Of course, I am one of them. Although I just graduated from school, I like to fight chicken blood every day, and I can't finish today's work, but after several years of grinding, I am slowly slacking off. No, I was cheated by myself at the critical moment.
I don't know if you have such an experience. In the circle of friends, I saw other people's beautifully written small letters. The following comments are all praise. The key is that even the male god who has been in love for a long time praised her, and suddenly there was a feeling of envy and jealousy, which gradually turned into bursts of regret.
I think I practiced calligraphy for a few years when I was a child, and then I gave up after practicing, otherwise I would be the one who can interact with the male god now.
There are so many things I regret because I am lazy that I deeply feel that every laziness I steal now may be a hole dug for my future.
Because every effort is a real existence that will make you better, affecting not only your present, but also your future. Being lazy is actually advancing the comfort that should not belong to you. In the future, when you need a skill and ability to help you tide over the difficulties, you find that you killed it yourself as early as one day in the past.
As the saying goes, people are lazy, and laziness can really bring us satisfaction. What kind of mentality is laziness?
First, I feel nervous for a long time and suddenly want to relax, but I don't have enough restraint. The opposite of laziness is persistence. Persistence is always difficult, and you need to grit your teeth. If you persist for a long time, you will be tired. There is nothing wrong with taking a short rest. The point is, once you relax a tight string for a long time, it is more difficult to tighten it again.
The second is luck. I don't think it's a big problem to steal lazy once or twice, but as the saying goes, if you don't accumulate steps, you will achieve qualitative change one day. If you don't make up your mind at first, try it, because it's normal to give up halfway because you don't pay enough attention to it.
Third, there is no beginning at all. In modern society, we have a lot to learn, and the pressure is not small. Many times, when we decide whether to do something, we ask too many questions. This thing will definitely bring us something, and we are not interested in something that seems to be irrelevant.
He didn't even take the first step, but he was actually a "big slacker". In fact, as long as you do it, you will get something. And those who are lazy in thought and give up directly in action will get nothing but a sigh when they suddenly regret it one day in the future.
Cai Kangyong once said: When you were 65,438+05 years old, you found it difficult to swim, so you gave up swimming. At the age of 65,438+08, when you meet someone you like and ask you to go swimming, you have to say, "I can't." . 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, I have a great job and need English, so you have to say "I can't". This passage is true and profound. Indeed, there are many opportunities in life that I missed because of my previous laziness.
When we begin to do something, we always think too much about whether it is useful or imminent. If you obviously can't do it now, you will do it well. If you can't see its use in a short time, lazy thoughts will crawl into your mind, and as a result, the lazy villain will properly defeat the diligent villain.
One thing that impressed me the most was that a small partner of my age in the same unit was promoted in a short time, and everyone was envious. Later, I heard from my colleagues that people have been working tirelessly and diligently as unit correspondents, that is, writing manuscripts for a long time and frequently.
I tried hard to recall that I did see the notice of the unit soliciting contributions for all employees before. Although I was very tempted at that time, I turned around at the thought of writing so many articles and didn't continue. And those free time, presumably also didn't get better use, either in the brush Weibo sent, or consumed in the chat.
Now, seeing that others have made better progress because of their persistent efforts, I have nothing but regret and chagrin.
I remember when I was at school, my father always warned me with his own lack of efforts: I thought that at the beginning, my father was just playful and could directly assign jobs after finishing high school, so he was too lazy to read or take exams, or regretted not continuing his studies. ...
Time is the fairest. For anyone, every day is 24 hours. Whether we choose to be lazy and curl up in the comfort zone or try to sweat like rain depends on ourselves. I have to take care of my own life. Some things have to be done by yourself sooner or later, and some pains have to be eaten sooner or later. It is better to take advantage of the prime of life at an appropriate time, first bitter and then sweet.
I paved the road for myself and dug the pit for myself. When you are lazy, others are paving the way for yourself and never stop. Maybe you will laugh at other sweaty people: hey, brother, what are you doing so hard? Take a break. As everyone knows, there is already a big pit waiting for you not far in the future.
Youth is the reserve period of life, just like spring in the four seasons. It should be the season of sowing, but you missed it because of fun. Go to Qiu Lai in spring and wait for others to harvest in autumn. What can you harvest?
No road is in vain, nothing is done in vain, and many seemingly useless things are actually the cornerstone of growth.
Flowers will reopen one day and people will no longer be young. If you don't want to sit in a pit and lament your bad luck, then be lazy while you are young and stick to it. Time will give you what you want.