Hello everyone!
Our view is that people should be honest and not lie.
Honesty is the virtue of the Chinese nation, just as the Great Wall is the symbol of the Chinese nation. If a person loses integrity, he will leave hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses integrity, it will face bankruptcy crisis; And if a nation loses its integrity, it will face degeneration and death. Keeping integrity means keeping a pure land, keeping integrity means keeping success, and keeping integrity means keeping the Chinese nation eternal. Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good?
A lie is a lie after all, no matter how beautiful it looks on the surface, as long as you lift its veil, it will be extremely ugly. A lie is a lie after all, which is an unchangeable fact, so I think that whether it is good or bad, it is a lie and a wound that we human beings can't touch. Lies are called "lies" because they are false, untrue and deceptive words. If a person often lies and cheats others, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the children in Wolf, they cry "Wolf" every day, seeking excitement and happiness. When the wolf does come, he has to face it alone and bear it alone. No matter how much he shouts, it won't help, and no one will come to help him again. Because people who might come to help him are used to his yelling and think that he is "teasing you" again. It can be seen that lies hinder honesty
There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled after hitting the teacher. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness. Mark? Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponent and make your friends feel relieved. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
Among the 20-character moral standards put forward in the Implementation Outline of Citizen Moral Construction promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "sincerity" is a very important criterion, which means seeking truth and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society with democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature."
From the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
Asking the other party to argue that it is a lie? How can you have a good impression? ! It's goodwill! Why lie? !
Although a lie is well-intentioned, as a lie itself, it is a violation of good faith. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, making a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
A white lie is an excuse! Anyone who uses an excuse wants to use it to protect himself or others. Help us save face and let us endure setbacks.
We believe that so-called white lies are harmful to integrity. Of course, the lies here are not what people usually call shocking scams, but lies that pretend to affirm or support (actually disapprove) the practices, opinions or opinions of spouses, relatives and friends.
Take Tom, the company manager in Southern California, for example. Tom spends Thanksgiving with his wife and son at his mother-in-law's house every year. In fact, he didn't like the "special" pumpkin pie made by his mother-in-law, but he told her how delicious her pie was so as not to hurt her feelings. Suppose one day, Tom's son confided the truth in front of his grandmother, and her mother-in-law discovered Tom's true feelings. She will tell Tom, "Thank you for your kindness?" I also felt emotionally hurt and said, "How could you mislead me like this for so many years? What else are you hiding from me? " Besides, what questions will Tom's mother-in-law have about herself? Does Tom's son also want to imitate his father's lies? What would he think of his father's character? Will he still believe what his father said?
That's all, thank you!