1. Growing up painfully
Dong Qing was born in Zhabei District, Shanghai. His father and mother were born in poverty, but both of them graduated from Fudan University. The family environment of intellectuals and his father's strict tutor made Dong Qing learn to bear hardships and study hard in childhood.
At the age of seven, Dong Qing was asked to start washing dishes, sweeping the floor and doing housework.
Her father also asked her to give consideration to both literary accomplishment and physical quality, so Dong Qing began to recite and copy idioms at an early age. Every morning, she had to run 1 meters around the school playground at the gate. The students all lined up for exercises, and she was the only one who ran around the playground alone.
She sometimes looks at herself in the mirror. When her father saw her, he said to her, "Potatoes are potatoes no matter how they dress up. You might as well read more books when you spend time in the mirror every day." This remark left a deep impression on Dong Qing.
Insist on knowledge first, and temper children's will with hardship from an early age. A father's good intentions can't be more clear.
and what does the child know? Childhood is full of my father's harsh demands, and I don't have new clothes to wear. My father doesn't like to see himself looking in the mirror, and he is forced to run every day, entangled with blunt books. Life is boring and nervous, because my father is never satisfied with himself. Because of this family environment, Dong Qing once wrote the sentence "What's the point of living?"
Perhaps even if parents saw this sentence at that time, they would not necessarily take it seriously. There is always an age gap, and it is normal for human beings not to understand each other.
Many years later, Dong Qing mentioned her father in a TV program, but she burst into tears on the spot. Every time she talked about family of origin, she always lost control of her emotions.
She talked about the day when her father apologized to herself, because they were so harsh on her in those years that they got drunk.
And Dong Qing is relieved now, saying that she has understood her father. Family of origin had such a deep influence on Dong Qing that she said that she would educate him (her) strictly if she had children in the future, because her father's education made her stronger, and she was tough after suffering.
The harsh education of her father has created Dong Qing's excellent and tenacious working ability, which has also caused her to feel insecure, feel inferior to herself and never feel perfect.
At a reading meeting, she also said that everyone is very different and can't turn their growth and experience into an educational method. Similarly, each generation has its own growth environment, and parents can't compress their growth experiences on their children.
Tiger-dad education has its advantages and disadvantages.
2. Growing with love
When Dong Qing was in high school, the teacher discovered her talent and love for art. Dong Qing lied to her father every time that the school had to make up lessons and secretly went to the school's literary rehearsal. Later, after some discussions and disputes with her family, her father stopped objecting, so Dong Qing firmly embarked on the road of art.
After high school, Dong Qing got into the performance major of Zhejiang Art College as she wished. Four years later, she joined the Zhejiang Repertory Theatre and worked at leisure.
That year, she accompanied a friend to take the recruitment examination for Zhejiang TV Station. With the mentality of having a try, Dong Qing also took the examination. An unintentional move made Dong Qing enter the career of a host.
So, Dong Qing started his first job as a host in Zhejiang TV Station. During her two years in Zhejiang Satellite TV, Dong Qing presided over Happy Caravan and Customs of the World. When she first joined the company, she was very excited about her work and was full of energy. She often worked for several people by herself.
Later, Dong Qing took part in the recruitment of Oriental TV Station. After successfully joining the job, she hosted an interview program for entertainment stars, Audio-visual Stars, and later hosted Meet Saturday. The program was well received by the audience, and she herself was famous in Shanghai.
But Dong Qing's ambition doesn't stop there. She decided to get out of the comfort zone again. She heard that the host of CCTV could get the chance to attend the Spring Festival Evening, so Dong Qing resigned from Oriental TV and went to the west to host the central program Charm 12.
The host life in the west is boring and tiring. She often doesn't know what to do after work, but she still habitually supplements her knowledge and is serious about the program. Finally, her efforts and talents are seen by the leaders.
In p>24, Dong Qing hosted the 11th Youth Song Competition, which was broadcast live for 2 days in a row. There were 3 performances in the professional group and the non-professional group for nearly three hours. She was always busy from 8: a.m. to 3: a.m. the next morning, and finally she successfully completed the 2-day hosting with extremely professional attitude.
A series of events seem to witness the growth and transformation of Dong Qing. Dong Qing's own steady temperament, generous and friendly typhoon, and her efforts beyond others, coupled with her love for hosting her career, made her mature and excellent in the tempering of time. Finally, the golden microphone trophy was tightly held in the hands of Dong Qing.
In p>25, Dong Qing first appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and met the people of the whole country, which was a milestone for her. In the following 13 years, we have gradually become accustomed to the dignified figure and gentle smile of Dong Qing in CCTV Spring Festival Evening.
However, behind the smooth sailing of Dong Qing's career, there is a gradual numbness.
In p>212, Dong Qing suffered a career crisis-professional apathy, and she began to lose enthusiasm for her work. She felt that everything seemed to stay where it was, and all the work was doing unnecessary repetition. That psychological bottleneck period made Dong Qing suffer greatly.
"I have settled down in CCTV for 16 years, and I am most proud of my 1% investment. But in 212, I found that I couldn't do it, and you will feel particularly painful. And when this kind of thing appears, only you know it, and others can't see it. Because your professional expression is easy to cover up some things, but after a long time, others will know, and after a long time, you will regress. "
So in 214, Dong Qing thought it over and decided to press the pause button and go to the University of Southern California for further study.
Being in a stable career period, there is still a great opportunity for promotion, and the future seems to be bright all the way. Ordinary people may not give up the bright future of CCTV because of a little anxiety in their hearts, but what is admirable about Dong Qing is that she always knows what she should do and how to keep a good balance.
3. Keep going
After returning from overseas for one year, Dong Qing hosted the reality show "Challenge Impossible".
In the Chinese Poetry Conference, Dong Qing once again refreshed the audience's understanding of her, and she was full of poetry and self-admiration. One contestant said to her, "A beauty should take jade as the bone, snow as the skin, lotus as the face, willow as the posture, and more importantly, take poetry as the heart. I think you are the standard beauty in my mind, and your beauty is fresh and meaningful."
Although this remark is for the sake of blowing, it also vividly illustrates the extra impression of Dong Qing's poetic temperament.
The books you have read will eventually become a part of yourself, and then you can see from your eyes that Dong Qing has not only stayed on the CCTV stage by his intellectual and elegant appearance for more than 2 years. There is light in her eyes, which is her enthusiasm for her work.
Dong Qing didn't have a teleprompter when she hosted the Chinese Poetry Conference, and she didn't exactly follow what was written in the Taiwanese book. When she really spoke, famous poems came easily. Behind this calm and calm, there are countless efforts that the audience can't see.
Dong Qing always carries a small notebook with her, and takes it out to copy and write between work, and copies all the contents worth writing down in the notebook for application. She keeps an hour for reading every day, is critical of her work, and is always nervous when preparing under the stage. She insists on leaving her best smile on the stage.
Later, Dong Qing transformed into a producer, and produced a domestic variety show, The Reader, which blazed a new trail in the vulgar and flashy variety circle.
in an interview later, Dong Qing said that when she was preparing for this program, she collapsed and cried countless times, and she couldn't sleep all night. She was running around for the preparation of the program, often suffering from anxiety, sleeping for three or four hours a day, and one trivial matter and change tortured her. Her parents didn't support Dong Qing's extreme fatigue, but she persisted in the end.
After this carefully-made program was broadcast, it gained a score of Douban 8.6. Paulo coelho's "Fantasy Journey of Shepherd Boys" said: "When you really want something, the whole universe will unite to help you complete it."
She is really a workaholic.
Dong Qing said that as long as she went on stage, she could forget everything. When she takes the microphone and looks at the audience, a sense of pleasure will be full of body and mind, and the host will bring her strength and happiness. That's true from the heart, and it's the satisfaction that work brings to Dong Qing, and nothing can replace it.
As a public CCTV host, Dong Qing's private life is often discussed by paparazzi.
During her one-year study in the United States, she gave birth to a son, and her love life was deeply stripped, written into a text, and blurred photos were inserted, which flooded the marketing numbers.
Later, because he sent his son to study in the United States, he was admitted to the United States, and was criticized by netizens for hypocrisy. In fact, she has never advertised herself as a saint. The work of the host on the stage has nothing to do with her private life. Letting her son enter the United States does not mean unpatriotic. Her excellent hosting work is still undeniable.
I can understand the anger of netizens. After all, there has always been a tradition in China that people ask public figures to be saints.
Dong Qing is never perfect. Every beam of brilliance that blooms on the stage is the result of her efforts. When getting better becomes a habit, the pace of inertia will not stop. At least she is better than most people. I hope we will have a better Dong Qing.