First, it is too utilitarian. Anxious to achieve a certain goal, such as wanting a promotion and salary increase, or wanting to fall in love with a beautiful woman;
Second, I don't like learning. I like playing games and reading romance novels every day, but I am not good at delving into problems in my work or study, which makes me impetuous and uneasy.
The solution is three aspects: read more books, study more and make more friends.
The first is to read a good book:
You can read some applied books, which can help you solve some problems in your work or life, promote your thinking and let you calm down slowly. For example, in order to improve your speech order, you can read some books to improve your self-cultivation. Such a book is easy to read and can be used after reading. It can help you build your confidence in speaking, and it can also help you learn to rethink the way you speak, which may improve your impatience.
Secondly, see more about the world and travel more:
A person stares at the work in front of him every day, and when he meets the same person, his vision will become smaller and smaller, leading to a worse mood. If you find a time to climb the mountain and look down at the top of the mountain, you can see the vast grassland; Or go to see the sea and watch it, and you will feel relaxed immediately.
And making useful friends:
Many people who muddle along in the workplace will think that making friends with superiors or leaders is an act of flattery, so they dare not have more personal contacts with leaders. I want to say that for a newcomer, the most beneficial friend is the leader. If you can become friends with the leader, your career or future development will be greatly improved.
The way to make friends with a leader is to help him do small things unconditionally, greet him with a smile, or ask him for advice when he is in trouble. Before long, the leaders will like you more and more.
To sum up, people who are too impatient when talking to others are because you are confused about the future and can't stabilize your thoughts. When you often read some useful things and travel when you have time to relax, the most important thing is to learn from the strong or leaders with an open mind, and you will become more and more stable and mature when you speak and do things.