Modern women always complain that all the men they meet are "love rat". Indeed, it seems to be a man's nature to give up from the beginning. "There are no cats who don't cheat, and there are no men who don't cheat." How did the famous talented women in ancient times deal with "love change"?
If life is just like the first time, you don't have to draw a fan in the autumn wind.
It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change.
Lishan dialect stops at midnight, and tears never complain.
More importantly, if you are lucky, you will be more willing than before.
This sentence by Nalan Rong Ruo tells how many people think about love. Getting along with the right person should always be as sweet, warm, affectionate and happy as when we first met. But you and I should love each other, but why should we leave each other today?
All men in the world are unfortunate. In ancient times, talented women met their husbands' fickle thoughts. What did they do?
Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun.
This is a story that has been told.
Sima Xiangru was a famous gifted scholar in the early years of the Western Han Dynasty and lived in Chengdu, Sichuan. Although he is famous, his family is poor. On one occasion, Sima Xiangru was invited to visit Zhuo Wangsun, the richest man in Lin Qiong. During the dinner, Sima Xiangru was invited to play the piano. Sima Xiangru knew that Zhuo Sunwen had a widowed daughter, Zhuo Wenjun, and sang a song "Begging for Phoenix" while playing.
Feng Feng returned to his hometown and traveled around the world looking for his death.
I didn't know what to do when I didn't meet Xi. Why don't I go to Sishang today?
There are beautiful women in the boudoir, and the people in the room are poisoning my intestines.
Why do you want to be a mandarin duck? You are flying!
This is a courtship song. Zhuo Wenjun is known for his elegance when he smells the piano. When she opened the bead curtain, she saw that Sima Xiangru was very handsome, and her heart was touched. No one knows where she got such great courage. She eloped, abandoned her father, abandoned her mansion, and ran away with her sweetheart at night!
Wen Jun runs at night like a family. Wen Jun left her daughter to sell wine, opened a small bar in Lin Qiong and worked as a bartender. Zhuo Wangsun was ashamed and sponsored his daughter and son-in-law. Sima Xiangru won, and he became a model of "Phoenix Man" through the ages. He won the beauty and went home, taking his father-in-law's money. Zhuo Wenjun thought she married the best husband in the world.
The good times didn't last long. Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty knew Sima Xiangru's literary talent and recruited him to Chang 'an. Sima Xiangru presented "Shang Fulin", and Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was very happy. He immediately worshipped Xiangru as a Langguan.
Being famous, I naturally have a wide range of friends, and sleeping willow has gradually become an ordinary scenery in ordinary days. And she, once the only scenery in her eyes, gradually faded out of the background.
Soon, Zhuo Wenjun, who lives in his hometown in Chengdu, received a letter from home. There were only thirteen numbers: "1234567891 million", but there was no "100 million". Your heart is cold and you have no memory.
He wants to marry a concubine.
Can * * * adversity but not * * * wealth, she smiled coldly and immediately replied to him.
After the farewell, the two places hung together. Only in March and April, but who knows five or six years. The lyre has no intention to play, and the eight-part essay can't be passed down. The nine-part chain has never been interrupted, and the ten-mile pavilion is longer than me. I can't understand it, I can't understand it, so I have no choice but to blame Lang.
A thousand words, endless, bored, ten lean on the bar. On the ninth day, you can see the lonely geese, and the full moon in August is not round. In July and a half, burn incense and ask the sky. In the dog days of June, everyone shakes my heart. Pomegranate in May is redder than fire, but it encounters cold rain flowers. April loquat is not yellow, and the more you want to be with the mirror, the more confused you are. In a hurry, peach blossoms float with the water in March, and kites break strings in February. Hey, Lang Lang, I hope that in the next life, you will come for women and I will come for men.
If you want to play word games, I, Zhuo Wenjun, am not worse than you, Sima Xiangru.
If you don't miss me anymore, why should I miss you? Zhuo Wenjun wrote more poems, clearer and louder than Xiang Ru-
Baitouge
Love should be as pure as snow in the mountains and as bright as clouds on the moon.
I heard that you have two hearts, so I came to break up with you.
Today's fighting party will lead to tomorrow's ditch water.
On Youyugou, the river flows east and west.
When I decided to take the king away from home, I didn't cry like an ordinary girl.
I am full of thinking that if I marry a person with a heart, I can love each other and be happy forever.
The bamboo pole is curled and the fish tail is twisted.
Men value spirit, why use money and knives?
Attached is a farewell book: "Chunhua Fang Jing, five-color Su Ling, the sound of the piano is still imperial, and the new sound replaces the old! Jinshui has a honeymoon period, and there are trees in the Han Palace. They are all new, and everyone in the world is ignorant! "
Then I wrote two more lines: "Zhu Xian was broken, the mirror disappeared, the morning dew fell, the fragrance rested, the bald head sang, and I left my sorrow.". Try to eat more, don't miss my concubine, and make soup with you! "
"Wen Jun had two ideas, so he refused each other." The woman's refusal was also a kind of heroism. Wen Jun still loves him, but she doesn't want to save him by crying like other women. If you want to break up, I won't pester you Her poems are her last attempt, and her determination is to call back Sima Xiangru's love for her.
When he came back, Sima Xiangru saw Wen Jun's poems, thought of his promise in his later years, and never left.
Zhao Mengfu and Guan Daosheng.
When I was a child, I saw a TV series called "It rained cats and dogs". There is a line in the theme song "Remember when you Nong Nong me". I don't know what you mean by calling me. Later, when I grew up, I realized that there was a story of a talented woman here.
Zhao Mengfu, a great talent in the south of the Yangtze River in Yuan Dynasty, is an all-rounder of poetry, painting and calligraphy after Su Dongpo. His regular script is called "Zhao Ti", which has a great influence on calligraphy in Ming and Qing Dynasties. His wife, Guan Daosheng, is also a talented woman, who is good at drawing bamboo, and wrote the book Zhu Mo, which has been handed down from generation to generation, which is of great benefit to future generations to learn to draw bamboo.
It was common for celebrities in society to take concubinage at that time. Zhao Mengfu is unwilling to be lonely, wants to take a concubine, and her career is thriving. Zhao Mengfu, who is nearly fifty years old, also envies beautiful young girls. But he couldn't explain it clearly to his wife, but a scholar has a way of being a scholar and made a small word to his wife: "I am a bachelor and you are a wife." I don't know if Wang has peach leaves and peach roots, but Su has morning clouds and dusk clouds. It's not too much for me to marry more Wu Ji and Yue Nv. You are forty years old, just take care of Yutangchun. " This word means that you have never heard that Mr. Wang Xianzhi has two concubines, Ye Tao and Taogen, and Mr. Su Shi also has two concubines, Chaoyun and Muyun. Therefore, it is not too much for me to marry more concubines; Besides, you are over 40 years old, so just sit in the stalls.
After reading it, Mrs. Guan also wrote a poem "I Nong Ci", which not only replaced answering her husband, but also expressed her heart sound.
You are so affectionate, so affectionate, so fiery.
Put a piece of mud, pinch a you, mold a me,
Separate us, mix with water,
Pinch another you, mold a me, you are in the mud, and I am in the mud.
Born like you, died like you.
Zhao Mengfu got the word and had to give up the idea of concubinage. This literary anecdote was later passed down as a love story between husband and wife.
"How long can it take to convince people with color?" Talented women keep their love with their wisdom and talent. Not only made a love legend, but also left immortal poems.