Parents are teachers who have no textbooks and will never retire.
Family education is a career that we can never retire.
This is a special winter vacation, and the outbreak of the epidemic affects everyone's heart. The central government has made it clear that students will not return to school until the epidemic situation is effectively controlled, that is, in principle, the start of school will continue to be postponed. During this period, online teaching troubled many parents, but parents should be soberly aware that educating children has never been a struggle of family or school alone, nor is it the opposition between parents and teachers, but teachers should lead and parents should set an example. In children's education, we can't just rely on teachers, and even the best teachers can't replace the educational status of parents. Chen Baosheng, Minister of Education, said: If family education is not in place, no matter how good school education is, it will not help.
Don't choose comfort at a difficult age. No one can give you the life you want if you don't work hard. Liu Yuanyuan, winner of Super Speaker's second season, said: "I am very happy every holiday, not because I can relax, but because I can finally have a long time to work hard secretly. But there are not many students who can be self-disciplined like Liu Yuanyuan in our rural junior middle schools, and many children need parents to push them behind.
A special battle made children really regard their families as classrooms and their parents as teachers.
Some people compare the family environment to a "life textbook", and parents' words and deeds affect their children all the time. Education is not achieved overnight, but persistence over time. Parents, as "reference objects", will inevitably have a subtle influence on children's words and deeds during their time with their children. Therefore, parents should set an example, cultivate their children's good habits and accompany their children to study, learn and grow.
Parents are children's mirrors, children are parents' shadows, and you are children's "first responsible person".
A good education is not happiness.
I don't know when, a strange phenomenon appeared in the field of education: parents advocate happy education and think that children should be liberated from nature and insist on their natural growth. However, will those children who enjoy "happy education" really grow up according to their parents' expectations?
Qian Wenzhong, a professor at Fudan University, once said: "Today's education is to give in to children and give them more time for happiness and play, but how can there be such education under the sun?" Education has never been an easy task, and it is even a little cold. Parents who love their children too much can't control their children; A teacher who is too soft-hearted can't control his students Farsighted parents are cruel. It is cruel to force children to insist when they want to give up. It is cruel to force children to be diligent when they want to be lazy. Letting children grow and learn freely and giving them so-called happy education will only be the chief culprit for children to stay away from others. For children, there must be rules and ability.
In March, all parents must realize that for the sake of children's health and safety, the education department has mobilized other relevant departments to prepare air lessons for their children, conduct online teaching and mail textbooks. Parents, for the sake of children, please stand on the same line with schools and teachers. This test is a special test. What kind of answer sheet you hand over will determine your child's future life. Did you get up with your child in the morning and start reading, studying and working with her early? Or have you been sleeping late, playing mobile phones, playing mahjong and disturbing your children? Education needs silent support. If before this, children's learning depends more on whether the teacher teaches well or not; Then this time, the competition between children has almost completely become the competition of the quality of family education.
You are the best teacher for children, and even the best teacher can't compare with your care for children.
A good education needs an example.
Tolstoy said: "All education, or 99.9% education, is due to the correction and perfection of role models and parents themselves. "The ideal education should be that every family is a school and every parent is a teacher. Children are strong imitators and easily accept all kinds of information from the outside world. Parents' words and deeds, intentionally or unintentionally, will be seen by children, slowly remembered in their hearts, and gradually become an act. It can also be said that children are copies of their parents. We can get rid of our own world, feel the difficulties of others, and are more likely to have empathy, so our actions will subtly affect our children. As a positive education method, example education can inspire children to make positive progress. You respond to the call of the country, go out less and wear a mask, and your children will look up to you. If you want your child to stick to the quality of learning for five or six hours every day, you can try to sit quietly at your desk for half an hour to accompany your child. The quality of children's reading alone is far less than that of their parents. Parents read more books at home to create an atmosphere of studious and enterprising. Children will naturally be equal to their parents. In a special period, family education is not isolated.
A good education never depends on inculcating, but on practicing. No matter how much parents say, it is useless if they don't set an example. Only when parents set an example can they influence their children subtly. Don't lose your education and your children.
A good education supports the ideal.
The fundamental purpose of education is to make children become better people. In this battle, we saw who went to the front line, who died unfortunately, who silently contributed ... The younger generation of "newcomers" came forward and the older "old people" never left ... At this time, it is particularly important to educate children's ideals and beliefs. You can take this opportunity to help children understand the different roles of different industries in this battle by watching news media with them. Explain to children what morality, conscience and belief are by actions, and help them to establish a correct outlook on life, values and world outlook. This is a huge social practice class, in which everyone participates. As a parent, you are a "living textbook" for your children. What your children will look like tomorrow will definitely be engraved with your brand today.
It is difficult for an ideal to shine into reality overnight. Education is a slow process, and there is the deepest happiness on the road. You are cruel to your child now, and he will thank you one day.