
A "high-quality" woman, in addition to appearance, the most important thing is her inner thoughts. A woman with rich thoughts, chatting with her, will not appear "unable to continue" embarrassing situation. They love reading and often reflect and think. They don't think reading is a difficult thing. For them, reading is the best way to understand different ideas and master different knowledge. Even if you are knowledgeable, you are still expanding your knowledge boundary.
They are brave enough to go out of their comfort zone and expand new possibilities in life. They have their own hobbies and specialties, such as violin, calligraphy, dancing, skiing and writing. They will not shrink back because of difficulties, nor will they stop because they will not. What they can't stand most is the weakness and emptiness of their thoughts. For these women, spiritual enjoyment is extremely important.
3. Have an independent source of income and be self-reliant.
A "high-quality" woman must have an independent source of income if she wants to maintain a high-quality life. They are not used to being attached to men. On the contrary, they trust themselves more than others. Such women are full of self-confidence, they clearly know their goals in life, and they have been bravely working towards these goals. Their self-reliance sometimes makes men admire them.
Having an independent source of income means that they will not worry about economic problems before and after marriage. Only with a basic economic foundation can we enjoy a high-quality life and become "high-quality" outstanding women.
4, positive and optimistic, know how to adjust yourself.
No matter who you are, emotional adjustment is a compulsory course in your life. Many people are in a bad mood, and their emotions will be out of control for several days, and some even fall into depression easily.
But for "high-quality" women, they always treat life positively and optimistically. It is not that they are extroverted, but that they know how to adjust their emotions. Even if you are frustrated and unhappy, you can recover quickly. Because they know that letting themselves fall into bad mood for a long time will not help people or things much.
They may encounter more difficulties and experience more failures and successes than ordinary people, which is why they will take life more seriously and try to face every day with a healthy and sunny attitude. These self-regulating women, even if they lose their temper and make a scene, will not be annoying, because they know that even if they vent, enough is enough.
5, know how to choose, don't be greedy for things that don't belong to you.
There will always be many gains and losses in a person's life, just like walking into a wheat field. Some you hold, some you put down, some you hold in your arms even if it withers, and some you throw away at will when it is clearly high-quality wheat ears.
"High-quality" women know how to choose. They won't covet things that don't belong to them, because it's useless to know how to force them. They won't give up the opportunity in front of them, and they will fight if they should.
They know how to accept and refuse, and will not hesitate because of an unreasonable request from their predecessors, nor will they be flattered by the kindness of others.
They are not indecisive when dealing with their feelings. They know that when they are interrupted, they will be disturbed. It is better to let go than to let both sides suffer. Even if you really love it, you can get it back in other ways. They don't covet, don't demand, dare to challenge and don't regret quitting.
Such "high-quality" women are enviable, and they are the best among women in both external performance and internal cultivation. It seems that they are born with infinite luck, but I don't know how many bitter efforts are hidden behind these women. Every woman wants to be a better self, and hopes that every year, she can be better than herself in the past. But the sweat behind such Excellence also needs to be much more than ordinary people.
In fact, many times, women's Excellence is not only to attract the attention of more "high-quality" men, but also to win their own breath. It's like:
You see, I can live like this! Not bad at all!
What kind of woman is good in men's eyes? These three qualities of women are the most "popular" in men's eyes. Do you?
1, gentle and generous
Nowadays, many women especially like to set up straight women for themselves. After all, such a woman looks really popular on the surface. On the surface, they do get along with men quickly, but in the end they often become "best friends".
In fact, the mate selection criteria of the majority of male compatriots are often gentle and virtuous girls. Ask yourself, do you want a wife who is "roaring at the lion" or a wife who is "gentle and generous". Relatively speaking, the latter is definitely more popular.
You know how many men in this world are a little male chauvinist, and who wants their women to yell at themselves all day? What a shame!
Speaking of gentleness and generosity, it is easy to think of Jay Chou's ex-girlfriend Patty Hou. She is synonymous with tenderness and generosity. She speaks softly and does things gently. Few people have seen her lose her temper.
She is really a gentle woman. No wonder Jay Chou, who is in full swing, fell for her, and she herself became the dream fairy of the Bay Bay Boy.
"Eugenie Grandet" said: The sympathy and gentleness of young girls really have the power of a magnet. It can be seen that gentle and generous girls are really attractive!
2. Kind-hearted
Bulwer Li Shun of the United States: If beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card. We can see the importance of women's kindness from this sentence. It is undeniable that many men are indeed visual animals, and pay more attention to each other's looks, but if the other person is a cruel beauty, then they will "stay at a respectful distance from others". After all, nothing is more important than life.
Take the hit drama Three Girls in the Summer Family as an example. Xia Tianmei in it is not good-looking, but she is really kind. Because of my simplicity and kindness, that man and that man will deeply like her.
Although this is a TV series, it also reflects real life to some extent. And a beautiful snake, old Rong Zhi. She is charming, but cruel and vicious at heart. For such a woman, which man dares to move?
Even if a kind-hearted girl is not very good-looking, there are still many people chasing her. After all, these women really know how to take care of other people's feelings. They are generous and kind, and they won't feel tired getting along with them. As Mark Twain said: Kindness is a universal language, which can be felt by the blind and smelled by the deaf. It can also be seen from this sentence that the charm of a kind-hearted girl is endless.
3. Be diligent and have your own career.
As a woman in a new era, if she can't achieve economic independence, then she will really fall behind! In ancient times, women were really vassals of men and did not need to go out to make a living. Today, it is modern. If a woman can't find money, it will be very painful after marriage. In fact, men who are truly successful and excellent in their careers are at most women who play with vases and are basically too lazy to marry others.
The ancients said: Marry a virtuous man. In the eyes of a truly successful and excellent man, marrying a wife is much better than a vase. It is said that men who work hard are the most handsome. In fact, women who work hard are also beautiful. They exude the powerful and unique charm of their women all the time, which makes the men around them move.