The book is divided into two parts, the first part is reading, and the second part is being a man. Ji Lao's writing style is simple, and the article has no flowery rhetoric. He introduced Ji Lao's life-long study experience. After reading this book, I suddenly knew why Ji Lao could become a master.
the first part-reading gives me the feeling that I should read more books. Usually, I always say that I am too busy and tired with housework and work, and I have no time to study. This is an excuse for myself, not because I have no time, but because I can't remember to study. Ji Lao's words made me very ashamed: "Time is a constant, it is the same for everyone, and no one will have an extra second and a half every day." Time is particularly precious, and it is necessary to race against time. However, personal situations are different. For some people, there is a problem of how to use time. In the future, I will learn to inherit Mr. Ji Xianlin's "scrap" that cherishes time and turn excuses into motivation.
the second part is to be a man, which gives me the greatest gain: people should be content. Don't always complain about the disappointments in life, but think from another angle. Maybe your serious disappointments will become your own advantages, so your mind will be open, so why not?
Mr. Ji Lao wrote in his book that "everyone must ask why, everything happens for a reason, and should not be taken lightly. People must study to inherit and carry forward the wisdom of their predecessors. The reason why human beings can make progress depends on the ability to read and write. " As a teacher, we should have a tireless attitude, absorb nutrition from books, learn more educational theories, learn how to treat students, and treat every student with a developmental perspective.
"To treat all kind people, whether they are family members or friends, there should be a two-word motto: one is truth, the other is forbearance. Those who are true, treat each other with sincerity and sincerity, and are not allowed to resort to deceit; Treating bad people is another matter. Ninja, tolerate each other. " Simple words let us know how to treat our friends in society. The so-called "truth" refers to treating people around you with sincerity and true feelings, and reaching out to help if you have difficulties. This is true. The so-called "forbearance" is tolerance. People should understand and tolerate each other, even if they are misunderstood by others, they should learn to put themselves in other's shoes. Even if other people's practices are not what they want, consider whether your own practices are not accepted by others.
Mr. Ji Lao also wrote in his book: "Human beings are social animals. It is impossible for a person to have no friends in society. Everyone's life is a struggle. In this struggle, if you have no friends, you will be alone, and there are few losers. If you have friends, you will be United and there will be few winners. " This inculcation of Mr. Ji Lao teaches us to live in harmony with the people around us, care for each other, and move forward side by side without cliques; For the weak, don't be cocky and domineering, just like treating close friends; Respect the strong.
After reading it, I haven't digested the truth in the book well, but it has enlightened my mind and strengthened my standards and chips in doing things and being a man.