What forms a child's character? Ask god for help

There is often a phenomenon in life: there is a striking similarity between parents and children in gestures and smiles, which really seems to be cast in the same mold. There is a saying that sums up this quite common strange phenomenon: dragons give birth to dragons, phoenix gives birth to wind, and mice give birth to sons who can make holes. In fact, this phenomenon is not strange, it just shows the special role of heredity in the formation of gender. In fact, there is not only this wonderful similarity between parents and children, but also between brothers and sisters born to the same parents, there will be more or less similarities in manners, looks and looks, which I don't think, but outsiders can find at once. This also shows the influence of heredity on personality and appearance. At the same time, it is also a vivid explanation of the influence of acquired environment on personality. The so-called "near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico is black". In real life, we often find that couples have good feelings, and they will become more and more similar to each other, which is probably related to their staying together day and night. Therefore, the role of environment in the formation of personality can not be ignored. There are so-called "innate generation theory" or "genetic determination theory" about the role of heredity in the formation of children's personality. It means that a person's personality has been determined at birth, and it will not change or only change a little throughout his life. Heredity plays a key role in the formation of a child's personality. The most powerful evidence to support the theory of "innate generation" or "genetic determination" is family system research, that is, "family research" By observing whether all members of a family have some common characteristics, it examines the degree of influence of heredity on the formation of personality. The results of this research show that some family members generally have some special talents. For example, the famous German composer Bach's family produced 13 composers with strong creative ability in five consecutive generations, and the famous Swiss mathematician Bernoulli's family produced 8 excellent mathematicians in the 17th century. Zola, a famous French writer, widely used the "innate generation theory" of personality in his novels. In Zola's works, people in a family often have some similar hobbies, while Zola's naturalistic novels are completely realistic, which truly and objectively reproduce these strange phenomena in real life. Family system research also shows that not only some special talents can be passed on from the previous generation to the next generation, but also some bad characters may be reproduced by the next generation. For example, the proportion of criminals in some families is high, which is because their criminal characters are passed on from the previous generation to the next generation. Following the research of family system, there is another research method about the theory of innate generation of personality, that is, people study the personality of twins, especially the study of the personality of monozygotic twins, which can best explain the influence of heredity on the formation of children's personality. After careful research on the personalities of these twins, it is found in academic circles that there are great similarities between identical twin brothers and sisters in terms of "mental liveliness", "basic personality", "ability to feel the outside world" and "personality tendency". "Spiritual liveliness" refers to whether the spirit belongs to the type of being impatient and lively or slow. Mr. Chamo Wu Jun, a Japanese gender psychologist, pointed out that heredity plays a decisive role in mental liveliness by studying the performance of some twins in collective life. In our daily life, we will find that many twins are not only strikingly similar in appearance, which makes people almost unrecognizable, but also incredibly similar in their personalities. They are either lively and outgoing, or they are quiet and quiet, which makes it more difficult to distinguish. I am afraid that except close friends, others can't easily determine whether they are in front of their brothers or sisters. In real life, we also find that in a family, if parents are cheerful all day and always smile at people, their children must be people who always smile. On the contrary, if parents keep a gloomy face all day, children rarely show their good faces, which is also the role of heredity in the formation of a person's personality. The research on the influence of heredity on the formation of people's character also shows that some people are considerate, considerate and considerate of others, while others are full of selfish thoughts, preoccupied with themselves and always self-centered. This personal difference is also due to heredity to a great extent. Since heredity plays such an important role in the formation of a person's personality, as has been said before, a person's personality determines his fate to a great extent, which is related to his career, family, interpersonal relationship and many other aspects of life. Therefore, parents should pay attention to improving the disadvantages of their own personality for the sake of their children, and don't let themselves become a stumbling block to their children's future progress. The formation of personality also has a great relationship with the surrounding environment in which a person lives. As parents, they should also strive to create a good growth environment for their children. The legend of Meng Mu's godson is a good example of this. Now, the story of "Meng Mu's Three Movements" has long been a household name. Mencius did not let his mother's painstaking efforts go to waste, and finally became a great homesick in the history of China, known as the "Asian sage". With very few exceptions, due to the limitations of objective conditions, it is certainly impossible for modern people to move frequently because of dissatisfaction with the surrounding environment like the mother, but we can at least create a good family environment for our children. In life, we find that the children of poor families are sensible earlier and more mature than other children of the same age. This is because "the children of poor people take charge early"; In life, we also find that some talented children live in a family environment that helps them develop their special talents in this field since they were young. For example, Jeikiy's fluent English has impressed many young people and attracted many parents. As everyone knows, Zhu Tongsheng was trained in English since he was a diplomat, so he learned English translation skills. In those cases where a family produces many musicians at the same time, although the inheritance of musical talent accounts for a large proportion, we can never deny the influence from the musical environment. A child with high musical talent, if he grows up in an environment completely insulated from music, I am afraid it is difficult to make a difference in music. In life, we may also have the experience that a person who has lived in an affluent environment since childhood, because he never worries about some small daily things, can easily form a generous and open-minded character, won't haggle over every ounce, let everything go, and has an inclusive tolerance. Mr. Qi Gong, a calligrapher in China, has such a character. Children who grow up in a scholarly family will reveal a kind of Wen Ya temperament between their gestures, and the simplicity and simplicity of children from rural areas can't be concealed. Children with good family education treat people with courtesy and respect for the elderly. On the contrary, children who have been pampered since childhood may seem arrogant and difficult to approach. These are all powerful evidence that the environment has an effect on people's character. There are more examples of the influence of environment on the formation of children's personality: children who often communicate with others have strong ability in dealing with interpersonal relationships and appear natural and graceful in front of people. On the contrary, children who have less communication with people will form a quiet and introverted personality, and they will blush when they talk, which makes them feel embarrassed and at a loss. Therefore, parents should also pay attention to creating a good family environment for their children and let them learn to interact with others. Caring children often live in a loving family. Parents of caring children are bound to be caring people. Parents of helpful children are generally not indifferent people. Theoretically speaking, a bad environment may lead to a child's bad personality. That is to say, under the extremely bad social atmosphere, there is often such a phenomenon in young people's life: parents and children have amazing similarities in gestures and smiles, which really seem to be cast in the same mold. There is a saying that sums up this quite common strange phenomenon: dragons give birth to dragons, phoenix gives birth to wind, and mice give birth to sons who can make holes. In fact, this phenomenon is not strange, it just shows the special role of heredity in the formation of gender. In fact, there is not only this wonderful similarity between parents and children, but also between brothers and sisters born to the same parents, there will be more or less similarities in manners, looks and looks, which I don't think, but outsiders can find at once. This also shows the influence of heredity on personality and appearance. At the same time, it is also a vivid explanation of the influence of acquired environment on personality. The so-called "near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico is black". In real life, we often find that couples have good feelings, and they will become more and more similar to each other, which is probably related to their staying together day and night. Therefore, the role of environment in the formation of personality can not be ignored. There are so-called "innate generation theory" or "genetic determination theory" about the role of heredity in the formation of children's personality. It means that a person's personality has been determined at birth, and it will not change or only change a little throughout his life. Heredity plays a key role in the formation of a child's personality. The most powerful evidence to support the theory of "innate generation" or "genetic determination" is family system research, that is, "family research" By observing whether all members of a family have some common characteristics, it examines the degree of influence of heredity on the formation of personality. The results of this research show that some family members generally have some special talents. For example, the famous German composer Bach's family produced 13 composers with strong creative ability in five consecutive generations, and the famous Swiss mathematician Bernoulli's family produced 8 excellent mathematicians in the 17th century. Zola, a famous French writer, widely used the "innate generation theory" of personality in his novels. In Zola's works, people in a family often have some similar hobbies, while Zola's naturalistic novels are completely realistic, which truly and objectively reproduce these strange phenomena in real life. Family system research also shows that not only some special talents can be passed on from the previous generation to the next generation, but also some bad characters may be reproduced by the next generation. For example, the proportion of criminals in some families is high, which is because their criminal characters are passed on from the previous generation to the next generation. Following the research of family system, there is another research method about the theory of innate generation of personality, that is, people study the personality of twins, especially the study of the personality of monozygotic twins, which can best explain the influence of heredity on the formation of children's personality. After careful research on the personalities of these twins, it is found in academic circles that there are great similarities between identical twin brothers and sisters in terms of "mental liveliness", "basic personality", "ability to feel the outside world" and "personality tendency". "Spiritual liveliness" refers to whether the spirit belongs to the type of being impatient and lively or slow. Mr. Chamo Wu Jun, a Japanese gender psychologist, pointed out that heredity plays a decisive role in mental liveliness by studying the performance of some twins in collective life. In our daily life, we will find that many twins are not only strikingly similar in appearance, which makes people almost unrecognizable, but also incredibly similar in their personalities. They are either lively and outgoing, or they are quiet and quiet, which makes it more difficult to distinguish. I am afraid that except close friends, others can't easily determine whether they are in front of their brothers or sisters. In real life, we also find that in a family, if parents are cheerful all day and always smile at people, their children must be people who always smile. On the contrary, if parents keep a gloomy face all day, children rarely show their good faces, which is also the role of heredity in the formation of a person's personality. The research on the influence of heredity on the formation of people's character also shows that some people are considerate, considerate and considerate of others, while others are full of selfish thoughts, preoccupied with themselves and always self-centered. This personal difference is also due to heredity to a great extent. Since heredity plays such an important role in the formation of a person's personality, as has been said before, a person's personality determines his fate to a great extent, which is related to his career, family, interpersonal relationship and many other aspects of life. Therefore, parents should pay attention to improving the disadvantages of their own personality for the sake of their children, and don't let themselves become a stumbling block to their children's future progress. The formation of personality also has a great relationship with the surrounding environment in which a person lives. As parents, they should also strive to create a good growth environment for their children. The legend of Meng Mu's godson is a good example of this. Now, the story of "Meng Mu's Three Movements" has long been a household name. Mencius did not let his mother's painstaking efforts go to waste, and finally became a great homesick in the history of China, known as the "Asian sage". With very few exceptions, due to the limitations of objective conditions, it is certainly impossible for modern people to move frequently because of dissatisfaction with the surrounding environment like the mother, but we can at least create a good family environment for our children. In life, we find that the children of poor families are sensible earlier and more mature than other children of the same age. This is because "the children of poor people take charge early"; In life, we also find that some talented children live in a family environment that helps them develop their special talents in this field since they were young. For example, Jeikiy's fluent English has impressed many young people and attracted many parents. As everyone knows, Zhu Tongsheng was trained in English since he was a diplomat, so he learned English translation skills. In those cases where a family produces many musicians at the same time, although the inheritance of musical talent accounts for a large proportion, we can never deny the influence from the musical environment. A child with high musical talent, if he grows up in an environment completely insulated from music, I am afraid it is difficult to make a difference in music. In life, we may also have the experience that a person who has lived in an affluent environment since childhood, because he never worries about some small daily things, can easily form a generous and open-minded character, won't haggle over every ounce, let everything go, and has an inclusive tolerance. Mr. Qi Gong, a calligrapher in China, has such a character. Children who grow up in a scholarly family will reveal a kind of Wen Ya temperament between their gestures, and the simplicity and simplicity of children from rural areas can't be concealed. Children with good family education treat people with courtesy and respect for the elderly. On the contrary, children who have been pampered since childhood may seem arrogant and difficult to approach. These are all powerful evidence that the environment has an effect on people's character. There are more examples of the influence of environment on the formation of children's personality: children who often interact with others have strong ability in dealing with interpersonal relationships and appear natural and graceful in front of people. On the contrary, children who have less interaction with others will form a quiet and introverted personality, which is poor at it.