The work of counselors is not a mechanical repetition.
Educators in the post of college student counselors should rationally plan their own development paths and constantly explore new breakthroughs in the process of student work year after year.
College counselors are not an easy job. Aside from the complicated semester and annual arrangement, college students in the "active period" intentionally or unintentionally create some "small accidents" that make teachers sleepless. Although some counselors finally chose to leave, more educators are keen on this cause. In their view, it is happy to get along with students all the time, and it is the self-growth of counselors who accompany a group of students out of school.
Ding Feng, a counselor in the School of Environment and Materials Engineering of Yantai University, is a little famous in the circle of college counselors.
As early as the beginning of 2000, this new college was just established, which means that the work of counselors should be started from scratch. Ding Fengyi gave up the opportunity for full-time teachers to become counselors. For the old leader who advised him to "think carefully", his answer was: "I like dealing with students, and I am happy to be a counselor!" .
For middle-aged Ding Feng, no matter from his work experience or personal energy, he has to face great pressure. In order to bridge the gap, Mr. Ding Feng first took a lot of time to check the gap. He recalled: "At that time, my wife should have been the most troubled, because since I became a counselor, many family chores, such as picking up children from school and taking care of the elderly, have been left to her? In her eyes, I became a complete' slacker' and' net worm'. In fact, I was not used to surfing the Internet at first, and it was then that I realized that there were so many resources for counselors to learn and communicate online. Later, in order to join the exchange group of some counselors, I asked my classmates to apply for a qq number for me. Unexpectedly, this number spread and eventually became an important channel for me to communicate with my classmates. "
After exploring a set of skilled counselors' workflow, Mr. Ding Feng did not regard the follow-up work as a mechanical repetition, but constantly made new attempts in his work. Because he is good at literature and art, he gradually "helps" the counselor's work by using his own specialties in his work. In the past few years, he has gone deep into students, playing flute, practicing calligraphy and rehearsing programs with them. In the process of artistic communication, he permeated with ideological education, educating people imperceptibly, and moistening things silently.
In addition to improving counselors' relevant work ability, Ding Feng also participated in many trainings that can serve college students at his own expense, such as career instructors, psychological counselors, and career planning guidance lecturers. I visited many predecessors in education during the winter and summer vacations. Although many people don't understand his practice and think it's "redundant work", Dante said firmly: "Although many people call counselors students' nannies, I think they should be their parents. If you calculate the input and return like a part-time job, don't expect your children to achieve anything in the future. If you want students to grow up, you must ignore the return-which qualified parent will take the notebook to settle accounts for their children? My goal is actually very simple, that is, to let students study happily and find jobs smoothly? "
"The sword front comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold", which seems to indicate that success is hard-won, but it is not. In the eyes of others, successful people may feel a calm happiness in "tempering" and "bitter cold". If those Nobel Prize winners are all "hot cakes", probably no one is so enthusiastic about the peak of science. They are doing what they like happily, then making progress happily, and then "master" and "success" are quietly born.
Teacher Ding Feng knew what his expected goal was and made a blueprint for his efforts according to his own goal. He took the initiative to devote himself to the self-growth process of "reading thousands of books-walking Wan Li Road-reading countless people-enlightening by famous teachers" and eventually grew into an excellent counselor.
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